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"Hi I’m a Cuckquean and have been for about 8 years.Are there any like minded women out there cuckqueans or cuckcakes. I really enjoy watching my husband fuck other women, seeing the enjoyment on their faces is such a turn on for me. I also like him going off and meeting women without me and hearing all the kinky details later while I suck his cock. In the past I have spent the night in a spare room while I listen to hubby fuck a girl we had over for the night in our bed, it was amazing. Seeing and helping him slide his cock into other women is such a turn on for me and of course he loves it too. I’m happy for him to do pretty much anything he wants with these women, it’s just a shame it’s so hard to find anyone that is interested in our lifestyle. Are there any other cuckqueans or cuckcakes out there? What’s your story ? X" Are you on tumblr? I swear I follow a blog with the same name as yours  | |||
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"My Mrs is a cuckquean. She loves it. It's such a crazy turn on for me as well " It’s just so naughty isn’t it. Cuckquean husbands are very lucky  | |||
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"I love hubby meeting a lady on his own and sending me pictures and videos of what’s going on Then I jump on him when he gets home lol Shame it’s so difficult to find a willing lady Minnie x" I like to be fucked while he tells me all about her , how she felt etc. I’ve been getting my husband to look at pictures of my friends while I suck his cock , I love him looking at them and telling me what he wants to do with her while he cums in my mouth ?? | |||
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"I love hubby meeting a lady on his own and sending me pictures and videos of what’s going on Then I jump on him when he gets home lol Shame it’s so difficult to find a willing lady Minnie x I like to be fucked while he tells me all about her , how she felt etc. I’ve been getting my husband to look at pictures of my friends while I suck his cock , I love him looking at them and telling me what he wants to do with her while he cums in my mouth ??" that is so damn hot ! | |||
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"Cuckquean here. My thing is to sit and watch the fucking and sucking and have hands free verbal restraint. No touching him, her or myself while they fuck in front of me. Recently had a lady over who was a really big squirter so the obvious scenario was for him to make her orgasm and squirt over my tits while I sat and watched. My end result was a very wet and happy ending, the involuntary orgasms are the best part of the watching. People that aren't part of it think it's wierd, probably cos they don't understand the turn on and excitement that it has. JJ xx" Love this, great expression of the cuckquean thrill. | |||
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"Cuckquean here. My thing is to sit and watch the fucking and sucking and have hands free verbal restraint. No touching him, her or myself while they fuck in front of me. Recently had a lady over who was a really big squirter so the obvious scenario was for him to make her orgasm and squirt over my tits while I sat and watched. My end result was a very wet and happy ending, the involuntary orgasms are the best part of the watching. People that aren't part of it think it's wierd, probably cos they don't understand the turn on and excitement that it has. JJ xx" *hoses self down* your man is one lucky fella | |||
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"Well tonight is the night! I have my friend coming over tonight to fuck my hubby while I watch. She’s beautiful, long dark hair and big tits ( bigger than mine ). I can’t wait to watch them and hear her enjoy his cock. " I know there’s at least one of my friends that hubby would like to fuck and I’d love him to but I just can’t tell her lol | |||
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"What is a cuckcake ? The other women, the one that fucks the Cuckqueans other half " | |||
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"Any other quckqueans out there?" This is something we are exploring, I love seeing him kiss other women and flirt, watching him have sex with them (i’d be quite happy not to get involved sometimes! Watching him is pleasure enough), Wednesday he is off on a ‘date’ with a lady, so looking forward to it. Danish x | |||
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"Any other quckqueans out there? This is something we are exploring, I love seeing him kiss other women and flirt, watching him have sex with them (i’d be quite happy not to get involved sometimes! Watching him is pleasure enough), Wednesday he is off on a ‘date’ with a lady, so looking forward to it. Danish x" Me too, absolutely love it. Had my friend over on Friday evening and we all played but the best part was watching her ride his cock xx | |||
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"Sorry.. bit off topic.. what is it called when the woman is the dominant one. The man is the cuck and what is the lady calling the shots called? Or doesnt she really have a title? X" That's just cuckolding, the more popular/common one | |||
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"I been Cuckcake but didn't know it at the time. He would fuck me then go home and tell his wife all about it. I found out he was married broke it off and then his wife came to see me to ask if I would continue. I did for a little while." Sounds kinky. My Mrs would love you as a cuck cake with your lovely boobs | |||
