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Saying 'not interested' nicely?

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By *ntcov OP   Man
over a year ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

I dont like to offend people but on occasion Im just not interested in meeting the person/people in the pic when it finally arrives, I have to like what I see...how do you let people down nicely in a situation like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont like to offend people but on occasion Im just not interested in meeting the person/people in the pic when it finally arrives, I have to like what I see...how do you let people down nicely in a situation like that?"

Just be honest with them. Thank you for your message but not what Im looking for. Hope you have fun. Then block. Some people dont deal well with rejection and it saves them messaging again.

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By *eautyandthegeekCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Literally just done this. Asked the guy to send me a headshot because all his pics were bodyshots. Responded with sorry you're not my type. Then blocked.

Saves much time if you're direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, I just say thanks but not for me. I don't usually block unless they keep messaging asking why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good advice xx

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By *ntcov OP   Man
over a year ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

Thanks All...I'll take it all on board, sounds workable. lol.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

We usually say "thanks but no thanks" then block when they are a definite no, if we can't tell or in the borderline cases we just tell them, it's hard to tell from the pic, but if they are in the club next time we're in to say hi and see how it goes.

This has always let them take themselves out of the game because they never show and technically we haven't flat out rejected them, so no grief or questions.

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By *heeky_subCouple
over a year ago

northampton

I have had quite a lot of abuse lately from guys that hold back from sending their picture, then they're offended that I don't want to meet them, then when they finally send a picture, I'm just not my attracted.

I find it difficult to say I'm not interested, when I've said I just can't meet them, I get asked so many uncomfortable questions, then I block them, they bloody create another profile and carry on harassing me. It's only happened a couple of times, but it's annoying

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