FabSwingers.com forum: Autism / girlfriend

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

had autism and cant get a girl . i was just wondering if anyone got autism here and how hard it is for them to get a girlfriend or understand emotions. if anyone got autism please reply needs some tips

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Can be tricky but not impossible.

Often easier to start on line as communication is purely by writing, so can take time to digest a message and compose a suitable reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not the right place for dating especially if you have autism. Try a regular dating site. Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not the right place for dating especially if you have autism. Try a regular dating site. Best of luck"

No disrespect, but why isn't this the place for him? Many people are on the spectrum, including a lot of swingers I'm sure.

ASD isn't a disability. They have the same sex drive as the rest of the population.

If the OP wants to swing, I say go for it!

Good luck mate!

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By *issing in actionWoman
over a year ago

Llanelli

I think we're all on the autistic spectrum to some degree. When my daughter was diagnosed with aspergers years ago I went to the meetings to find out more about it, but felt like they were describing me more than her lol.

I'm told I don't have it, but still watch people at my age to pick up tips on how to interact. I totally get why the OP is on a swinging site - so much easier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we're all on the autistic spectrum to some degree. When my daughter was diagnosed with aspergers years ago I went to the meetings to find out more about it, but felt like they were describing me more than her lol.

I'm told I don't have it, but still watch people at my age to pick up tips on how to interact. I totally get why the OP is on a swinging site - so much easier!"

A whole lot of agreement for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great to know that there are people with autism using this site. They think differently and in the most intriguing ways. Much more adventurous than most of us could ever imagine. Anyone lucky enough to have someone on the spectrum in there life should cherish every moment.

Good luck OP!!!

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By *osheaMan
over a year ago

manchester

To try and answer your questions Chiller4life.

I don't have autism but a close family member does. I don't think you should view your autism as the reason you are maybe not doing so well on here. Is it something you mention when you first contact people on here if so my advice would be maybe don't and just see how things go and get to know someone. The autism is not relevant its part of what makes up your personality. Good Luck

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By *inkyeyesWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"This is not the right place for dating especially if you have autism. Try a regular dating site. Best of luck

No disrespect, but why isn't this the place for him? Many people are on the spectrum, including a lot of swingers I'm sure.

ASD isn't a disability. They have the same sex drive as the rest of the population.

If the OP wants to swing, I say go for it!

Good luck mate!"

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Asd,comes in many degrees...to mild to severe. I applaud you op for fulfilling your sexual desires, fantasies.... don't judge anyone with a any condition they are here for themselves like we all are . Autism is very dear to my heart..op be yourself and you will be just fine

Happy fabbing.

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By *ive it to usCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

"had autism and cant get a girl . i was just wondering if anyone got autism here and how hard it is for them to get a girlfriend or understand emotions. if anyone got autism please reply needs some tips"

We have son with ASD so know how you feel

he is in his 20s and has a girlfriend, so please don't be put off. Also know Townhouse club has a few members with ASD. we think you would be very welcome and its a excellent well run club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work with people with autism. This guy wants a girlfriend. Knowing the struggles people go through to find partners, i wouldnt reccomend fab to anyone on the asd spectrum low or high functioning for the purpose of finding a partner for a relationship.If they want a fuck buddy fair enough but for dating i dont think so. For dating the generic dating sites would be more successful for you. Best of luck.

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