FabSwingers.com forum: Dom/sub play

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys, me and a female friend have recently discovered the fun of dom/sub play. I'm just wondering if there are any tips or hints that you could offer us as we are quite new to this.

We have agreed on easily followed rules as we don't live together but she is really into the sub role, any does and don'ts for a novice dom? Cheers!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either a codeword or what I use.. "stop" is stop. If you hear this word then stop. It's the most important thing you must do as a dom. Or have them tap your arm if you are choking / smothering them but you must stop!

Orgasm denial is great. Take them right to the edge of cumming then move away. Don't take them too far. They'll be begging you to keep going. Just say no / it's not up to them etc

Depends what your sub likes and if they are quite compliant or bratty. Talk about what you like and they like and the things they won't do. Some like their face slapped hard, for some it's bad.

It's all about trust and communication. Remember to have fun. I love to dom. I've beaten arsed til they were red. Play safe too if sex is on the cards.

I can suggest more if you like. I've got myself quite turned on writing this