FabSwingers.com forum: Rules on single girls going to clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. I really want to explore things that the clubs are offering on my own as I want to explore what I want face to face.

I've been to two clubs and only played once. What are the rules on single girls going? I don't want to be pressured into playing as I want to watch certain fetishes first to see if I like it. Any tips on where to go and what to do please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you could find you can pretty much do as you please and remember non means just that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok thank you. I'm just weary of it. But no should always mean no. You are totally right

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Chose your club wisely. Some are better than others for looking after single ladies. Tell the staff you are new and dont feel pressured into doing anything you dont want to.

You will get lots of single men offering to accompany you. Be very wary. They usually have ulterior motives (cheaper entry, bait to fuck other girls, think they will be guaranteed a fuck). They do not have your best interests at heart. Take it all at your pace.

Good luck.

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By *aughtymale1Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

As you mentioned fetishes, Domina Natalie's at the Gatehouse, Farnworth is always a very relaxed chilled afternoon that is a lot of fun.

Natalie stands no nonsense so you will be as safe as you want to be there too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. Could you recommend any ? I'm in Manchester and have been to only partners on couples night's.

Are there a lot of single guys in clubs then? I hear this a lot and that's what puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok thank you for this. I will look for their website and make contact

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

A lot of Swingers Clubs don't allow single men on Saturday nights, so you try that night.

Let the Club you pick know you are going and see if they have a regular who could guide you for a while. Or maybe go along with another single lady?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's a good idea. I'd hadn't thought of that. I want to explore and see if my fantasies are just that or I want to get stuck in. Just don't want to be pressurised or letched at.

I'm looking now for that club

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By *eadyforachangeWoman
over a year ago

Second star to the right, and straight on till morning.

I'm a single female, have been to a few clubs and have always gone alone. As with previous advice contact the club and tell them you will be alone as a good club will make sure you are comfortable during your visit.

Research and check what's happening on different nights and depending on what you are looking for a particular night may be best for you.

If you EVER feel uncomfortable, pressured or just need to have some distance from anyone, male or female, and you are not confident to deal with it tell a member of staff and they will intervene.

I have socialised more than played in clubs, every night is different and if you like the vibe they are a fun place to be. I'm becoming a fixture at my chosen one.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I would have private messaged you, but I am outside of your age range. I go to Atlantis club in the Stoke area on my own. It's not far from you. I would happily keep you company if you fancy giving it a whirl. Check the club website. £10 lifetime membership, free entry and take your own alcohol makes it a cheap fun night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Edinburgh I have only ever gone on my own. The After 8 club is excellent. Staff always really good at making sure you are ok as a single girl.

Men are generally respectful because they know fine well if they push it then they will be shown the door by staff and most likely banned!!

Look on it as an opportunity to be in charge and only play IF and with WHO you feel comfortable with.

Have fun x and be safe x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Cupids is a great club, and they are very good at keeping the ratios right. They are very female friendly and we've met lots of single ladies there who always seem to have a great time

Bun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you this is sound advice and great to know other single women are going on their own.

I will definitely ring before I go. Thank you for telling me about different night's too. Just checked and now I'm glad I did. I had no idea every night was different.

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. Yes I do need to change my message preference. Still getting used to this site.

Can I message You? Would love to chat more about going

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In Edinburgh I have only ever gone on my own. The After 8 club is excellent. Staff always really good at making sure you are ok as a single girl.

Men are generally respectful because they know fine well if they push it then they will be shown the door by staff and most likely banned!!

Look on it as an opportunity to be in charge and only play IF and with WHO you feel comfortable with.

Have fun x and be safe x

Oh I'm Edinburgh in January. Will have to have a look. Thank you for your advice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cupids is a great club, and they are very good at keeping the ratios right. They are very female friendly and we've met lots of single ladies there who always seem to have a great time

Bun."

I've been told about Cupids being a good club. Just scared it's too close to home lol.

Thank you x

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Hi. Yes I do need to change my message preference. Still getting used to this site.

Can I message You? Would love to chat more about going "

If this is directed to me... Please feel free to message me. X

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

I highly recommend the townhouse in Liverpool, well birkenhead actually. Very nice people and will look after you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I highly recommend the townhouse in Liverpool, well birkenhead actually. Very nice people and will look after you."

Thank you. I will look that one up

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