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"I been Cuckcake but didn't know it at the time. He would fuck me then go home and tell his wife all about it. I found out he was married broke it off and then his wife came to see me to ask if I would continue. I did for a little while." That’s so naughty, I’d love that. Did you see him again? | |||
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"Quean and Cake here. Such a hot thing although I don't get to play that way as often as I would like. " I know what you mean, it’s a shame it’s so difficult but it’s so kinky | |||
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"We’re into this as well. Really hard to find willing females. We usually have to resort to professional help." Professional help?? | |||
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"Hi I’m a Cuckquean and have been for about 8 years.Are there any like minded women out there cuckqueans or cuckcakes. I really enjoy watching my husband fuck other women, seeing the enjoyment on their faces is such a turn on for me. I also like him going off and meeting women without me and hearing all the kinky details later while I suck his cock. In the past I have spent the night in a spare room while I listen to hubby fuck a girl we had over for the night in our bed, it was amazing. Seeing and helping him slide his cock into other women is such a turn on for me and of course he loves it too. I’m happy for him to do pretty much anything he wants with these women, it’s just a shame it’s so hard to find anyone that is interested in our lifestyle. Are there any other cuckqueans or cuckcakes out there? What’s your story ? X" We're here!! We were thinking it was just us. We like to play almost identical to how you have described! I have been sent away to play, had a couple of ladies at home too. Once with the Wife laying next to us and helping guide me in, before leaving for the spare room to play with herself. | |||
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"Cuckquean here. My thing is to sit and watch the fucking and sucking and have hands free verbal restraint. No touching him, her or myself while they fuck in front of me. Recently had a lady over who was a really big squirter so the obvious scenario was for him to make her orgasm and squirt over my tits while I sat and watched. My end result was a very wet and happy ending, the involuntary orgasms are the best part of the watching. People that aren't part of it think it's wierd, probably cos they don't understand the turn on and excitement that it has. JJ xx" That's sounds amazing. Would love to have a cake whilst my wife is tied to a chair so she can't touch. | |||
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"We're here!! We were thinking it was just us. We like to play almost identical to how you have described! I have been sent away to play, had a couple of ladies at home too. Once with the Wife laying next to us and helping guide me in, before leaving for the spare room to play with herself. "Ooof... Guiding him in is the hottest thing ever. Then I love watching and whispering smut in his ear as he fucks her... | |||
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"We're here!! We were thinking it was just us. We like to play almost identical to how you have described! I have been sent away to play, had a couple of ladies at home too. Once with the Wife laying next to us and helping guide me in, before leaving for the spare room to play with herself.
Ooof... Guiding him in is the hottest thing ever.
Then I love watching and whispering smut in his ear as he fucks her... "We maintained eye contact, even held hands, and the 3 of us all came together!  | |||
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"I have been seeking a cuckquean for a long term relationship/lifestyle for years I shall remain single until I find her and worship her. Where do I find her???" It's the dream. I would love to know where they all hang out | |||
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"Take a look at my page Arabiccuckqueanxxx on “Bdmslr” " Will have to check it out. You seem to have a lot of very decent knowledge on it. It's dose seem anlagous to Cuckold men. | |||
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"Hi I’m a Cuckquean and have been for about 8 years.Are there any like minded women out there cuckqueans or cuckcakes. I really enjoy watching my husband fuck other women, seeing the enjoyment on their faces is such a turn on for me. I also like him going off and meeting women without me and hearing all the kinky details later while I suck his cock. In the past I have spent the night in a spare room while I listen to hubby fuck a girl we had over for the night in our bed, it was amazing. Seeing and helping him slide his cock into other women is such a turn on for me and of course he loves it too. I’m happy for him to do pretty much anything he wants with these women, it’s just a shame it’s so hard to find anyone that is interested in our lifestyle. Are there any other cuckqueans or cuckcakes out there? What’s your story ? X" we are in the same position noone seems to appreciate that the women loves to see this also xc | |||
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What is a cuckquean? Traditionally, a cuckquean (or simply quean) is a woman who gets sexual pleasure from her husband having sex with other women. This can manifest in a multitude of ways. What follows are just a few of them.
