FabSwingers.com forum: Single male fear

By *ntamed plums OP Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

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By *ntamed plums OP Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Single men must take up the vast majority of registered members on the fabs web site. We do get a bad name judging by the content of messages displayed. Why can we not be judged on our individual merits, I am sure there are bad apples but equally the same can be said for couples and single ladies. Yet the critique is disproportionate, my point being yet rather laboured is.....single men have to try harder, tick more boxes and take more knock backs yet still are the most vilified here. Personally I am happy with myself and my life, if fun comes along take it, just don't absorb the negative vibe.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I judge all men on their individual merits, and I suspect most women on here too. Judging the women on Fab by what is posted on the forums is a bit unfair, as I suspect the majority of Fab members don't go near the forums.

However, when meets are arranged and the let downs become more frequent than the guys actually turning up, there does come a time when I think 'I just cannot be arsed', and I suspect you would be the same in that situation.

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By *inkyandMan
over a year ago

SW London and Cotswolds

I personally think people should have to pay at least £20 per month to use this site.

It has become overly populated with time wasters and ugly women.

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By *ntamed plums OP Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Not sure if anyone else has noticed but there are people trying to charge for sex acting as couples but pimping out women by asking for hotel contributions, are single men that gullible or just desperate. Degrades women, not what this site is here for.

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By *ntamed plums OP Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

No shows again are not inherant just to men, I have had a no show and a wasted day. Not a sniff of why or an apology just a block?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Not sure if anyone else has noticed but there are people trying to charge for sex acting as couples but pimping out women by asking for hotel contributions, are single men that gullible or just desperate. Degrades women, not what this site is here for."

Hotels aren't free so being asked to share the cost is reasonable, however it should be equally split between all visitors. Making a profit out of people is clearly prostitution in my eyes.

There are party organisers on here who do the same. I received a message from a party organiser who is planning something in my area and inviting me to attend. From the number of guests they invite they will be raking in about £1000. They do have some overheads such as the cost of hiring an apartment for the evening but even so they will be making plenty of money. I will not be used as a prostitute to make the party organisers rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe the criticism of men is disproportionate - you hear more about it because of the larger number of registered men as you say. But as a percentage of users, I would say that genuine normal men and genuine women are fairly even.

It's worth also noting that quite a significant number of single female and couples profiles also actually belong to a strange breed of single men

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By *ntamed plums OP Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Fair point on men masquerading as a couple or a women, sure you would never get a woman hiding behind a mans profile? Any saturation will emphasises the bad few and not the many that are good.

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By *empairCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

The reality we have found is simple. Finding a genuine trustworthy single male for shared indulgences is much more easily achieved at a club. Regardless of how well a male profile is written how appealing the profile photo's. A real test of any single guy's true character shows through when you see them in a club environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged about 20 women so far and none have responded. They read them then delete them. It wasn't this diffifult on other sites yet you'd think it wouldn't be hard at all on a site like this. When I heard about it I thought that's the site for me - no messing about having to wine and dine and pretending to be a gentleman. Just wham bam thankyou mam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here for 7 weeks and had 4 arranged meets with women cancelled last minute!!

What's that all about?

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I've messaged about 20 women so far and none have responded. They read them then delete them. It wasn't this diffifult on other sites yet you'd think it wouldn't be hard at all on a site like this. When I heard about it I thought that's the site for me - no messing about having to wine and dine and pretending to be a gentleman. Just wham bam thankyou mam. "
what makes you think a swinging site would mean women would fuck anyone.wouldint that be an escort site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about being upfront and reading peoples profiles.

Manners are free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've messaged about 20 women so far and none have responded. They read them then delete them. It wasn't this diffifult on other sites yet you'd think it wouldn't be hard at all on a site like this. When I heard about it I thought that's the site for me - no messing about having to wine and dine and pretending to be a gentleman. Just wham bam thankyou mam. what makes you think a swinging site would mean women would fuck

anyone.wouldint that be an escort site."

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I've messaged about 20 women so far and none have responded. They read them then delete them. It wasn't this diffifult on other sites yet you'd think it wouldn't be hard at all on a site like this. When I heard about it I thought that's the site for me - no messing about having to wine and dine and pretending to be a gentleman. Just wham bam thankyou mam. what makes you think a swinging site would mean women would fuck

anyone.wouldint that be an escort site.

Haha! You're having a laugh. Do I look like an average joe? Of course not. Lots of people have complimented on my striking good looks. And the mirror does not lie. So I know I'm hot. Therefore women have no excuses."
ok got you now,your a troll.thought that was a teenage thing haha.you know there are women on here that are looking for sex right

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By *empairCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Aaahhhh thats what you think this site is about.. OK fare do's we can all get a bit confused about things. If you are looking for as you put it "wham bam thank you man" free sex here are a couple of suggestions. We assume that you feel that paying for it is beneath you and that after all why should you because you are a smoking hot alpha male, women should be grateful that you want to shag them. However, obviously you seem to have found a very small proportion of women who don't feel this way so why not try this route. Join a rock band and get famous (shouldn't be hard for a smoking hot good looking guy like you) and the women will probably beat down your hotel room door to suck you dry. If that doesn't work, Start dealing smack. No end of thirty quid crack whores will hump your stump for the sugar you can give them baby. If all this fails, well sorry but you are on your own we are afraid because with your obvious credentials this isn't the site for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single men must take up the vast majority of registered members on the fabs web site. We do get a bad name judging by the content of messages displayed. Why can we not be judged on our individual merits, I am sure there are bad apples but equally the same can be said for couples and single ladies. Yet the critique is disproportionate, my point being yet rather laboured is.....single men have to try harder, tick more boxes and take more knock backs yet still are the most vilified here. Personally I am happy with myself and my life, if fun comes along take it, just don't absorb the negative vibe."

Well said

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By *ntamed plums OP Man
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Thank you, after all we are on this site all here to enjoy a little extra FREE fun. The ugly side can be that genuine people will be exploited, male, female and couples. But when is boils straight down to sex - men do seem to be the weaker of the species, more desperate, will be quicker to lower their standards, basically a far lower control of their lust. Yep I will burn in hell for saying that.....

Take cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a new single male had a few messages. Nothing meets wise yet. But I've met others from other sites.

I think you have to accept it's a numbers game. I feel secure in myself. I've had enough experience to know I'm not to everyone's taste. So if someone says no. That's fine, I wouldn't be rude or abusive to anyone. Because there's no point.

If I've been here too long without action. I might move on. Some of the best sex I've had was purely random encounters out there in the real world. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been here for 7 weeks and had 4 arranged meets with women cancelled last minute!!

What's that all about?"

Sad to say that's what Fab has become...it wasn't like that at all a few years ago, before it became as well known as it is today. The people on the site then weren't the 'here today, gone tomorrow' types (both male and female) that populate it today. People did used to meet without dramas and let-downs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just break the mould

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By *abbiejohnMan
over a year ago

huyton

Mate it's like any other market. Supply and demand. There are plenty of the men for every woman. So men have to work hard for the prize. Yes single men are treated with scepticism but there are loads of cranks out there. Get "straight" men messaging me all the time. Some get abusive when you explain your straight. Never happens with women or couples. There might be the odd 1 or 2 that does but the men are main culprits.

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