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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations?? "

You joined 3 weeks ago and have had a meeting so why the moaning?

If you want to improve your chances, you might want to ask for profile advice rather than assuming that everything is down to your ethnicity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations??

You joined 3 weeks ago and have had a meeting so why the moaning?

If you want to improve your chances, you might want to ask for profile advice rather than assuming that everything is down to your ethnicity."

This kind of thread seems to be popping up a fair bit recently.

Then you take a look at the profile and just think....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just guys in general, I wouldn't worry

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I agree there's a load of Threads about this, many of which I read this morning.

I've never really asked any of my Asian friends about this as I thought most single fellas on here find it difficult unless they attend a Social. Once they do they seem to get Veris & Meets without much difficulty. So perhaps, speaking generally, it could be people prefer Socials first before Meeting.

As for myself, I don't have an issue with Asian men though for whatever reason I'm not as attracted to BBC's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's any harder for Asians than white guys or black guys, it's just stacked against all men as the numbers of males are high.

I think most of the real successful ones are the ones who chat and banter with the ladies and just have a descriptive profile of what you are into and looking for.

Ladies and couples will make contact if they like what they read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No he has a point. I do see a great many profile detailing no men of Asian (+ Oriental) origin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad reputations?

Here's a clue. If you have a look in today's newspapers you'll see a group photo of the latest batch of openly racist paedophile 'Asians' telling us that all white girls are slags!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate that cowardly shitvour media does. They could easily identity tbe demographic but refuse to as they are too afraid to offend. So just group all Asians and religious/ethnic groups in the region as one homogeneous group.

If you can't joke about a certain demographic then you know they have are your better in the current society and anything you do or say will be a slight to them, thus you are punished.

Hell technically I'd be put into that category if you count mt Asian ancestory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad reputations?

Here's a clue. If you have a look in today's newspapers you'll see a group photo of the latest batch of openly racist paedophile 'Asians' telling us that all white girls are slags!"

Agreed, that would be a reason that most women would avoid a meet with Asian's

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We have met Asian guys and they have been perfect gentleman and horny in the bedroom. Ignorance and bad manners has no colour boundaries you just have select the right guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm detecting a few Daily Mail readers in this thread

Last I checked, Jimmy Savile wasn't Asian...

Just sayin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm detecting a few Daily Mail readers in this thread

Last I checked, Jimmy Savile wasn't Asian...

Just sayin'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm detecting a few Daily Mail readers in this thread

Last I checked, Jimmy Savile wasn't Asian...

Just sayin'"

Last I checked, Jimmy Saville did not abuse Women............

Just saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, he preyed on young girls - even worse in my books!

Just observin'

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151

OP work on your profile. It says nothing other than you want yo fuck (I'm summarizing this from the lack of effort you've put into writing a decent one).

Meet people for social and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again. Well if you lived in telford or other towns where girls have been targeted by gangs,you might understand,why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, he preyed on young girls - even worse in my books!

Just observin'"

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

In this instance OP I don't really think your ethnicity has anything to do with your perceived lack of meets.

In order to attract people on here you need a good profile. Plenty of good photos (not cock pics) and a well constructed profile text. Tell people about yourself and try to let your personality shine through.

If you don't make an effort don't expect to get anywhere. Yes, there are people who don't want to meet guys of some ethnicities, but there are plenty of others who will meet you. You just need to make a proper effort to try and attract them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's any harder for Asians than white guys or black guys, it's just stacked against all men as the numbers of males are high.

I think most of the real successful ones are the ones who chat and banter with the ladies and just have a descriptive profile of what you are into and looking for.

Ladies and couples will make contact if they like what they read."

The problem a lot of guys make is they expect contact, but they do not offer a lot for ladies or couples to read!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you imagine if Jimmy Savile had been Asian?

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations?? "

Because you revert quickly to 'it's because I'm asian'....

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151


"From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations??

Because you revert quickly to 'it's because I'm asian'...."

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By *othcpluk1Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations??

Because you revert quickly to 'it's because I'm asian'....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations?? "

Do you find it difficult to find meets, or are you just asking the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm detecting a few Daily Mail readers in this thread

Last I checked, Jimmy Savile wasn't Asian...

Just sayin'

Last I checked, Jimmy Saville did not abuse Women............

Just saying!"

A couple of his victims were 18+

Just saying!

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol


"I'm detecting a few Daily Mail readers in this thread

Last I checked, Jimmy Savile wasn't Asian...

Just sayin'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moment people find out the person they are chatting to is Asian it's 'bye bye

#just saying

P.s you are dealing with the wrong crowd, those educated and who constantly interact with Asians at work etc will have no problem

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We've had no problems with Asian guys

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales


"From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations?? "

Because they ask dumb ass questions then become a user who is no longer on this site.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's not on the site anymore

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales


"He's not on the site anymore "

No shit, Sherlock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad reputations?

Here's a clue. If you have a look in today's newspapers you'll see a group photo of the latest batch of openly racist paedophile 'Asians' telling us that all white girls are slags!"

Bad reputation agree but asain girls are slags too that goes to indian/pakistani and bengali

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By *icked_tongueMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Bad reputations?

Here's a clue. If you have a look in today's newspapers you'll see a group photo of the latest batch of openly racist paedophile 'Asians' telling us that all white girls are slags!

Bad reputation agree but asain girls are slags too that goes to indian/pakistani and bengali"

Who are these Asian girls then.... I'm sure some of the guys would like a few names lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself have no problems playing with any colour we are all humans after all regardless but I have to be honest most of the asians and blacks just fuck n go they don't take the time to pleasure.