Casual cuckquean
Very nearly a swinger, the casual cuckquean differentiates herself from a purely open relationship in that she gets more sexual gratification from her husband with another woman than herself with another man. She may swing sparingly, but is otherwise content for her husband to swing while she merely watches, chaperones, or does something else altogether (maybe a girls’ night or a quiet night alone).
Closet cuckquean
For her, being a quean is purely a fantasy. For whatever reason it’s a lifestyle she can’t or chooses not to indulge in, but the idea of it is always on her mind. It’s her primary go-to for porn, and she fantasizes about it in bed whether alone or with a partner. While she may not be practicing or “in the lifestyle”, she is a valid quean and an important part of the community.
Humiliation cuckquean
Arguably the most common type of quean, she gets off on the humiliation of having a partner who seeks other women over her. She may want to be degraded, denied sexual activity, or dommed by her husband or his cake. For her, incredible mood swings are common, and it is important she have a husband who understands her ups and downs and is tuned in to her moods.
Compersive cuckquean
Simply put, compersion is the opposite of jealousy. A compersive person is happy when others are happy. In this way, a quean encourages her husband to partake in sexual or romantic relationships with other women, sharing her partner’s arousal. Similarly, she may offer her husband to a female friend whom she feels is deserving of or in need of sex with him.
Polyamorous cuckquean (Millennial cuckquean; Gen-Z cuckquean)
Similar to the casual cuckquean, the polyamorous cuckquean is far less concerned with monogamy. In line with millennial and Generation-Z sensibilities towards casual sexual relationships, she is likely to identify as polyamorous and be one of multiple women in a sexual and/or romantic relationship with a single man. Not strictly a cuckquean by this definition, things become more clear when she begins to derive sexual satisfaction thinking about or witnessing her male partner with another female in the relationship.
Bisexual/biflexible cuckquean
A quean who gets sexual gratification from interacting with the women her husband sleeps with. Physically very similar to a FFM threesome, the difference for the quean is mental. She is turned on not because the cake is a woman, but because she is an object of sexual desire for her husband. She identifies as straight, but will happily lick, suck, finger, or otherwise pleasure the women her husband chooses. She may do this while her husband is fucking her, or may wait until he is done and “reclaim” his cum from the other woman.
Cheated cuckquean
She either knows or suspects her husband cheats on her. She might not let on that she knows, allowing him to think he is fooling her. She experiences intense sexual arousal when she knows he is with his girlfriend or when she finds evidence of his infidelity (condoms, bobby pins, perfume or makeup smudges on his clothing, other womens’ clothing that is not hers, etc.). Alternatively, she may have a faithful husband she encourages to cheat, taking pleasure leaving him alone with female friends for long periods of time, talking up how attractive other women are, or dropping subtle hints that he is free to cheat.
Domme cuckquean (cuckqueen)
To her, both her husband and his cake serve her will. She gets off on choosing her husband’s partners, setting up their dates, and directing them in the bedroom. To her, it’s not about humiliation, but about having total control. Her husband fucks who she wants, when she wants. The cake is there only because she wants her there. She participates at her pleasure, and no one cums without her permission.
Gayplay cuckquean
The gayplay quean’s husband seeks sexual relationships with other men only. He may be truly gay and their marriage is a front; he may be bisexual and she prefers he be active with men over women; or she may be a domme and play off her sub husband’s biflexibility, humiliating him by making him perform gay acts for her pleasure.
Romantic cuckquean
Not satisfied with strictly sexual relationships, the romantic quean wants her husband to fall in love with his partners. She may want the love to be coequal, or she may want him to love his partners more than he loves her.
Breeding cuckquean
The breeding quean has an intense desire for her husband to cum inside other women, with the risk of impregnation front-and-center. She may believe his genes are superior and other women are lucky to be inseminated by him. Alternatively, she may only be interested in breed-play, where merely the idea or risk of pregnancy is the allure, and stops short of active breeding.
