FabSwingers.com forum: Untrusting meets.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you get told that someone wants to meet, they don't have Whatsapp, kik etc and you have no contact number. They're very short with messages.

Do you go or not?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So you get told that someone wants to meet, they don't have Whatsapp, kik etc and you have no contact number. They're very short with messages.

Do you go or not? "

If you feel something isn't right don't go. Try asking directly if they intend to turn up and for a contact number

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"So you get told that someone wants to meet, they don't have Whatsapp, kik etc and you have no contact number. They're very short with messages.

Do you go or not? "

No.

Forget the manner of communication. Some people are wary of new types of communication like Kik or WhatsApp. The length of conversation/messages is a big sign.

If they can't communicate with you now, then how in the hell are you going to communicate your sexual needs with you (and vice versa)?

And is he just going to grunt throughout and have no conversation after?

No, no, no.

Don't go.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"So you get told that someone wants to meet, they don't have Whatsapp, kik etc and you have no contact number. They're very short with messages.

Do you go or not? "
With no contact number, I would not even consider going .

If I phone someone before leaving the house for a pre arrangee meet and they they not answer the phone I would not even consider leaving the house .

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

No:

Sounds non- committal.

Kik etc are not essential, but phone numbers are .

Some people are not good st communicating,

But whatever, I can't fuck anyone who doesn't communicate. ( before, during, or after)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked this question because you already know the answer. This just sounds wrong. Not the Kik/Whatsapp, the terse messaging and the lack of contact number. Don't go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never swapped numbers ahead of a meet. I've also never had a no show, or failed to turn up myself.

For me it all depends on the conversation leading up to it. Not only because taking a bit of time to write a full sentence or 5 implies they're more likely to meet, but because I'm able to begin to form some kind of connection. As said above, if they can't communicate in a message, there's no hope in the sack...

If I ever had a no show, they'd be blocked immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never given our number out before a meet and don't use any other form of contact till after either, Never not shown up.

I'm (jane) not the best at text chat,so messages can be hit and miss also

but can talk for England in the flesh.

Doesn't make us fake ect...but I'd say go with your gut instinct always works for us x

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"We've never given our number out before a meet and don't use any other form of contact till after either, Never not shown up.

I'm (jane) not the best at text chat,so messages can be hit and miss also

but can talk for England in the flesh.

Doesn't make us fake ect...but I'd say go with your gut instinct always works for us x"

This is the same with us too. Usually takes me ages to type one sentence, so my messages are generally kept short and to the point lol.

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By *lackburn_guyMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

"So you get told that someone wants to meet, they don't have Whatsapp, kik etc and you have no contact number. They're very short with messages.

Do you go or not? With no contact number, I would not even consider going .

If I phone someone before leaving the house for a pre arrangee meet and they they not answer the phone I would not even consider leaving the house . "

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