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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just thought would say this. why can't people put their preferences on first sentence ie no black no asians or no white guys. its so annoying to read a long profile only to come down to last sentence which tells you colour preference. one other reason single guys don't read profiles is because most are too long and we just don't have time. please keep them short and straight to the point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The point of my profile, yes it may be long, but it answers a lot of questions!

Personally I think if someone has put the effort into writing it, if you're really interested in getting in touch with that person then you should put the effort into reading it!

Sadly not all of us enjoy reading the fancy a fuck messages and the limited effort they require, if short and sweet is what you're after I'm sure I've seen a few single guys profiles like that, as most of the single women and couples I know or have been in contact with have longer profiles, were well worth the read, well worth the effort and well worth arranging the meet!

Whatever you're looking for on here, there are some of us who enjoy the social aspect of the lifestyle aswell and getting to know people is an important part of that.

As a single guy, obv you're aware how much u outnumber people on here, I'm more likely to respond to people who've read my profile and you can so tell from message content who has and hasn't.

If you haven't you're getting deleted, simple as!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh don't get the wrong. nothing puts me off more than being invited for a quick f. I enjoy the social side very much. its the long profiles that go on forever till last sentence to say preferance of colour. and most people here are so rude they just delete emails without a reply. what happened to being polite. what's wrong with a no thanks. surely that don't take time to write

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By *ettuceslugCouple
over a year ago

Driffield

Everyone expresses themselves in different ways, so in a nutshell if you don't favour a longer profile, don't read them - simples?

We enjoy reading about people and we learn a lot from their profiles which saves loads of time in the end....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just thought would say this. why can't people put their preferences on first sentence ie no black no asians or no white guys. its so annoying to read a long profile only to come down to last sentence which tells you colour preference. one other reason single guys don't read profiles is because most are too long and we just don't have time. please keep them short and straight to the point x"

My profile states from right at the top and all the way trough what iam looking for but it does not stop single White Guy's from e-mailing me.As MOST Guy's just don't read Profiles at all.I like to make very sure that A they know what i am looking for and B what they are getting aswell so there is no miss understanding on either Site.Plus it safes a lot of E-mails back and forth.As i haven't got time for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No single man will ever understand the volume of mail that single women and couples receive, esp when you first join. The first 2weeks I was looking at 150 a day and its physically impossible to reply to all of those messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can understand why a lot of guys copy and paste. the number of times I have sat down, read a profile and sent a nice introduction of myself to someone and get nothing back is shocking. if you get loads of emails does it mean you just delete without even replying to say no thank ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easier to delete, because once I tried to reply to all, but even after I'd made my way through 80% of the messages I had more than what I started with. Its just not possible to reply to them all. If there's no pic attached I automatically delete, if I get sent a coxk pic I automatically delete and if they are under or above my age limit I automatically delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand why a lot of guys copy and paste. the number of times I have sat down, read a profile and sent a nice introduction of myself to someone and get nothing back is shocking. if you get loads of emails does it mean you just delete without even replying to say no thank ?"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Anything worth doing requires effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I am doing it all wrong. it is a buyers market but some of the people here are just rude. being single doesn't mean we guys are desperate.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Maybe I am doing it all wrong. it is a buyers market but some of the people here are just rude. being single doesn't mean we guys are desperate. "

Then whats the problem? You read the profiles and pick who you wish to message. Simple!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how do you pick who you contact. if I like someones profile I email them. chances are I don't get a reply. no need to knock peoples confidence. just how would you feel if someone ignores you.? it aint nice

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"how do you pick who you contact. if I like someones profile I email them. chances are I don't get a reply. no need to knock peoples confidence. just how would you feel if someone ignores you.? it aint nice "

Happens all the time to me. I just make a note not to message them and move on to the next person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it should never happen though.

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