Momquean
A woman who is jealous of her son’s sexual encounters (male version: cuckoldad; a man whose daughter is commonly known to be sexually promiscuous). She is not sexually attracted to her son, but she is obsessed with the obvious sexual pleasure his girlfriends get out of him. She fantasizes about her son fucking other women (not her), indulging in the shame of her near-taboo thoughts.
Some other things to consider:
Why “quean”?
The popular belief is that quean is purposely misspelled as a mockery or perversion of “queen”. While this most certainly is a factor in choice of spelling, it should be noted that “quean” dates back to the 10th century and through the centuries has meant “prostitute”, or a “disreputable, impudent or ill-behaved girl or woman” with strong undertones relating those traits to her sexual activities.
Who can be a cuckquean?
Cuckqueanism isn’t an exclusive club. Generally speaking, the rules are broad: The quean identifies as a female (he is a cuckold if he identifies as male), and she wants her romantic-sexual partner to have romantic and/or sexual relationships with other people. That’s about it. Her motives, feelings, and desires are unique to her.
Lesbian cuckqueans
A woman in a lesbian relationship can by all means be a cuckquean. As long as she wants to her partner to have a romantic and/or sexual relationship with another person. The lesbian cuckquean could have any of the motives listed here, with the added twist that she may prefer her partner have sex with a man, subverting their homophilic relationship.
Queans-in-training
Marriage is not a prerequisite to be a quean. Women with boyfriends and fiancees can be queans too. Similarly, age or experience doesn’t factor into what makes a “true” cuckquean, either. Indeed, a girl may realize she is a quean long before she ever has her first sexual relationship (or even knows there is a term for it).
Alt-queans
As with marital status, gender roles are dynamic too. While the quean typically identifies as female, she may have a female or trans partner. Queanism isn’t constrained to traditional gender roles (see: lesbian cuckqueans).
Non-consensual cuckqueans?
I have been asked “How do I turn my partner into a cuckquean?”. Short answer; you can’t. And you shouldn’t try. It’s not your choice if your partner wants to be a quean, it’s hers. You can and should discuss your kinks and desires in open dialog with your partner, but if becoming a quean is a hard No, than respect that and move on. Being a partner to a quean is more than just a free pass to sleep with whoever you want (maybe your fantasies about having sex with people other than your partner stem from some other deficiency in your relationship you need to address). It is a complicated and sometimes damning role. At the end of the day, this is the quean’s kink. Her desire. Her game. You are just a player. Don’t cheat on your partner and dub her a quean. It won’t end well for anyone.
???-queans
I hope you enjoyed the list, and I hope it opened your mind to the diversity of queans out there in the world, right this moment. If I missed anything, please feel free to drop me a message at cuckqueans-paradise.tumblr.com, cuckqueans-paradise.bdsmlr.com, or cuckqueans-paradise.newtumbl.com. Thanks for reading and may your curiosity lead you to things you never imagined possible.
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 but thank you so much Arabic, that was one of the best and most comprehensive description of the cuckquean dynamic I’ve ever seen.
I was new to the term to me until fairly recently and I didn’t even know it was a “thing” but your post has helped clear up for me which sort of dynamic that I would love to be a part of in the future. | |||
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"Yeah I know. I posted this a while back on my bdsmlr page There was an old post floating around out there that detailed various types of cuckquean. This is a similar attempt at nominal categorization. There are of course other types of quean not mentioned here- these are just the ones that came to my mind. Feel free to contact me with ideas to expand or correct the information presented here.
What is a cuckquean? Traditionally, a cuckquean (or simply quean) is a woman who gets sexual pleasure from her husband having sex with other women. This can manifest in a multitude of ways. What follows are just a few of them.
Casual cuckquean
Very nearly a swinger, the casual cuckquean differentiates herself from a purely open relationship in that she gets more sexual gratification from her husband with another woman than herself with another man. She may swing sparingly, but is otherwise content for her husband to swing while she merely watches, chaperones, or does something else altogether (maybe a girls’ night or a quiet night alone).
Closet cuckquean
For her, being a quean is purely a fantasy. For whatever reason it’s a lifestyle she can’t or chooses not to indulge in, but the idea of it is always on her mind. It’s her primary go-to for porn, and she fantasizes about it in bed whether alone or with a partner. While she may not be practicing or “in the lifestyle”, she is a valid quean and an important part of the community.
