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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For some reason I can't get a single reply from people I message. I'm polite, respectful, and how their day is, possibly compliment a picture of theirs and also send a face pic. Yet I never ever get a response (apart from one couple who was lovely). Is it my age? Is it my looks? I don't even get a reply to say sorry not my type. I keep trying but I don't know why I bother sometimes...

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By *he DifferentiatorMan
over a year ago

Co Durham

I’d say every female on here most likely gets hundreds of messages you may find that sometimes messages get deleted. If it’s meant to happen it will. Good luck.

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By *WKinkMan
over a year ago

Bury

Or they see you pissing and moaning on threads and think ‘nah’ he’s clearly no fun.

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

Hello, suns out, you look nice, here is my picture........try harder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 4 months you’ve had two veris which for a single guy is ok so stop moaning and just carry on being your polite normal self as for us guys it’s a numbers game on here

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"In 4 months you’ve had two veris which for a single guy is ok so stop moaning and just carry on being your polite normal self as for us guys it’s a numbers game on here"

expectations I think need to be lowered... you arwe doing far better than alot of guys on here.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

The site is out dated and filled with non swingers.

If i had to rely on here i would be a nun pretty much.

It's good for forums and socials or chats about clubs but not for meeting

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By *ornyHastardMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"The site is out dated and filled with non swingers.

If i had to rely on here i would be a nun pretty much.

It's good for forums and socials or chats about clubs but not for meeting "

DM better sites plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap I kinda give up any hope on here there's just not enough people in my area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site is out dated and filled with non swingers.

If i had to rely on here i would be a nun pretty much.

It's good for forums and socials or chats about clubs but not for meeting "

Agree with this comment the amount of single males who don't turn up is unreal

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn


"The site is out dated and filled with non swingers.

If i had to rely on here i would be a nun pretty much.

It's good for forums and socials or chats about clubs but not for meeting

Agree with this comment the amount of single males who don't turn up is unreal "

This truly amazes me! Why would someone not turn up to play? Are they non genuine, scared or just tosspots? Should be allowed to red flag anyone who has done this as a warning to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol wow...harsh...give the guy a break lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree that the site is not what it was, my gold membership has now lapsed and i will not renew, 3 messages no meets. Seens to be more a chat site now rather than a swingers site!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site is out dated and filled with non swingers.

If i had to rely on here i would be a nun pretty much.

It's good for forums and socials or chats about clubs but not for meeting

Agree with this comment the amount of single males who don't turn up is unreal

This truly amazes me! Why would someone not turn up to play? Are they non genuine, scared or just tosspots? Should be allowed to red flag anyone who has done this as a warning to others. "

Perhaps the motivation disappears once ejaculation has been achieved whilst messaging.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I have to agree that the site is not what it was, my gold membership has now lapsed and i will not renew, 3 messages no meets. Seens to be more a chat site now rather than a swingers site!!"

Swinging is 90% social

It's the ppl who use it as a fuck site that ruin it imo

I mean yes wr all want sex..... but a few messages and a fuck is fuck and go not swinging

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By *ltGirl24Woman
over a year ago

Redcar

Women do get a LOT of messages and sometimes they just get lost I the Inbox. I Personally try to read and reply but if a message is particularly boring/cringey or their photo is crap I don't bother otherwise it'd take forever to reply to everyone!

Not that I'm saying youre in that category, just telling you what I've experienced.

Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea, I've had many people just ignore me so I assume I'm not what they're looking for. It can be disheartening but there'll be someone who will suit you on here!

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By *ruescotsartistMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


"The site is out dated and filled with non swingers.

If i had to rely on here i would be a nun pretty much.

It's good for forums and socials or chats about clubs but not for meeting

Agree with this comment the amount of single males who don't turn up is unreal "

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By *ruescotsartistMan
over a year ago

Dumfries


"The site is out dated and filled with non swingers.

If i had to rely on here i would be a nun pretty much.

It's good for forums and socials or chats about clubs but not for meeting

Agree with this comment the amount of single males who don't turn up is unreal "

I'd love the opportunity to be a no-show, not that I would, lol

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By *rizzle_blokeMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Glad it’s not just me then

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