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Struggeling to get verified :(

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello people am struggeling to get verified can any be a dear and help me with either a few tips or advice?¿ anyhelp is better then no help ;p

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Could you get to a social or a club? Either of those are good ways to meet people who can verify that you are who you say you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I could do yeah but i wudnt know were to start and i would prefer going with sumone because i get abit shy n nervous sometimes:/

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I understand that, I'd be nervous going alone to something like that too. Organised socials can be great though if the hosts take the time to introduce people to each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah am confident when i feel comfortable but in a situation like that i would just crumble like a biscuit dunked in milk for too long :,( and i really need someone like that n show me the ropes as the saying goes :D and all i have had up to yet of this site is bloke's sending me weird messages and requests and am not down for sword fights .. its just not my thing haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

First thing to do is go to your message filters and block single men from messaging you, that will solve that one .

I don't know what your expectations of the site are but I often use the Argos web site as a comparison. Fab isn't like that you can't browse, see something you'd like and have it delivered at the click of a mouse you need to put a bit of work in and be a bit brave. It can be tough for single men especially the younger ones because they are in such a large majority.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First thing to do is go to your message filters and block single men from messaging you, that will solve that one .

I don't know what your expectations of the site are but I often use the Argos web site as a comparison. Fab isn't like that you can't browse, see something you'd like and have it delivered at the click of a mouse you need to put a bit of work in and be a bit brave. It can be tough for single men especially the younger ones because they are in such a large majority."

Happy days haha i didnt know you could do that if i am honest with you thats being done straight away thank you. Haha thats a very good way of putting it and dont get me wrong i do try on the messageing front just not the club part, However no mater how hard i try on the messaging front i just seem to get no luck dont get me wrong i get the odd message back but nothing ever comes of it and on the club part i would have to go with some one, it would be weird as hell if a single lad just walks in on his own not knowing a soul in the place and i think your right their are alot of young single lads on here and i think theirs alot of di*ks on here aswell that spoils it for alot of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to an organised social is just like going to a new pub, except everyone is a swinger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I cant go o my own i would be propa nervous and i wudnt have a clue whats going on :0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant go o my own i would be propa nervous and i wudnt have a clue whats going on :0"

Most socials will meet you outside or for a social before the night

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By *ikeyb368Man
over a year ago

Cottingham

I went to my first social about a couple of months ago. I was having same problem getting verification. I didn't play at the first one just watched but met some nice friendly people who put me at ease. From that I started to get the verifications and I also got the confidence to play at subsequent socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant go o my own i would be propa nervous and i wudnt have a clue whats going on :0"

Then all you have to attract ladies is your profile.

Currently, it says nothing of substance - and those pictures show a filthy kitchen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah i know need sum help n it was taken at work thats y theirs a hi vis in the pic haha i dnt live in a place like that haha i live on a farm in a farm house

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray


"I went to my first social about a couple of months ago. I was having same problem getting verification. I didn't play at the first one just watched but met some nice friendly people who put me at ease. From that I started to get the verifications and I also got the confidence to play at subsequent socials."

Play at socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went to my first social about a couple of months ago. I was having same problem getting verification. I didn't play at the first one just watched but met some nice friendly people who put me at ease. From that I started to get the verifications and I also got the confidence to play at subsequent socials.

Play at socials

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i am intrested about going to a social its just my nerves i need to get over if am being honest with you

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