Humiliation cuckquean
Arguably the most common type of quean, she gets off on the humiliation of having a partner who seeks other women over her. She may want to be degraded, denied sexual activity, or dommed by her husband or his cake. For her, incredible mood swings are common, and it is important she have a husband who understands her ups and downs and is tuned in to her moods.
Compersive cuckquean
Simply put, compersion is the opposite of jealousy. A compersive person is happy when others are happy. In this way, a quean encourages her husband to partake in sexual or romantic relationships with other women, sharing her partner’s arousal. Similarly, she may offer her husband to a female friend whom she feels is deserving of or in need of sex with him.
Polyamorous cuckquean (Millennial cuckquean; Gen-Z cuckquean)
Similar to the casual cuckquean, the polyamorous cuckquean is far less concerned with monogamy. In line with millennial and Generation-Z sensibilities towards casual sexual relationships, she is likely to identify as polyamorous and be one of multiple women in a sexual and/or romantic relationship with a single man. Not strictly a cuckquean by this definition, things become more clear when she begins to derive sexual satisfaction thinking about or witnessing her male partner with another female in the relationship.
Bisexual/biflexible cuckquean
A quean who gets sexual gratification from interacting with the women her husband sleeps with. Physically very similar to a FFM threesome, the difference for the quean is mental. She is turned on not because the cake is a woman, but because she is an object of sexual desire for her husband. She identifies as straight, but will happily lick, suck, finger, or otherwise pleasure the women her husband chooses. She may do this while her husband is fucking her, or may wait until he is done and “reclaim” his cum from the other woman.
Cheated cuckquean
She either knows or suspects her husband cheats on her. She might not let on that she knows, allowing him to think he is fooling her. She experiences intense sexual arousal when she knows he is with his girlfriend or when she finds evidence of his infidelity (condoms, bobby pins, perfume or makeup smudges on his clothing, other womens’ clothing that is not hers, etc.). Alternatively, she may have a faithful husband she encourages to cheat, taking pleasure leaving him alone with female friends for long periods of time, talking up how attractive other women are, or dropping subtle hints that he is free to cheat.
Domme cuckquean (cuckqueen)
To her, both her husband and his cake serve her will. She gets off on choosing her husband’s partners, setting up their dates, and directing them in the bedroom. To her, it’s not about humiliation, but about having total control. Her husband fucks who she wants, when she wants. The cake is there only because she wants her there. She participates at her pleasure, and no one cums without her permission.
Gayplay cuckquean
The gayplay quean’s husband seeks sexual relationships with other men only. He may be truly gay and their marriage is a front; he may be bisexual and she prefers he be active with men over women; or she may be a domme and play off her sub husband’s biflexibility, humiliating him by making him perform gay acts for her pleasure.
Romantic cuckquean
Not satisfied with strictly sexual relationships, the romantic quean wants her husband to fall in love with his partners. She may want the love to be coequal, or she may want him to love his partners more than he loves her.
Breeding cuckquean
The breeding quean has an intense desire for her husband to cum inside other women, with the risk of impregnation front-and-center. She may believe his genes are superior and other women are lucky to be inseminated by him. Alternatively, she may only be interested in breed-play, where merely the idea or risk of pregnancy is the allure, and stops short of active breeding.
Momquean
A woman who is jealous of her son’s sexual encounters (male version: cuckoldad; a man whose daughter is commonly known to be sexually promiscuous). She is not sexually attracted to her son, but she is obsessed with the obvious sexual pleasure his girlfriends get out of him. She fantasizes about her son fucking other women (not her), indulging in the shame of her near-taboo thoughts.
Some other things to consider:
Why “quean”?
The popular belief is that quean is purposely misspelled as a mockery or perversion of “queen”. While this most certainly is a factor in choice of spelling, it should be noted that “quean” dates back to the 10th century and through the centuries has meant “prostitute”, or a “disreputable, impudent or ill-behaved girl or woman” with strong undertones relating those traits to her sexual activities.
Who can be a cuckquean?
Cuckqueanism isn’t an exclusive club. Generally speaking, the rules are broad: The quean identifies as a female (he is a cuckold if he identifies as male), and she wants her romantic-sexual partner to have romantic and/or sexual relationships with other people. That’s about it. Her motives, feelings, and desires are unique to her.
