FabSwingers.com forum: Polish and Foreign people...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Guys

Why is it that people judge based on origin/place of birth. We were messaging a single female, exchanged pictures and numbers. We started messaging and she identified that we have different names (clearly I'm Asian therefore don't have an English name and he is Caucasian), this was not an issue. She asked me about the origins of my partner. When I replied he was 1/2 SPANISH 1/2 POLISH, instant BLOCK!!

She even claimed she wasn't being rude? He has resided in this country for many years and speaks perfect English (even adopted the Brummy accent lol).

Can I have your views on why being Polish is such a big issue for some people?

I've been to Poland numerous times and absolutely loved it and the culture.

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally race or culture should not and would not come into question with us but that's just us narrow minded springs to mind chin-up they not worth it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it was the Spanish half they didn't like...?

Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!"

How is this any different from you discriminating against black and Asian men as stated in your profile? You don't want to meet blacks/Asians, they didn't want to meet polish/Spanish? Saves a lot if time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Currently Polish people are getting alot of abuse, can't really see the Spanish aspect being an issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The difference is that if I stated I like black men, started speaking to a particular individual and ready to meet them...then asked are you from Nigeria? and blocked them, it's not to do with their skin colour but "Where they are from"

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

Ummmmm, Asian men are from Asia its not just the colour of their skin

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By *irthngushCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

Don't mind any ethnicity as long as they are what u looking for and if not no need to give any abuse , seems very nasty

Can confirm this cpl are very yummy so if don't meet your loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The difference is she stated she is into "Caucasian men", there was no mention of "English born only". From this you would gather there would be no issues.

As soon as Spanish/Polish are mentioned (bearing in mind Mr is Caucasian and within her specified preference)...blocked.

This is the difference between preference and ignorance.

Just because I'm not into Black or Asian men, I'm not ignorant or racist. I have many black and asian friends (male) but it just boils down to the fact that I don't find them attractive. Everyone is entitled to preference and aslong as that is "stated" no issues. How many people "state" they are only looking for a paticular race, e.g BBC ONLY.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Aww, thank you x

Glad to hear that there are open minded and honest individuals like yourself x x "

Don't mind any ethnicity as long as they are what u looking for and if not no need to give any abuse , seems very nasty

Can confirm this cpl are very yummy so if don't meet your loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I getbit all the time due to me looking Asian even though I am not find it very shallow in all fairness and such a shame a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see anything off putting about him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" It is shallow indeed "

I getbit all the time due to me looking Asian even though I am not find it very shallow in all fairness and such a shame a

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Thanks

oooh, btw he used to have a Golf lol

I dont see anything off putting about him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Thanks

oooh, btw he used to have a Golf lol

I dont see anything off putting about him

Nuff said then he's a keeper lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I've got a firm grip on him lol...wouldn't mind sharing!"

Thanks

oooh, btw he used to have a Golf lol

I dont see anything off putting about him

Nuff said then he's a keeper lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you got dished a sour dose of your own medine, if you asked me. Now the boot is on the other foot, if you catch my drift. Like someone already said, chin up. Suffice it to say that everyone's entitled to their preferences, myopically racially motivated or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I've got a firm grip on him lol...wouldn't mind sharing!

Thanks

oooh, btw he used to have a Golf lol

I dont see anything off putting about him

Nuff said then he's a keeper lol"

Damn distance lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well the other half has no preferences, black, asian, white or purple. So why should he suffer due to my preference. I don't think it's a dose of my own medicine."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OMG, Scotland is very far lol"

I've got a firm grip on him lol...wouldn't mind sharing!

Thanks

oooh, btw he used to have a Golf lol

I dont see anything off putting about him

Nuff said then he's a keeper lol

Damn distance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always wanted to be graced the Luck of meet a European women but never have sadly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good luck, you never know. Start by displaying a pic first..."

