FabSwingers.com forum: Ever been harassed in person by someone off here?

By *wjad OP Man
over a year ago

Port talbot

In a bit of a situation, with it being i met a woman some time ago (6monthsish) at hers meet goes fine. then by chance (about 2 months after we met) she walks into my work and i have greet her, so she starts chatting about fab and meeting again, i just nod and smile, then she makes a new account totally unrelated no pics no meets no veris and messages me constantly to meet and when i block she creates another account and same again when i ignore her, she comes into work to talk about fab and whens best to meet ect.

Now the other week i saw her in Morrisons with her husband, didn't seem so chatty then and then 2 days ago she comes into work and wants know what i saw and said her husband was her brother.

i know hes her husband as they kissed multiple times and called each other babe.

should i tell her to back off or ill expose to her husband? but i have no proof the profiles she messaging me off is her.

What would you do?

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By *yeball91Man
over a year ago

southampton

Just ignore it!

If she keeps coming into your work. Can you not bar her for anything?

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By *wjad OP Man
over a year ago

Port talbot

"Just ignore it!

If she keeps coming into your work. Can you not bar her for anything? "

i have been doing so, shes always in talking about fab and considering i don't want my work colleges knowing my sexual activities i'm not likely to tell the boss, its all harmless atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she keeps hassling you I'd say "if you don't leave me alone I'm going to tell your husband" she should stop harassing you as it's obvious she doesn't want her husband to know about fab and what she's getting up to. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you need to keep her quiet, sure you could think of a way...

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By *osheaMan
over a year ago

manchester

tell her if she comes into work again you will approach whoever she is with next time you see her out and about and start talking all things fab. When she squirms say no not nice is it so stop doing it to me.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

As you say you have no proof that she is on fab messaging you. If someone approached me in public (especially after warning me ) I would make them look like a bloody idiot.

So you need to get smart. What proof could you get to tie her in to fab. Pictures? Dates of club events. This may mean playing a game with her for a while, but I'd be gathering evidence on her. Then tell her some (not all) of what I had. Sink the bitch! She is harrassing you and needs to know that you arent interested and will have no doubts about dropping her in it.

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By *wjad OP Man
over a year ago

Port talbot

"As you say you have no proof that she is on fab messaging you. If someone approached me in public (especially after warning me ) I would make them look like a bloody idiot.

Nope got nothing, she comes on with new account messages me, then I tell her where to go, profile gets deleted and same again the next day. Her old profile had pics and veris but she deleted it before harassing.

Only possible way is to tell her husband, don't want to ruin their marriage though tbh, I know what her house looks like and know that she has certain tattoos in places. Cheers for the advice guys and gals!

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By *arryklMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

To be fair only one way to deal with it you’ll need to recruit a hitman/hitwoman hit person (trying to be equality politically correct) and ensure they dispose of the body as you don’t want dna swans coming back to you years later

Problem sorted

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