Lesbian cuckqueans
A woman in a lesbian relationship can by all means be a cuckquean. As long as she wants to her partner to have a romantic and/or sexual relationship with another person. The lesbian cuckquean could have any of the motives listed here, with the added twist that she may prefer her partner have sex with a man, subverting their homophilic relationship.
Queans-in-training
Marriage is not a prerequisite to be a quean. Women with boyfriends and fiancees can be queans too. Similarly, age or experience doesn’t factor into what makes a “true” cuckquean, either. Indeed, a girl may realize she is a quean long before she ever has her first sexual relationship (or even knows there is a term for it).
Alt-queans
As with marital status, gender roles are dynamic too. While the quean typically identifies as female, she may have a female or trans partner. Queanism isn’t constrained to traditional gender roles (see: lesbian cuckqueans).
Non-consensual cuckqueans?
I have been asked “How do I turn my partner into a cuckquean?”. Short answer; you can’t. And you shouldn’t try. It’s not your choice if your partner wants to be a quean, it’s hers. You can and should discuss your kinks and desires in open dialog with your partner, but if becoming a quean is a hard No, than respect that and move on. Being a partner to a quean is more than just a free pass to sleep with whoever you want (maybe your fantasies about having sex with people other than your partner stem from some other deficiency in your relationship you need to address). It is a complicated and sometimes damning role. At the end of the day, this is the quean’s kink. Her desire. Her game. You are just a player. Don’t cheat on your partner and dub her a quean. It won’t end well for anyone.
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I hope you enjoyed the list, and I hope it opened your mind to the diversity of queans out there in the world, right this moment. If I missed anything, please feel free to drop me a message at cuckqueans-paradise.tumblr.com, cuckqueans-paradise.bdsmlr.com, or cuckqueans-paradise.newtumbl.com. Thanks for reading and may your curiosity lead you to things you never imagined possible.
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"My Mrs is a cuckquean. She loves it. It's such a crazy turn on for me as well It’s just so naughty isn’t it. Cuckquean husbands are very lucky "Yes !! I love the psychology around it . I'm lucky to know a cuckqueen but she has a partner . | |||
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"Hi I’m a Cuckquean and have been for about 8 years.Are there any like minded women out there cuckqueans or cuckcakes. I really enjoy watching my husband fuck other women, seeing the enjoyment on their faces is such a turn on for me. I also like him going off and meeting women without me and hearing all the kinky details later while I suck his cock. In the past I have spent the night in a spare room while I listen to hubby fuck a girl we had over for the night in our bed, it was amazing. Seeing and helping him slide his cock into other women is such a turn on for me and of course he loves it too. I’m happy for him to do pretty much anything he wants with these women, it’s just a shame it’s so hard to find anyone that is interested in our lifestyle. Are there any other cuckqueans or cuckcakes out there? What’s your story ? X" Think I am in love | |||
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"Hi I’m a Cuckquean and have been for about 8 years.Are there any like minded women out there cuckqueans or cuckcakes. I really enjoy watching my husband fuck other women, seeing the enjoyment on their faces is such a turn on for me. I also like him going off and meeting women without me and hearing all the kinky details later while I suck his cock. In the past I have spent the night in a spare room while I listen to hubby fuck a girl we had over for the night in our bed, it was amazing. Seeing and helping him slide his cock into other women is such a turn on for me and of course he loves it too. I’m happy for him to do pretty much anything he wants with these women, it’s just a shame it’s so hard to find anyone that is interested in our lifestyle. Are there any other cuckqueans or cuckcakes out there? What’s your story ? X" No experience yet but this our fantasy situation for sure! | |||
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"Can’t wait to hear your story when you finally get to do it x" If I ever find my ideal couple/cuckquean to cake for I shall certainly be right back here (with their permission of course ) to let you know how it goes | |||
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"Can’t wait to hear your story when you finally get to do it x If I ever find my ideal couple/cuckquean to cake for I shall certainly be right back here (with their permission of course ) to let you know how it goes "Good luck, I hope it doesn’t take too long….happy hunting x | |||
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"Interesting thread this! Finding a woman who is comfortable in indulging, and immersing herself in this as part of a meaningful relationship must be like finding the Holy Grail. I use straight dating sites as well as this one, and couldn't begin to imagine how many would block, and report me for making the suggestion. Look after your cuck queens, you lucky, lucky guys! " | |||
