FabSwingers.com forum: Le Boudoir or OP4F ...or 3rd place?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are planning to fly to London for a night of sexy fun in early March (a Saturday).

We had planned to go to Kestrels as is was so near to Heathrow and seemed an easier place to mingle and chat with other couples without all the noise and hustle of a usual swinger club. But that place is of course now shut.

As we are still new(ish) to the lifestyle, we want to go somewhere with a relaxed atmosphere, where we can build a bit of a connection with another couple before any possible play. Over just dancing with another couple for a minute before running off to a playroom with them... Not that there is anything wrong with doing that, we're just not at that level yet.

Any help or advise would be much appreciated...oh and we can't drive either. xx

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Another post guys, did the others not give you what you need?

LB is by far the bigger and better venue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah I posted it on a different forum that was about a different subject, so I thought I'd get a wider opinion here.

We were almost made up on going to OP4F, now we are swaying toward le Boudoir. We are flip-flopping all over the place

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

No worries. LB is 3 floors plus a dungeon. Some dancing but limited as everyone is chatting and checking each other out for later x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No worries. LB is 3 floors plus a dungeon. Some dancing but limited as everyone is chatting and checking each other out for later x"

Thanks. Have you been to OP4F?

We checked the website for Le Boudoir, from the pics it does not really look like a swinger club. Couldn't see any sexy fusia/hotpink lighting, the big wraparound sofas etc. It's all stools, small chairs, pub lighting... It looks more like a place where hipsters go to eat overpriced cereal, twiddle their mustaches while listening to Mumford and Sons.

But then I guess it's more about the people than the place. From looking at the forums on Le Boudoir there seems some nice couples who attend there.

I guess like anywhere, ya don't really know until you go.

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By *exylondongrlWoman
over a year ago

Esher

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By *exylondongrlWoman
over a year ago

Esher

Both clubs have their merits, but Le Boudoir is about 10 times the size of of OP4F.

I'd say it's a lot more chic than hipster pub.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for message. Just checked the price for entry to La Boudoir, it's a lot of money at £70. Does that price include membership fees? The website does not even seem to mention what if anything comes with such a high price for admission, eg- Free drink, hot food, big hot tubs to maintain etc.

Didn't notice any big "fuck rooms" either on the site. Just a dungeon and what looked like someone's bedroom.

No mention of a dress down policy either. Can people chat in the mingle areas without having to shout over the music? Is there an outside smoking area?

Sorry for all the questions, but we don't get a chance to get away all that often. To us that seems like a lot of money for (what looks like) little return. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vote for OP4F, small but super cosy and lots of play area for its size.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah kinda flipping back again toward OP4F. The thing we liked about Le Boudoir was that it was so centrally located with plenty of accommodation nearby.

Is there any reasonably priced accommodation near OP4F? Not quite sure even where it is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah kinda flipping back again toward OP4F. The thing we liked about Le Boudoir was that it was so centrally located with plenty of accommodation nearby.

Is there any reasonably priced accommodation near OP4F? Not quite sure even where it is..."
it’s in Wood Green n22. Hidden behind some buildings and a corner shop. I think there is a travelodge in Wood Green?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey thanks for the info Lisa. We will look into that hotel xx

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