I have always wanted to be graced the Luck of meet a European women but never have sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently Polish people are getting alot of abuse, can't really see the Spanish aspect being an issue. "

I don't see the issue at all.....it doesn't really matter where you come from and yet everyone has their own opinions. Block and move on....plenty more fun times to be had and plenty of people out there to have them with.

As for me personally, he looks ok and you are stunning.....no issues here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What difference does it make? They didn't want to meet. It's just sex. Find someone that does want to meet.

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By *ussianbabeWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Hi Guys

She even claimed she wasn't being rude? He has resided in this country for many years and speaks perfect English (even adopted the Brummy accent lol).

Can I have your views on why being Polish is such a big issue for some people?

I've been to Poland numerous times and absolutely loved it and the culture.

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!"

I am russian and never had any problems to meet .. u just contact wrong person to meet .. but there are many people who ll love to meet with u lol !! Just forget it and enjoe fun and sex !! I v been some swingers holidays in europe met lots of diferent nationalitis and all lovely sexy people !!! And no one ever had any problems !! Happy swinging

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By *ussianbabeWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Ps just looked at ure profile .. your guy has body to die for !! Hot and sexy !! U are amazing cpl u would deff meet u if ll be not in belfast.. !!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What difference does it make? They didn't want to meet. It's just sex. Find someone that does want to meet."

Well personally I wouldn't choose to meet someone who's first language wasn't English. For me, it's definitely not just about sex... its about a personality click, craic, banter and playfulness.

I need to have that connection, so even if someone has lived in an English speaking country for quite some time, for the most part, I still prefer a native speaker every time who is more likely to pick up on the nuances in conversation....obviously though there will very exceptions occasionally

Before I am totally lambasted for being racist...I'm not....its just a preference for me...The same as I prefer intelligent, easy going guys who are tall with rugby builds who like to take control in the bedroom. I would be unlikely to ever choose a shorter fella or a blonde guy. This fact doesn't make me prejudiced...It's just who I'm attracted to.

So.....perhaps this is a reason they ceased contact and didn't want to say, for fear of being called racist?????

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By *ussianbabeWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

We all do what makes as happy and what we like .. for some people english isnt 1 st language but they try and learn it .. plus they can speak not only english .. it is mean u ll not exp any other nationalitis if they not speak proper english ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps that particular person has previously had bad experiences with people of a particular origin and doesn't want to take the chance on it happening again? It doesn't necessarily make it right but it may give an insight into why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all do what makes as happy and what we like .. for some people english isnt 1 st language but they try and learn it .. plus they can speak not only english .. it is mean u ll not exp any other nationalitis if they not speak proper english ?? "

Well I've only met one guy off the site for fun. I admit I'm a very very very fussy cow. Tbh I've never been asked by asked non English native speaker.. I'm not saying I never would...I'm just saying it's a preference for me....There has to be a cerebral connection for me. Also I would never meet someone who peppers every sentence with expletives..just not my thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polish women look very sexy. Wudnt be a problem for me. Especially if I met my polish neighbour on here. She is hot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I treat everyone the same as I would want to be treated and form my like or dislikes against there attitude. Colour creed or religious beliefs don't come in to it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What difference does it make? They didn't want to meet. It's just sex. Find someone that does want to meet."

I agree it's just sex, but it all comes down to principle. On our profile we shouldn't have to list details about *Nationality or *Level of English.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ps just looked at ure profile .. your guy has body to die for !! Hot and sexy !! U are amazing cpl u would deff meet u if ll be not in belfast.. !!x"

Thank you! You look great too

It's a shame you live sooo far. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What difference does it make? They didn't want to meet. It's just sex. Find someone that does want to meet.

Well personally I wouldn't choose to meet someone who's first language wasn't English. For me, it's definitely not just about sex... its about a personality click, craic, banter and playfulness.

So.....perhaps this is a reason they ceased contact and didn't want to say, for fear of being called racist?????"

