FabSwingers.com forum: Am i doing something wrong???

By *ancubsa OP Man
over a year ago

Newport

So, I have had a few socials and meets, on this site and others, met some awesome people and others, well lets say they weren't for me. I don't post my sexual endeavours on here as sometimes I feel discretion is more important but at the same I don't jump into bed with everyone.

However, it does bite the hell out of me with what some women on here ask you to do like... Compose a novel of what you would like to do to me or Convince me you're the best candidate.

So you sit there taking a reasonable amount of time caringly preparing an email with the hope that you will meet this beautiful woman or couple you're messaging. BUT when it's read the other side it either comes across too slutty, deviant, vanilla etc. It is so hard to judge by reading some profiles (and some really have nothing to go by) what the other person likes or their personality. Yes, some like to be totally the opposite of who they are and act out their fantasies on these sites. I would love to try a whole host of different things but I don't have to try them all on everyone I meet. I am always happy to have a social meet first and take it from there... that is where you will find the attraction everyone wants, if not, off you go! I'm not pushy or rude but am am respectful and genuine, take the time to read profiles and if someone says thanks but no thanks I am okay with it.

Some advetise that they don't want to meet single men and in the next breath asking for them... confused.com! So, do you reply or don't you?

I just get narked with a lot of rude people out there tarring everyone with the same brush and yes, I would like to have a few more meets than I am getting so what is a guy to do?

Happy swinging