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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all , never been to a club and would like info on what to expect as a single guy , don't even know what to wear (very new to this ) thx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're thinking of going to no3 (seen your area just now) then you just dress smart, like you would on a night out on the town. For the dress down part most guys wear a towel(the club can provide these for you or you can take your own), and some take their own dressing gown.

No idea what to expect as a single guy, definitely don't expect to get sex though it is more likely to happen it also might not.

The club has a very relaxed atmosphere, people are polite. There are open rooms where you can watch people play and they can watch you, and private rooms with curtains that can be shut and doors locked if you want privacy.

People won't approach you, they will leave you to yourself and not pester you. They'll chat if you chat to them.

Other clubs might be more lively or not as well organised, idk. In any case i'd check out the clubs website of any club that takes your fancy to see what nights single men can go on and if there's any paticular themes you might prefer (like MILF nights, socials or whatever). You can find the club reviews on the page that says CLUBS at the top of the page.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for advise

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem. Hope you have a good time.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers , think I'd be better taking an experienced female first lol to shy to go on own

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheers , think I'd be better taking an experienced female first lol to shy to go on own

I went on my own, walked it down there and was panicking coz it was my first time. It's not that bad, i just told myself i would leave if i didn't like it.

Surprise yourself?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You are brave wow it be shitting it lol probs go with a mate first n see

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't anything to be scared of really. If you enjoy socialising then you'll definitely have a good time.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love socialising