Well I was born in England but I speak other languages. Other half speaks perfect English, better than those who live here. Does that make us less able have a conversation or maintain a connection.

When I first met other half I had no idea he wasn't English until we started speaking indepth, this didn't detract me from him. The fact he was well educated, intellectually stimulating, well mannered and very playful hit the spot for me.

People on here say "Oh it's about language and personality", now it seems like a dating site. Are people looking to fuck or find someone to take home to their Mum?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps that particular person has previously had bad experiences with people of a particular origin and doesn't want to take the chance on it happening again? It doesn't necessarily make it right but it may give an insight into why. "

If that is the case then my other half has had ALOT of bad experiences and if he decided to not take another chance we wouldn't be on this site. He never judges anyone based on where they're from. Everyone is different and has their own qualities, it's all broadening horizons. We were both messaging her and she wasn't able to tell the difference between me or o/h's communication - what does that say?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Don't get me wrong but what if we were to say No Irish or No Scottish as we can't understand them due to heavy accent. How would that make you feel?"

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Hi Guys

She even claimed she wasn't being rude? He has resided in this country for many years and speaks perfect English (even adopted the Brummy accent lol).

Can I have your views on why being Polish is such a big issue for some people?

I've been to Poland numerous times and absolutely loved it and the culture.

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!"
. Fab has a very wide variety of members and the failure to arrange a meet may have nothing to do with being Polish. If people cease corresponding with me , I never bother about the reasons , I just move on to more suitable members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says she doesn't want to meet you...it's really that simple. While it may be wrong, your feelings about it clearly don't matter to her. She has voted with her block button for whatever reason it may be. I'm afraid that if you're looking to change people's minds or the inequalities and unfairness in society in general through an Internet site where people look to have casual sex with strangers, then you'll end up having a frustrating and unhappy time...reasoned and rational arguments such as the ones you're putting across cut no ice in what is essentially a shallow pursuit of largely transient encounters...it's not her loss, because she isn't having sex with people she doesn't want to meet for whatever reason, and it's not your loss either if you now go on to concentrate on the people who do want to meet you

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Happy swinging

" Thanks for your post. In all honesty we're not looking to change the world or peoples opinions. We just want people's views on the matter. As you rightly said it's not our loss, at the end of the day we're here to experience as a couple, if we don't meet the right people...we have each other and very happy.

Happy swinging to you too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What difference does it make? They didn't want to meet. It's just sex. Find someone that does want to meet.

I agree it's just sex, but it all comes down to principle. On our profile we shouldn't have to list details about *Nationality or *Level of English."

So it's not ok for people to have one kind of preference if it means they won't meet you?

What would you do if a 60 year old man mailed you? Would you meet him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What difference does it make? They didn't want to meet. It's just sex. Find someone that does want to meet.

I agree it's just sex, but it all comes down to principle. On our profile we shouldn't have to list details about *Nationality or *Level of English.

So it's not ok for people to have one kind of preference if it means they won't meet you?

What would you do if a 60 year old man mailed you? Would you meet him?

" Well my age preference is set but for argument sake if I was looking for a 60 year old caucasian bloke and he messaged then yes. I wouldn't arrange a meet and then decline because I found out he was French and not English "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What difference does it make? They didn't want to meet. It's just sex. Find someone that does want to meet.

I agree it's just sex, but it all comes down to principle. On our profile we shouldn't have to list details about *Nationality or *Level of English.

So it's not ok for people to have one kind of preference if it means they won't meet you?

What would you do if a 60 year old man mailed you? Would you meet him?

Well my age preference is set but for argument sake if I was looking for a 60 year old caucasian bloke and he messaged then yes. I wouldn't arrange a meet and then decline because I found out he was French and not English "

Maybe they just genuinely changed their mind and chickened out of a meet and made up an excuse. It sometimes happens.

Either way, they didn't want to meet after all. Just got to shrug your shoulders and smile and move on.

