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By *urse89 OP   Man
over a year ago

nantwich

Lon winded but shortened for potential readers...

Basically me and my wife love each other!

Here's the but, through one thing or another she does not want sex with me or anyone else ever again, we've talked about it in a civilised manor and came to the conclusion it's not going to happen!

Two years ago the snip (vasectomy) happened, and we thought this would improve things (one of the main limiting factors was another child) but nope the snip also snipped the sex life! So yes, two years later we had a joking conversation about sending me out swinging so I stop moping and going the gym twice a day!

So we felt if I could get to a club of some discription, and just feeding back to her what I've been upto, and kind of a submissive thing of her giving me limitations each time I go out!

But I'm apprehensive and nervous over it mainly from a body image and performance issue (feel like I'd be almost a virginal state) so I was hoping anyone could connect with me and help me through the doors of Atlantis or cupids sometime... doesn't have to be as a couple... as a friend or friendly face from chatting would be awesome!!

Thanks in advance for any local people who would like to chat with a generally and honest in every sense of the word... I've been told I have no filter, and once we get chatting I guarantee you will get full mental me

I apologise in advance for my only pick being a cock pick but my profession kind of dictate a bit of discretion with my identity so after chatting or friend request I do have more revealing and identifiable pictures !!

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Lon winded but shortened for potential readers...

Basically me and my wife love each other!

Here's the but, through one thing or another she does not want sex with me or anyone else ever again, we've talked about it in a civilised manor and came to the conclusion it's not going to happen!

Two years ago the snip (vasectomy) happened, and we thought this would improve things (one of the main limiting factors was another child) but nope the snip also snipped the sex life! So yes, two years later we had a joking conversation about sending me out swinging so I stop moping and going the gym twice a day!

So we felt if I could get to a club of some discription, and just feeding back to her what I've been upto, and kind of a submissive thing of her giving me limitations each time I go out!

But I'm apprehensive and nervous over it mainly from a body image and performance issue (feel like I'd be almost a virginal state) so I was hoping anyone could connect with me and help me through the doors of Atlantis or cupids sometime... doesn't have to be as a couple... as a friend or friendly face from chatting would be awesome!!

Thanks in advance for any local people who would like to chat with a generally and honest in every sense of the word... I've been told I have no filter, and once we get chatting I guarantee you will get full mental me

I apologise in advance for my only pick being a cock pick but my profession kind of dictate a bit of discretion with my identity so after chatting or friend request I do have more revealing and identifiable pictures !! "
thought you were in your 50s or something.your only 27 and got the ship because your wife dosent want sex anymore wtf dude don't you think that's a bit drastic.

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By *urse89 OP   Man
over a year ago

nantwich

I know we had so many issues surrounding the birth of our child and knew we didn't want any more at all so we thought it would improve our sex life and take all worries away. It didn't effect my libido and I've had no problems touch wood in the two years.... even with cycling and gym within 1 week of the op! I know it was extreme but I definitely agree with my decision no regrets sadly it didn't do what it was intended!

Had another discussion tonight with her and she is still happy to even share my entrance fees for me going as it is expensive as a single guy to go to any clubs!

Thought she was testing me because how cool she is with it!

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