FabSwingers.com forum: Women timewasting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there any genuine women looking for no strings sex on here as iv only been here 7weeks and blocked 10 timewasters already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any genuine women looking for no strings sex on here as iv only been here 7weeks and blocked 10 timewasters already?"

What is your definition of a time waster?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are there any genuine women looking for no strings sex on here as iv only been here 7weeks and blocked 10 timewasters already?

What is your definition of a time waster?"

After swapping pics and chatting about turn ons etc and then have no intention of meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just because they chat and view your pics isnt wasting time,, time wasting is when a meet is arranged and one party p[reps everything for a meet or goes out and waits and the other party cba to inform oneselves that A they have no intention of meeting or B just doesn't arrive,

all that you have commented on is a party deciding that you are not the guy they seek,, or they have read something in the way that you type talk that has put them in an uneasy state, its called a female perogative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

obviously its a good job he isn#'t fem or trans as he would see timewasting from our point of view.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"obviously its a good job he isn#'t fem or trans as he would see timewasting from our point of view."

Fair enough if you change you're mind or get cold feet but then there's the whole deleting messages without even a no thanks. Manners cost nothing and take seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a chat online doesn't mean that you are going to meet.

If it was a wank-fodder chat about fantasies and "What we will do to each other" you might very well find that the "woman" you thought you were talking to is actually a bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"obviously its a good job he isn#'t fem or trans as he would see timewasting from our point of view.

Fair enough if you change you're mind or get cold feet but then there's the whole deleting messages without even a no thanks. Manners cost nothing and take seconds. "

Changing your mind is ot time wasting. As for deleting messages you maybe better off reading tge faq as it clearly states no reply means no and review your expectations of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you have to understand is that people when they chat are asking themselves some questions.

1. Do I find this person attractive?

2. Are they interesting enough online to be interesting enough in person and or in the bedroom?

3. Would I feel safe?

4. Are they going to be worth meeting more than the other people I'm/we're chatting to?

At any point they may decide that one of these boxes aren't being ticked they'll cut the conversation with or without telling you.

Your initial message and profile is working because you're getting chats started. Be relaxed, non-pushy and engaging and try and avoid using the most overused word on here; Timewaster.

You choose to invest the time but don't have the patience to wait for a meet it's you that's wasting your own time.

This may sound more harsh than it's meant to.

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Do love posts like this. Your new and have to go that one step further, they have prob heard all you said to them and want something different. 7weeks isnt a long time. Took me longer to get a meet when i 1st come on here. Go to a social night, if its a veri your after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of genuine people but

1) you may need to look further a field

2) you may not be able to find what you Want.

3) Fakes are an unwelcome part of FAB mostly weird men, but women will waste your time too. It's a mess at times.

4) don't give up.

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By *r creedyMan
over a year ago

ashington

Your best attending clubf if its just sex most female and couples profiles are fake normally just a bloke

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By *howdown1Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Problem is. Its a womans world and site. As for manners. Its a one way thing. Woman expect it. And if a male messages more than once your called pushy. As a single male you get insulted . Called wank fodder. Alas when you have been on site for a while you know the score. Expect nothing. Anything else is a bounus

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By *abfemaleWoman
over a year ago

NEAR Windsor Berkshire

how do you know they are time wasters? all people are different and have different ideas; because they don't match yours doesn't make them time wasters. I'm cautious so insist on chat first and not just for an hour or a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I had one last night. I am still fuming this morning about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women are here purerly for the attention they never get in the real life :p Hear they can be queens with power and it makes them feel good about themselves.

Thankfully, there are some that actually meet and have fun and not just chat

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