P.S. I'm intrigued as to how you're replying to posts. The post you reply to is in between the 'quote' brackets, you should type your reply after that. Then the post you're replying to is kind of greyed out and your words are darker so we can tell what you've said. (Sorry, not trying to be a twat.. I'm just easily confused.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What difference does it make? They didn't want to meet. It's just sex. Find someone that does want to meet.

I agree it's just sex, but it all comes down to principle. On our profile we shouldn't have to list details about *Nationality or *Level of English.

So it's not ok for people to have one kind of preference if it means they won't meet you?

What would you do if a 60 year old man mailed you? Would you meet him?

Maybe they just genuinely changed their mind and chickened out of a meet and made up an excuse. It sometimes happens.

Either way, they didn't want to meet after all. Just got to shrug your shoulders and smile and move on.

I didn't realise there was a Fabetiquette of how to reply

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Well the other half has no preferences, black, asian, white or purple. So why should he suffer due to my preference. I don't think it's a dose of my own medicine.

but up to a point... the gentleman who said this was right...

its like people say... "i am allowed to have my preferences.... but how dare your preference infringe/impact on me!!!!"

it doesn't matter what the preference was... just that you happened to be on the wrong end of it......

as we say in my world..... "them's the breaks!!"

see you focused on the polish bit.... as someone said it could well have been the spanish... but you focused on the thing you think it was.... aint going to change the preference now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong but what if we were to say No Irish or No Scottish as we can't understand them due to heavy accent. How would that make you feel?"

I wouldn't care at all. What's the point In meeting someone If they're not keen on meeting you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe the girl had a really bad experience with a polish or Spanish person and it put her off, don't see how you can put it down to her being racist? you don't know the reasons but you say that because she may have had one bad experience she shouldnt discriminate against your boyfriend, who are you to say what she should or shouldnt do, you have no idea why she feels that way in the first place, unless she made some kind of racial slur towards his nationality???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are in a very frustrating situation..maybe not down to people being racist..but just indifference?having served in the forces and living in Germany and Holland..being treated as an 'outsider'can and is very upsetting.There is no surefire remedy,but you soon learn who your friends are.All I can say for sure is.....THEIR LOSS!sorry xx

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By *rcher XMan
over a year ago

Ghost Town

Sometimes this can happen because certain groups have strong active communities, Poles being one such group. Maybe she is dating or has dated a vanilla Pole.

I've seen it were ladies who belong to certain groups will not meet guys from there own community so i don't think its discrimination just forward thinking.

There are those on here who will not meet people from there local area so that they will not bump into them in the future which is the same kind of principle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What difference does it make? They didn't want to meet. It's just sex. Find someone that does want to meet.

I agree it's just sex, but it all comes down to principle. On our profile we shouldn't have to list details about *Nationality or *Level of English.

So it's not ok for people to have one kind of preference if it means they won't meet you?

What would you do if a 60 year old man mailed you? Would you meet him?

Maybe they just genuinely changed their mind and chickened out of a meet and made up an excuse. It sometimes happens.

Either way, they didn't want to meet after all. Just got to shrug your shoulders and smile and move on.

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I didn't realise there was a Fabetiquette of how to reply

Not at all. Just me, easily confused. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

What? It really said that on their profile? For real???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sad but some people can be really shallow. I understand the lack of attraction to a race but to discriminate based on nationality is pretty lame. I really don't give a fuck about such people. I have a block list longer than a donkey's dick. Any such nonsense they can fuck off. This is supposed to be fun. Can't be made emotional by stupid people. I love all races and only discriminate against rude or timewasters ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately is the lack of compassion and education that these people have that cause them to hate other people, I've experienced it being a second gen pole, experienced it in school, work and public. And the ironic thing is..... If they had to look into the history of their country (Scotland in my case) the would find deep historical ties between Scotland and Poland, which date back to the 16th centuary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"maybe the girl had a really bad experience with a polish or Spanish persosn and it put her off, don't see how you can put it down to her being racist? you don't know the reasons but you say that because she may have had one bad experience she shouldnt discriminate against your boyfriend, who are you to say what she should or shouldnt do, you have no idea why she feels that way in the first place, unless she made some kind of racial slur towards his nationality???"