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By *ubmissiveSueWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

For me they are not particularly attractive. I also cant help but think why I have never seen an Asian women with them (I'm not talking about far eastern women)

They don't seem to have any identity in Western Society. Black people on the other hand have an identity with their culture/music/style etc. which for me, is a great start when looking for attraction in a guy.

I have seen a few Indian couples in clubs, which, although I have never played with them, I probably would do if we all got on and were attracted to each other.

I've tried to be honest here, and I know I am generalising, but its just my opinion.

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

having been to a few clubs on a regular basis it does seem that asian men very seldom have a female partner ,i have asked a few and answer was the same its not in our culture as we are men? and women should be at home, not my idea of fun ,but everyone to there own i suppose,on saying that ihave met a lovely indian couple (doctor) they had a different outlook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"having been to a few clubs on a regular basis it does seem that asian men very seldom have a female partner ,i have asked a few and answer was the same its not in our culture as we are men? and women should be at home, not my idea of fun ,but everyone to there own i suppose,on saying that ihave met a lovely indian couple (doctor) they had a different outlook. "

Hmmm i agree with you BUT nowadays this century and generation is not like that any more. Their all out going no more house wifes shit women wants to enjoy same as men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad reputations?

Here's a clue. If you have a look in today's newspapers you'll see a group photo of the latest batch of openly racist paedophile 'Asians' telling us that all white girls are slags!

Bad reputation agree but asain girls are slags too that goes to indian/pakistani and bengali

Thats your job to be out their looking! And todays newspaper isnt saying that your going a long years back probably a decade ago, yesterday i just had an english girl approaching me for fun at the age of 17. Nooway aint that sad to even go their just wile i was sat in my car rolling up

Who are these Asian girls then.... I'm sure some of the guys would like a few names lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad reputations?

Here's a clue. If you have a look in today's newspapers you'll see a group photo of the latest batch of openly racist paedophile 'Asians' telling us that all white girls are slags!

Bad reputation agree but asain girls are slags too that goes to indian/pakistani and bengali

Thats your job to be out their looking! And todays newspaper isnt saying that your going a long years back probably a decade ago, yesterday i just had an english girl approaching me for fun at the age of 17. Nooway aint that sad to even go their just wile i was sat in my car rolling up

Who are these Asian girls then.... I'm sure some of the guys would like a few names lol"

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By *angoshotsMan
over a year ago

prescot

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By *angoshotsMan
over a year ago

prescot

that's why we love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm detecting a few Daily Mail readers in this thread

Last I checked, Jimmy Savile wasn't Asian...

Just sayin'

Last I checked, Jimmy Saville did not abuse Women............

Seriously you are now saying jimmy saville is better than most Asians? Need your head checking peeps

Just saying!"

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By *ozwon2016Man
over a year ago

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"I myself have no problems playing with any colour we are all humans after all regardless but I have to be honest most of the asians and blacks just fuck n go they don't take the time to pleasure."

Any ideaa as to why? Just curious

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan
over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai

I can only say I have been very fortunate meeting couples and single ladies, both as a single and in a couple. No longer with the lady I was seeing for over a year as I am working out the Middle East for the foreseeable and get back occasionally. Though I still do ok when I am back. I saw the post about fun and go. With a couple I will play as long as possible in a 1 on 1 situation. If we had a great time then I want it to carry on. I am never in any rush and have been known to have hogged a private room at a club all night or stayed over at people's places or hotels. Though there will be a time when a couple need there own time and some ladies want there space and sleep. You have to respect that. I don't worry about the papers and let people make there minds up about me when they meet me in person. I have been on the scene for 10 yrs+ and have played with all sorts. Even those who said they would never play with Asians. At the end of the day if we hit it off, then it will happen. Hopefully 2017 will be filled with even more great meets. Have a great 2017 everyone xxxooo

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"From Preston, and I'm a fairly educated guy, I keep fit, think my banters okay, why do Asian men have such bad reputations?? "

It's difficult for all of us on here it's not a race issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan
over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai

Get that out of your head man. Make an effort with your profile, get your name down for socials, go to clubs and make some new friends. I have been at this for more than 10 yrs and can safely tell you that if you follow my advice do you will meet people. Be clear on what you are offering. Honest and think about what Is in it for them. Ignore the ignorance and focus on the people who are interested. Happy to help with your profile rewrite. Remember it's quality not quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably just harder for men in general i'm sure the male to female ratio is very high

i don't think being asian is a problem to most

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By *amesLeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds City Centre Apartment

I'm white - check profile

And I can't get jack shit - if that's any consolation lol

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By *om and LisaCouple
over a year ago

gateshead

Wearing a placca tracksuit, always smoking, tons of gold.

Are we sure he wasn't?

This is a mad discussion though.

'Asian' is a huge population to generalise.

I would however point to data that shows that, unfortunately, 'asian' men aren't really in demand.

https://qz.com/149342/the-uncomfortable-racial-preferences-revealed-by-online-dating/

This is down to a load of factors, and I'd think that UK immigration issues very likely do not change this fact in any way.

However, this doesn't change the fact that the study and a lot of this chat is hugely generalising.

OP is an individual and mileage WILL vary.

Get a good profile blurb, get some nice photos and reply to advertised meets. You'll stand a better chance.

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By *exyajmalMan
over a year ago

oxford

Well Asian means Chinese, Japanese, Indian, Pakistani and other small countries too

How would you generalize to different nationalities???

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