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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So both of us basically want to have an affair each.

Either half a cpl each or 2 diffrent people.

Somthing on going more that just sex

With the full knowledge of everyone involved so the best naughtyest bits of an affair but not the cheating.

We would welcome messages from intrested people

And from anyone who has done this or similat and made it work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dose noone like

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By *obby248Man
over a year ago

lee on solent

I think it's a great idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a great idea. "

Glad somone dose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you'll have better luck saying your both searching for really close friends with benefits than saying an affair.

An affair implies keeping it secret from the other party, which obliviously you're not doing, so that may be putting people off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You may be right.

But we like the forbidden nature of the description

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a secret affair is deception, an affair is not necessarily secret but either way the terminology is soooo olde world

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It sounds like a polygamous relationship is what you seek.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It sounds like a polygamous relationship is what you seek."

Basicly yes

But that as a concept seems more taboo in swinging scene that the idea of an in the open affair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are couples that do this successfully. It's just finding the right dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has prompted quite a discussion between us and a few close non swinging friends, they would never do anything remotely close to swinging let alone a poly relationship but even they understand the appeal.

We had this suggested to us a few years ago after we becane close friends with a couple from here. At the time we were very new to swinging and decided it wasnt for us but now, a few years on its something we could potentially look into

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This has prompted quite a discussion between us and a few close non swinging friends, they would never do anything remotely close to swinging let alone a poly relationship but even they understand the appeal.

We had this suggested to us a few years ago after we becane close friends with a couple from here. At the time we were very new to swinging and decided it wasnt for us but now, a few years on its something we could potentially look into"

Thankyou for a lovely responce

We have messaged you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This thread is certainly etting us some ermmm intresting messages

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By *obby248Man
over a year ago

lee on solent

I think it sounds like fun. All the fun with hiding anything. And both having fun. Wish I could find a OH that would be up for this. Good luck I say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it sounds like fun. All the fun with hiding anything. And both having fun. Wish I could find a OH that would be up for this. Good luck I say. "

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any more intrest?

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Think we might be a bit far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think we might be a bit far"

Distance can be overcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any new thoughts anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Update your pictures and you might get some more interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Update your pictures and you might get some more interest "

You make q goid point

New pics coming soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update your pictures and you might get some more interest

You make q goid point

New pics coming soon"

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By *obby248Man
over a year ago

lee on solent

I'd happily help out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd happily help out. "

What about your mrs?

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By *obby248Man
over a year ago

lee on solent

I'm single

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm single "

A shame

We still need half a cpl each or a woman for my hubby

I have found me a bf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily join you, but I see you already have that vacancy filled.

Good luck on your journey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any intrest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about this for a new year adventure

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By *obby248Man
over a year ago

lee on solent

Hows it going?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hows it going? "

Not got the right offers yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still looking for somone for each of us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still looking.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think you have to be very careful.. feelings could develop and then it may bring a whole lot of heartache. I've been the other woman for many years. My heart breaks every time he leaves me. I wouldn't wish the lows on anyone.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you have to be very careful.. feelings could develop and then it may bring a whole lot of heartache. I've been the other woman for many years. My heart breaks every time he leaves me. I wouldn't wish the lows on anyone.

Good luck"

Its kind of what we both want

Another man / woman

You coukd call it polyamory i supose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a nice idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like a nice idea"

We both think so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any intrest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any intrest"

I'm interested x

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By *ranklin300Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I think something like this is a wonderful idea. What a way to make things more exciting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad you like it

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By *uthbert_casualMan
over a year ago

Preston


"Think we might be a bit far"

I think it's a great idea/scenario...

Just a pity I'm too far also... I'm as far as PlayfulCouple86

Though should they be interested in having an 'affair' (friend with benefits) I'd be more than happy to lend a helping hand x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Somtimes thats the way

A surprising lack of poly people hear.

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