Either you can't read or I need to go to Specsavers. Firstly when did I mention she was racist? Rightly so I don't know what experiences she's had, but there's no need to be rude. When I receive messages I reply to everyone and if they don't tickle my fancy I don't block them. It's common courtesy. I never told her what she should or shouldn't do. We agreed on travel travel arrangements, if we had traveled quite a distance and she then said sorry but I don't do "Polish/Spanish" would you consider that ok, because she "may" have had a bad experience? How would you feel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's sad but some people can be really shallow. I understand the lack of attraction to a race but to discriminate based on nationality is pretty lame. I really don't give a fuck about such people. I have a block list longer than a donkey's dick. Any such nonsense they can fuck off. This is supposed to be fun. Can't be made emotional by stupid people. I love all races and only discriminate against rude or timewasters ...

You've hit the nail right on the head!!! Sooo glad you actually understand the difference of "lack of attraction to a race" and "discriminating based on nationality". Many people really don't understand where we're coming from. The main issue we're talking about is nationality not racism. I like the donkey dick comment lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately is the lack of compassion and education that these people have that cause them to hate other people, I've experienced it being a second gen pole, experienced it in school, work and public. And the ironic thing is..... If they had to look into the history of their country (Scotland in my case) the would find deep historical ties between Scotland and Poland, which date back to the 16th centuary "

You're right it's ignorance and clearly education is the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant believe this thread is still going, it really is a kettle calling the pot thread!

preference is preference but it becomes hypocritical when the op has a similar thing in their profile but then removes it when it comes on top for them!

if someone knocks you back for whatever reason, move on and find someone that suits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cant believe this thread is still going, it really is a kettle calling the pot thread!

preference is preference but it becomes hypocritical when the op has a similar thing in their profile but then removes it when it comes on top for them!

if someone knocks you back for whatever reason, move on and find someone that suits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"cant believe this thread is still going, it really is a kettle calling the pot thread!

preference is preference but it becomes hypocritical when the op has a similar thing in their profile but then removes it when it comes on top for them!

if someone knocks you back for whatever reason, move on and find someone that suits

Hmmm, I can't believe the Kiss, Fuck or Pass thread is still going on

If you don't like it then that's fine but we are moving on and good riddance but there's nothing wrong with people stating their views.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"cant believe this thread is still going, it really is a kettle calling the pot thread!

preference is preference but it becomes hypocritical when the op has a similar thing in their profile but then removes it when it comes on top for them!

if someone knocks you back for whatever reason, move on and find someone that suits

Atleast we put it in our profile, best to be upfront and honest - not hypocritical. We removed it as people clearly don't take note of preferences anyway...so what's the point! If you actually read the posts you would understand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"cant believe this thread is still going, it really is a kettle calling the pot thread!

preference is preference but it becomes hypocritical when the op has a similar thing in their profile but then removes it when it comes on top for them!

if someone knocks you back for whatever reason, move on and find someone that suits

As you clearly haven't read posts - read the one by Marcus-Taurus! Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cant believe this thread is still going, it really is a kettle calling the pot thread!

preference is preference but it becomes hypocritical when the op has a similar thing in their profile but then removes it when it comes on top for them!

if someone knocks you back for whatever reason, move on and find someone that suits

As you clearly haven't read posts - read the one by Marcus-Taurus! Simples. "

we have been reading all the posts since the thread has started, and please, if you are quoting 1 post that suits you, please don't dismiss the rest that don't, honestly

you have preferances just like anyone else, but moaning when someone isn't interested in you due to race or nationality, when you had it in your profile about not meeting folk of certain backgrounds does make you look a bit hypocritical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why admin haven't closed or removed this pointless thread.

