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By *weet delightful couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

morpeth

here we go again not allowed to name and shame complete time wasters on this site we getting to many at the minute wasting our time by not showing or making feeble excuses does no one meet anymore apart from the clubs ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a prick from fife not showing after we paid for a hotel, 24 ish from Kelty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we don't arrange to meet people anywhere that we can't just enjoy ourselves as a couple on our own. because people will inevitably let you down sooner or later in this game, cold feet, broken vehicle, Aunt flow etc. so we always meet somewhere that we can at least enjoy ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This waster was adamant he was meeting right up to 5 mins before then no reply, we had fun together ourselves

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By *weet delightful couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

morpeth

know what your saying but there should be a way of highlighting who the serial time wasters are on here

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By *oving-lifeCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I suppose that's what verifications are for. . If they have a lot of good reviews there's a good chance they won't let you down.

Should have eBay style star ratings with negative and positive reviews lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah nightmare It appears it's happening more and more. I reckon as fabs getting more popular - it's bringing a lot more keyboard warriors getting off on abit of attention and not having the guts to go through with a meet.

Suggest just meeting with people that have various verifications which are more likely to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose that's what verifications are for. . If they have a lot of good reviews there's a good chance they won't let you down.

Should have eBay style star ratings with negative and positive reviews lol. X"

agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our latest one was in Hull, collected our pics then said he got a call at 11pm to work the next day, wanker

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We have had a few no shows it put u off meeting

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By *ime for fun guyMan
over a year ago

Wherever you want

Blimey, are they mad? It'd have to be a matter of life or death if a couple as hot as you wanted to meet me.

Absolutely nuts!!

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By *ime for fun guyMan
over a year ago

Wherever you want

They must be crazy not to meet you.

What is wrong with some people? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is deffo good idea star ratings for reliability these guys give us single guys a bad name think lots of coulples lose out because there age preferences is sometimes to low is older ones tend to be more reliable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many no shows to mention why we now do the searching if we care to meet

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By *admelusciousherCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Cant get my breath been let down also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our latest one posted that he was let down by no shows. Karma for the twat.

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin


"know what your saying but there should be a way of highlighting who the serial time wasters are on here "

Agree with this. Had a couple of no shows Friday...

Luckily based on expectation, 5 guys confirmed. One dropped out the morning of but at least called & apologised. One didnt show. Three actually made it. The two that didn't had 4 or 5 veris each.

Really think a show / no show flag would stop this.

Only had two planned meets & happened both times. Wonder if it's really worth subscribing to Fabs. Sticking to clubs is so much simpler.

Veris are clearly no measure of reliability of showing up. If they don't show there's simply no mechanism to report it.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

The story of my life recently. Interestingly those that's posted on this thread have already disappeared from this site in a puff of smoke. There is some irony in that I think. #flakey

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By *ensual999Man
over a year ago

Sussex

It makes you wonder whether you could negatively veri them..

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Sorry for my ignorance but why can't we name and shame? I would certainly be making sure others knew of someone was unreliable. It's a community and we need to share that information to ensure we are all aware.

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By *eliciously DirtyMan
over a year ago

sawley

We had one a few weeks ago , Roxy was messaging this guy who said he was staying (regularly with work) at this hotel which was a 50 mile drive from us, he had a few good veris on show and a few hidden Ines he described the hotel to a tee, we got there at the arranged time in the bar and messaged him Got no answer we called him got no answer, we waited an hour he didn't show .......... So just in case he did stay at the hotel Rudy went to the reception and the bar and asked if this guy was a guest showed them his fab profile his pictures and told them we'd arranged to meet this guy there for a stranger 3 some and hard core sex . We messaged him again both on fab and via his mobile and we sent a true veri , that night he blocked us then changed his name and his location and is still on fab having changed locations 3 times now and still advertising for meets , .......... OUR DAY WILL COME AND RUDY WILL GET REVENGE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for my ignorance but why can't we name and shame? I would certainly be making sure others knew of someone was unreliable. It's a community and we need to share that information to ensure we are all aware."

Because it is open to abuse. Too many butt hurt people on here can't take rejection and then have a hissy fit and try and shame people. The reality is people do talk to their friends so do it informally.

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"Sorry for my ignorance but why can't we name and shame? I would certainly be making sure others knew of someone was unreliable. It's a community and we need to share that information to ensure we are all aware.

Because it is open to abuse. Too many butt hurt people on here can't take rejection and then have a hissy fit and try and shame people. The reality is people do talk to their friends so do it informally."

Makes sense and all received. Thanks for clearing that up

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