FabSwingers.com forum: Unverified men!

By *ortadowncpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Portadown

Just taking a moment to recognise how hard it is for unverified men to even get a reply! Hubby has an unverified (until recently) account and it was a hard time to say the least!

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By *onylimk2009Man
over a year ago

County Limerick

"Just taking a moment to recognise how hard it is for unverified men to even get a reply! Hubby has an unverified (until recently) account and it was a hard time to say the least!"

Its very frustrating here at times. Not being verified=not getting any replys. Trying to get someone to even meet for a coffee and a chat is what I'm currently trying to do.

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By *immyb1985Man
over a year ago

bridgend

Veri's don't always help. I never have a women message me first. Just men asking if they can lick my nipples while they wank...

I'm a 31 year old fireman and struggle to get a message back lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame your in Bridgend I'd meet you

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By *uperchargedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've had a few meets in the last 12 months but still nobody will verify me. Even though I've asked nicely through gentle reminders...

Thing is, some of these have been gangbangs with women so is it the fact that I was so shit they won't? (I thought they were good meets) Or is it that they just can't be arsed?

Shame because I can't verify anyone until I break this big fat duck. Plus I've had a few people interested who basically say come back to them when I have veris...

Not too bothered though, it seems it's hard work getting meets as it is so I've not done too badly for a priest in a small parish......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting verified isn't the hardest bit, getting a reply back even for a coffee or something, but I guess I'm not everyone's cuppa tea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe alot of verifications as it's that persons view. I have had a meet in the passed when I first joined fab. Based on the verifications and they always disappointed me .I only meet someone who I connect with. Some verifications I read put me off meeting also.

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Doesnt matter if you have veri's or not. Over the last 2yrs, it has been really hard due to timewaters/pic hunters that claim to be females or cpls but are really guys. Not like it use to be yrs ago

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By *hyGeekyMan
over a year ago

Audenshaw

I feel you on the replies front, have been on here for a while now and either deletions or rejections. I'm not the best looking guy on here but I'm persevering though!

Hopefully soon I'll be in a position to get to a club and try socialising in person, that seems to be the best way of getting into the swing of things, pardon the pun

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By *amesLeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds City Centre Apartment

Had people message me but it's very rare

The girls are spoilt for choice and their choice is unbelievably vast

They get a message a minute and just gotta scroll down and choose one they like the most, out of the several hundred they get - every day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers clubs events and socials is how I got started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here a week now , seems it is impossible to be verified , receive a message or even meet for a social ...

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By *ill1411Man
over a year ago

Durham

I lost heart once and deleted my account with my one veri (bugger) it's so hard to meet or get replies mainly because as I understand it the ladies get inundated with messages from horny gits like us.

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By *eytherejustsayinghelloMan
over a year ago

lancs

yep i met a girl for a social and was clear about meeting and her verifying me was the main purpose as well as meeting her.

She refused to let me use her toilet for a piss after 2 hours of chat. Proper weirdo.

So left there and then. chased her up to post it for me and nothing.

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By *ilver Fox61Man
over a year ago

Bucks

I'm having the same problem. But I guess my age is against me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had people message me but it's very rare

The girls are spoilt for choice and their choice is unbelievably vast

They get a message a minute and just gotta scroll down and choose one they like the most, out of the several hundred they get - every day!"

Oooh no. Not true. But I've already wiped a 3rd of meets off by not meeting cheaters. Still get messaged by them though

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By *eek12Man
over a year ago

lakenheath

Been on here almost a year and barely get a view god forbid a message back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here almost a year and barely get a view god forbid a message back."

Know that feeling mate

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By *rblue38Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

I have been here for over year and yet to meet anyone. Women in London have alot of choice and prefer black men. Well most other chat for a while then ghost me soon as I say let's meet ha

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By *aseman_291Man
over a year ago

kildare

Hi all., yes can be hard for unverified men,, I have chats and send pics etc on kik to fab friends,, but they still struggle to verify me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's not veris that are hard to get it is replies because of abuse disrespectful men and the many time wasters it's hard to distinguish the real guys from the fakes I've been on and off here since 2011 and still just get messages deleted or just no replies

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By *laytime 100Couple
over a year ago

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For us it's not about verifications (although they do help) it's more about the message they send. Most messages we receive consist of less than five words. It would also help if the sender read our profile before messaging us. While we do state on our profile that we will find single men if we want them a couple of guys have managed to attract us with a well worded message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im verified but doesn't matter still get loads of messers and its still bloody hard work trying to sift through all the profiles then you maybe get 1 reply out of 20 or 30 mails its a bloody full time job lol and that's before you get the meets.

im not that good at this writing lark so is hard for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yippie, another thread about how men can't get meets.

I was getting worried, it's been at least 3 hours since the last one I read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah.. none of this is hard lol

Sorry gents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best bet for getting verified is to go to a party, group meet or club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive messaged over 100 women politely asking to meet me for a brief chat over coffee in the hope they would verify me and not one has taken me up on my offerr!! Does anyone know if you can be verified via the direct photo service we now have on here?"

Same here mate, no replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have too message women first I never really get a message back and when I read there profiles I says need to be verified it's a joke especially for a first time meet where do I start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea why i still scroll through profiles.

As a married man I'm instantly judged and rightly so but also unable to put a decent profile pic up.

Too many recognisable tattoos or features, plus a cock pic is a big no no instantly for most women.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

The struggle is real.......

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By *anKevCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge wells

"For us it's not about verifications (although they do help) it's more about the message they send. Most messages we receive consist of less than five words. It would also help if the sender read our profile before messaging us. While we do state on our profile that we will find single men if we want them a couple of guys have managed to attract us with a well worded message."

We couldn't agree more every message we get if it is just a one liner gets deleted and the account blocked. It doesn't take long to tell us about yourselves and that is what we're interested in not the notched on the bed posts so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just taking a moment to recognise how hard it is for unverified men to even get a reply! Hubby has an unverified (until recently) account and it was a hard time to say the least!"

Its very hard. To get my verifications i went to a swingers club. I wanted to go anyway but i got some verifications from that. Has it changed anything...no!

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