A couple who will not meet black or Asian complain because someone else won't meet Polish (their perception at least).

Hypocritical ignorance......IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't understand why admin haven't closed or removed this pointless thread.

A couple who will not meet black or Asian complain because someone else won't meet Polish (their perception at least).

Hypocritical ignorance......IMHO."

we are surprised its still here too,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't understand why admin haven't closed or removed this pointless thread.

A couple who will not meet black or Asian complain because someone else won't meet Polish (their perception at least).

Hypocritical ignorance......IMHO.

we are surprised its still here too,

Clearly you have problems understanding or your thought process is different. The whole post was based on a woman who was looking for a "CAUCASIAN" man and didn't specify what "NATIONALITY". We agreed to meet and planned travel arrangements. Further down the line she asked what my partners "NATIONALITY/ORIGIN" IS. When we stated 1/2 POLISH 1/2 SPANISH she ceased contact and blocked us. If she said she is looking for "CAUCASIAN" but "ENGLISH ONLY" we wouldn't have replied to her initial message and advised we do not fit "HER PREFERENCES" and wish her all the best - rant over.

Admin should delete this post?!?! You were never obliged to follow or post of you weren't interested. Maybe you'd like to comment on posta about men getting frills from shitting and spunking in nappies and sniffing dirty/used pants. There's something for everyone, we're not judgmental or troll their posts, so of you don't like then fine, don't join in.

Have a good day! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still, you won't meet anyone of certain ethnic origin so why do you even have an issue with her not wanting to meet you , why even post about it unless it annoyed you? its pretty simple for anyone reading this thread to see that you think she has a problem with certain nationalities, yet you don't see any correlation with your preferences? Strange indeed, maybe its the rejection itself that is the most irritating to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Still, you won't meet anyone of certain ethnic origin so why do you even have an issue with her not wanting to meet you , why even post about it unless it annoyed you? its pretty simple for anyone reading this thread to see that you think she has a problem with certain nationalities, yet you don't see any correlation with your preferences? Strange indeed, maybe its the rejection itself that is the most irritating to you."

There was no rejection initially, even after swapping pics and talking. It's not the rejection that irritates us. Clearly she blocked us soon after she asked about his nationality and origin. It's the way she went about it. We know everone has preference but on here it seems very few know the DIFFERENCE between "PREFERENCE" and "IGNORANCE".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, you got knocked back because the other party had a preference that you didnt suit!

Regardless of how you dress it up, no one is owed a sympathy shag!

And as for the bit about being suprised that this thread has been allowed to continue, usually threads like this dont stay on long cos its a recipe for disaster and can certainly make folk look silly, good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How was she being ignorant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

What? It really said that on their profile? For real???"

Yes they did, very prominent in capitals, no Asians or blacks. It disappeared shortly after I pointed out that this was a tad hypocritical after being so upset because someone blocked them after they found out about their ethnic origin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many might feel the same about your preferences though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

What? It really said that on their profile? For real???

Excuse me, but shortly after YOU pointed it out?? Oh please. We changed it because certain idiots don't have the brain capacity. I took out that I'm not interested in black or asian men. I'm interested in Caucasian but it makes no difference if they're Scottish, Welsh, Polish, French or German - understand that that this is a Nationality!!. People just want to jump on the band wagon with pointless comments. Seriously some of you need to go back to school and be re-educated on the difference between Nationality and Race...there's a huge difference. Someone can look caucasian and be an African national BUT shouldn't be discriminated on the basis of WHERE they are from. Many don't even understand that geographically Britain is in EUROPE. Technically we are European. I can't be bothered to reply to individuals with a brain the size of a peanut. If you've got something to say make sure it's constructive...otherwise you're just wasting your time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

What? It really said that on their profile? For real???