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"It’s the ultimate turn on for me, he’s not overly keen as he’s into the hotwife but I would love to see this xx" Me too ,thinking or remembering him with other women always gets me wet  | |||
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"Seems to be a shortage of ladies into this near us, we'd love to meet a couple where Mrs loves to share her man. Can't imagine anything more fun than the four of us meeting up and 2 playing whilst the other 2 watch excitedly." Omg so hot! Hopefully there will be more now that lockdown is ending xx | |||
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"Casual/Bi CuckQueen here. We both swing, but I'm more turned on with him being with other women and me being with other women. We haven't really experienced it, due to covid and not getting a chance to go out and play together. It suck right now doesn’t it, I can’t wait to get back to things xx " | |||
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"Cuckquean here. I love watching my husband with other women. I have even sent my husband on a few meets on his own over the years. My wand got a lot of use on those evenings. Would love to find a regular lady to entertain that little fetish more. This is so hot! I’ve done the same a few times before, it’s so naughty and such a turn on. X " | |||
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"Cuckquean here. I love watching my husband with other women. I have even sent my husband on a few meets on his own over the years. My wand got a lot of use on those evenings. Would love to find a regular lady to entertain that little fetish more. This is so hot! I’ve done the same a few times before, it’s so naughty and such a turn on. X " It's how we started swinging to begin with. I sent him to see a freind of mine who was I to the idea :D That was 24 years ago. Had a few ladies willing to entertain the fetish over the years (non met through fab) but not that many willing to meet one half of a couple on their own. Just as well we love all things swinging and I'm bi
But yes, that little kink is how this all started and something I would love to indulge more given the chance.
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"I'm totally up for being a cuckcake for a couple, if the right one came along. Ideally a couple based in North West "my husband would absolutely love you | |||
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"Just need a cuckcake! Lolly x" Us too x | |||
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"London/Essex. If you like your cuckcake (and eat it) lol "East Sussex x | |||
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"I'm totally up for being a cuckcake for a couple, if the right one came along. Ideally a couple based in North West " north west here … | |||
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"Hi I’m a Cuckquean and have been for about 8 years.Are there any like minded women out there cuckqueans or cuckcakes. I really enjoy watching my husband fuck other women, seeing the enjoyment on their faces is such a turn on for me. I also like him going off and meeting women without me and hearing all the kinky details later while I suck his cock. In the past I have spent the night in a spare room while I listen to hubby fuck a girl we had over for the night in our bed, it was amazing. Seeing and helping him slide his cock into other women is such a turn on for me and of course he loves it too. I’m happy for him to do pretty much anything he wants with these women, it’s just a shame it’s so hard to find anyone that is interested in our lifestyle. Are there any other cuckqueans or cuckcakes out there? What’s your story ? X" We love that dynamic, and it switches depending on the situ.. | |||
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"Absolutely gagging to see my man fuck another woman! I’m literally considering letting him breed someone, is that going to far ? I’d be so happy for him to meet someone every weekend "Would he let someone breed you. If so I would love to | |||
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"Absolutely gagging to see my man fuck another woman! I’m literally considering letting him breed someone, is that going to far ? I’d be so happy for him to meet someone every weekend
Would he let someone breed you. If so I would love to "Ha ha ha naughty, he has actually been asking me about it recently but I’m not sure. My thing if him doing it | |||
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"Would you let your husband breed the cuckcake?" I have enjoyed being with couples who like the cuckqueening aspect and have more recently been approached by a couple wanting you are saying. We have all been rather horny just exchanging messages about it | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet as a cuckold couple and a cuckqueen couple, where the subs can only watch the bull and hotwife have fun?" We really want to do this, but alas we struggle to find couples that fit into our age range and that we fancy (or that fancy us!) (Bry) | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet as a cuckold couple and a cuckqueen couple, where the subs can only watch the bull and hotwife have fun?" Nope but not for the lack of trying. | |||
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