FabSwingers.com forum: Body conscious :/

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I absolutely hate my body!! I'm not fat at all but due to having kids have loads of stretch marks and flabby bits that I can't stand!!! I feel disgusting sometimes and just wanted some advice...I'm off to my very first proper party tomorrow night but in the back of my mind all I can think about is my disgusting belly and I'm scared it will make people run away from me

has anyone had feelings like this before??...before it's said I know I'm been stupid I'm just nervous...very nervous!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should think of it as your body is telling a story.... my wife is the same and i still find her very attractive. Just a shame she isn't interested in sex anymore....

By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

"I absolutely hate my body!! I'm not fat at all but due to having kids have loads of stretch marks and flabby bits that I can't stand!!! I feel disgusting sometimes and just wanted some advice...I'm off to my very first proper party tomorrow night but in the back of my mind all I can think about is my disgusting belly and I'm scared it will make people run away from me

has anyone had feelings like this before??...before it's said I know I'm been stupid I'm just nervous...very nervous! "

Same here. 3 operations later and I'm covered in a few scars and stretch marks from when I drastically lost weight due to my illness. First time I went to a club it took my fuck buddy 30 mins to get me to undress and leave the changing room. Im not too bad now but tend to walk round arms across my front or I hide behind my fuck buddy. Body stockings are good to cover up abit I have found.

By *r and Mrs SteakCouple
over a year ago

Darlaston

I felt the same the fist time i visited a club, but you soon realise that everyone had hang ups about the way they look and nobody will judge you as we're all in the same boat,

this community I've found to be very friendly, hope you have fun at your first party

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps you at all, without stating the obvious you should know that just being an idividual alone means that you being sexy or attractive is always going to be a factor as someone is always going to fancy the socks off you.

But for what it's worth I love stretch marks on a woman. I wouldnt say they were erotic but they definitely add to the appeal. Love your body and everyone else will x

By *howdown1Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

blokes have issues too. im that concious in a game of strip poker i would always remove my boxers rather than my shirt. yes i have a tum. but have man boobs. had them since a teen. thats why i love going bbw nights. a feeling we are all in it together. bumps and all. no judgement