Someone blocked us after they found out our ethnic origin? Hmm, really? If you had actually read anything at all, she blocked us after she found out about Mr's nationality...initially the fact he was caucasian was perfectly finr. Clearly states on our profile I'm Asian and other half is Caucasian. So I think you need to look very carefully. We DIDN'T say "No Asians or Blacks"...

it said "Not interest in asian or black males" we would never have worded it as ignorantly as you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so if it wasn't pointed out in this thread op, would you still have your hypocritical statement in your profile that might put people off you? cos it was there at the start of this thread but it was removed when the irony was pointed out, purely speaking on behalf of our own peanut brain

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"so if it wasn't pointed out in this thread op, would you still have your hypocritical statement in your profile that might put people off you? cos it was there at the start of this thread but it was removed when the irony was pointed out, purely speaking on behalf of our own peanut brain

i was actually going to ask the same question...

was it removed because they saw that others would in fact see it as hypocritical....

or because it would help with their arguement (or gain sympathy)

or because they saw that people could read into exactly the same thing they were argueing against...

its a interest thing seeing someone trying to argue out of both sides of their mouths....

"my preference is fine..... but your preference which is in effect the same preference as the one i have, is not because it effects me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was actually going to ask the same question...

was it removed because they saw that others would in fact see it as hypocritical....

or because it would help with their arguement (or gain sympathy)

or because they saw that people could read into exactly the same thing they were argueing against...

its a interest thing seeing someone trying to argue out of both sides of their mouths....

"my preference is fine..... but your preference which is in effect the same preference as the one i have, is not because it effects me"

kettle calling the pot, or sour grapes like someone else said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it said "Not interest in asian or black males" we would never have worded it as ignorantly as you have."

How is omitting the word males ignorant??

Any way I used the word ethnic which is defined as : of or relating to large groups of people classed according to common racial, national, tribal, religious, linguistic, or cultural origin or background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

What? It really said that on their profile? For real???

Are you for real?! Please explain how it's ok for you to have a preference about the colour of people you meet but not ok for other people to have preferences about who they meet.

Don't worry, I know you won't answer. Because you can't. It's the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

What? It really said that on their profile? For real???

Are you for real?! Please explain how it's ok for you to have a preference about the colour of people you meet but not ok for other people to have preferences about who they meet.

Don't worry, I know you won't answer. Because you can't. It's the same thing.

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SERIOUSLY....are you brain dead??

I have preferences, the same as everyone else.I never said people can't have preferences. Honestly you really don't understand do you?!

E.G I will meet ANY CAUSASIAN WOMAN, REGARDLESS OF IF SHE IS OF "ANOTHER" NATIONALITY.

If people don't wish to meet people of other nationalities they should state that. Rather than WASTING peoples time.

Clearly you don't understand English so there's no point me trying to explain to a numpty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well thats another lie, cos the op has just claimed they will meet any caucasian fem, but then has age limits ect on their profile?? Make your mind up guys, thats just made you look even worse

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"P.S NO BI/BI CURIOUS MEN OR COCKS IN FROCKS!

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We understand there are a variety of individuals on Fab and each to their own but if you especially don't like tattoos then we aren't for you. Recent face pics will be sent on request as we are both professionals. I must add that we are both well educated and mannered."

I would suggest that you are neither

And before you point out that I too am racist, let me simply state that mine, just as yours, are preferences too which do not include Indian / Asian or Slavic people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny when people realise they are hypocrites they start firing out the insults

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well thats another lie, cos the op has just claimed they will meet any caucasian fem, but then has age limits ect on their profile?? Make your mind up guys, thats just made you look even worse

Don't be pointing out my preferences.

Clearly you won't meet anyone above size 14 and anyone who looks old....clearly not discriminating based on body size or age?

Clearly you've only met white individuals...instead of stating it on your profile, it can be seen from your content.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People have gone off topic. Seriously create a new post and have a rant there. I haven't got time for certain idiots.

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit early to be starting on the strong liquor isn't it? As I'm in the Caribbean at the mo, I have no idea of the uk time, still, rum punch anyone? Or is that a bit "ethnic"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well thats another lie, cos the op has just claimed they will meet any caucasian fem, but then has age limits ect on their profile?? Make your mind up guys, thats just made you look even worse

Don't be pointing out my preferences.

Clearly you won't meet anyone above size 14 and anyone who looks old....clearly not discriminating based on body size or age?

Clearly you've only met white individuals...instead of stating it on your profile, it can be seen from your content."

Ha ha, we meet people our own age ane our own size, do you????

And as for our meets, please dont try to make us out to sound as bad as you, as we at no point rule out anyone that meets our preferences, or at no point are we hypocritical with it, unlike yourselves, that was a terrible arguement but glad you got that off your chest! Anything else?? (And just for the record we have met ladies from southern europe and also from asia and cuba)

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

I suspect it is more likely they just chickened out at that point - unless they actually told you that was the reason for blocking you can't really assume it was anything to do with country of origin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why Polish people are being discriminated against.

Would love to hear your views!!

What? It really said that on their profile? For real???

Are you for real?! Please explain how it's ok for you to have a preference about the colour of people you meet but not ok for other people to have preferences about who they meet.

Don't worry, I know you won't answer. Because you can't. It's the same thing.

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SERIOUSLY....are you brain dead??

I have preferences, the same as everyone else.I never said people can't have preferences. Honestly you really don't understand do you?!

E.G I will meet ANY CAUSASIAN WOMAN, REGARDLESS OF IF SHE IS OF "ANOTHER" NATIONALITY.

If people don't wish to meet people of other nationalities they should state that. Rather than WASTING peoples time.

Clearly you don't understand English so there's no point me trying to explain to a numpty.

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You are clearly a lovely friendly person. Perhaps THIS was the real reason she didn't want to meet you.

I don't think she wasted your time at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, people haven't gone off the topic - you just realised how untenable your position was. Did you pick up on something someone mentioned about 'Slavic people'? The import was probably lost on you. And you were quick to bandy words around - Caucasian', 'nationality' etc but I can tell you all you know about racial taxonomy can be written on the back of a postage stamp, from the foregoing.

The last time I checked, we're still on a swinging site and not the Equality and Human Rights Commission. If you have preferences and someone rejected you based on their own preference, man up. As she didn't tell you why, no one else can - whatever you hear now is educated guesses or speculations. I'd put it down to preferences. It doesn't call for sympathy or empathy. By the way, your profile was more honest with the bit about black and Asian men. You can't just take it off like that because people pointed out your self evident double standards. And I see you have updated your partner's ethnic origins. Well done. such details are important for some fussy people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, people haven't gone off the topic - you just realised how untenable your position was. Did you pick up on something someone mentioned about 'Slavic people'? The import was probably lost on you. And you were quick to bandy words around - Caucasian', 'nationality' etc but I can tell you all you know about racial taxonomy can be written on the back of a postage stamp, from the foregoing.

Right guys it`s male half now let me tell you it`s gone out of hand here. I wasn`t aware of all this forum bullshit as it`s not my thing to cry about myself, It never bothered me, obviously my gf got offended more then me which I find funny.I personally like all races and origins but accept people have preferences so you should!

I took it off our profile myself as we no longer looking for MF without knowing about all this accusations on this funny forum, please stop posting on this topic and if anyone knows how to DELETE it please let me know because its childish and leading nowhere. Thank you all for your input but it wasn`t necessary. Please concentrate on messaging hot people on here more and less on commenting on silly matters like this one.

Have fun all you sexy people!!!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Have fun all you sexy people!!!

Just send a request to the site moderators to close this thread

I think you can either use the report button on your original post of the Contact link at the bottom of each page

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By *rystal denisonWoman
over a year ago

trowbridge

i just looked at your pics ... He is hot lol her loss x

love your pics too

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