FabSwingers.com forum: Single women need to do better

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I the only one on here fed up of the general apathy, arrogance and rudeness of women on here?... ESPECIALLY the single women. Yes I know you get lots of messages... Good for you, but courtesy should be effortless and arrogance... Especially on HERE should be unheard of. I understand trying to think highly of yourself, but damn. Some of the women on here need a serious reality check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *cousemanmancwomanCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Well said mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town

So many are ignorant and that far up there own arse they can see through there mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear

perhaps try some clubs?? The sheer amount of idiots that are on here do make people a bit cynical, even with some hefty filters on more chaff than wheat get through. Hope you have more luck in the future op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to reply to every message even if it's a no thanks...manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to reply to people unless they are rude/aggressive/nasty.

I have heard from my friends on here that even the real ugly women (their words not mine) are expecting to meet male models only anf the average guys messages are ignored. so I do agree with you, some women need a reality check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the internet, it shouldn't be taken seriously.

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By *S_PennyTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

To be honest I think the bulk delete message option gets used a lot by women that get lots of messages and to be honest judging from most of the messages I used to get from men I don't blame them. Personally I just heavily filter messages now and I'm generally polite and reply unless it really is a message that doesn't deserve a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a self confessed 'up my own arse' type of woman I really don't think I need to try any harder. If men read my profile it would save them the trouble. Some messages really don't deserve a response. Those that do get one. Polite and to the point. Some have even resulted in meets!

Much prefer clubs. Now that sorts out the men from the boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a self confessed 'up my own arse' type of woman I really don't think I need to try any harder. If men read my profile it would save them the trouble. Some messages really don't deserve a response. Those that do get one. Polite and to the point. Some have even resulted in meets!

Much prefer clubs. Now that sorts out the men from the boys

Boom bang on

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Awww.... All these nasty women so far up their arses, horrid women, yet you all still want to fuck them. Go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only wanted to say my original name on here before I changed it to my own was daddy longstroke lol

We could have been kin.....totally off subject so I'm gonna amble off again now....toodle pip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer clubs. Now that sorts out the men from the boys

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Well that rant will really help your cause. If you can't handle rejection you shouldn't be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always think the majority of single females on here are fictional anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Testify!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always think the majority of single females on here are fictional anyway."

I think the majority of couples are as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there , I (female half here) totally agree with you , some of the girls on this site are so far up themselves , and forget its a swinging site not miss world . I would never be arrogant or rude or disrespectful to anyone , I can't blame you and we'll done for bringing this up , x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if you're finding this constantly then maybe its you. Surely not every woman you chat to is like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there , I (female half here) totally agree with you , some of the girls on this site are so far up themselves , and forget its a swinging site not miss world . I would never be arrogant or rude or disrespectful to anyone , I can't blame you and we'll done for bringing this up , x"

So it's a swinging site. Does that mean we have to be grateful as clearly you think we are all munters! Hilarious that you say you you wouldn't be rude or disrespectful yet come out with 'this isnt Miss World' Personally I treat people how I'd want to be treated. Respect goes both ways.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Am I the only one on here fed up of the general apathy, arrogance and rudeness of women on here?... ESPECIALLY the single women. Yes I know you get lots of messages... Good for you, but courtesy should be effortless and arrogance... Especially on HERE should be unheard of. I understand trying to think highly of yourself, but damn. Some of the women on here need a serious reality check. "
If this is the case the only losers would be the single women . What is arrogant is of course a matter of opinion. I only contact people if I meet their selection criteria and assume no reply means no . Have found very few arrogant or rude people on here , but again I only contact people after carefully reading their profile . In any event I see no harm in people being self confident or having a high opinion of themselves . They are not under an obligation to meet anyone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience those that rant about how rude single women are tend to be the ones that send abusive messages when I say no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience those that rant about how rude single women are tend to be the ones that send abusive messages when I say no..."

I agree

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By *ave1977Man
over a year ago

Mid Cheshire

Well said lad.....spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience those that rant about how rude single women are tend to be the ones that send abusive messages when I say no...

I agree

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if this is, as I think it is, a moan at women not replying to messages, many don't because, and I've experienced it, some men can get very rude and abusive when you politely say no thanks. These are probably the exact same people that moan women don't reply. Oh the irony!

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By *elly foxTV/TS
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'm a TV so i ignore messages from myself , if i keep on im gonna Block me lol x.... But really folks if people dont answer then so what , i wouldnt want to hear from anyone that wasnt genuinely intrested in a sincere aproach , Respect to you all xxx ... Kelly fox

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By *elly foxTV/TS
over a year ago

Hampshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hear, hear

I thought I was the only one.

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By *issyCatWoman
over a year ago

Ramsey

I'd love to know where these men got the idea that simply sending a message entitles them to a reply

Personally I don't know anyone who sends a thank you in response to all the spam that comes into their email folder, or to the junk mail that gets posted through their door.

Why should it be different when you are the one sending the unwanted message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came back from holiday to over 100 messages there is just no way a can read and reply to them all maybe if te same person didn't message 3-4 times we wouldn't have that issue

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

We're not here for you. We're here for ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By generalising here you will have succeeded in annoying the single women who are the opposite of your OP and the offenders if they are as rude as you imply won't give a toss.

I aim to reply to all well written msgs (as thankfully the majority are) and read the profile of the sender, even if that person is not my type, out of courtesy.

There are however the copy and pasters, those who clearly haven't read your profile and rarely those who you wonder how they managed to dress themselves in a morning nevermind log in and compose a sentence (albeit a pathetic attempt at one)! For those types I do not reply and just delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all messages, even if its no thanks. If someone takes the time to message its manners to reply xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here!!!!

Couldn't have worded it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always leave if it annoys you that much but as I've said before, if you're continually encountering women with attitude problems, maybe its your attitude that's sparking it off??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all messages, even if its no thanks. If someone takes the time to message its manners to reply xx "

Not if you get abuse for saying no thanks or the message is two words 'fuck now'. They deserve fuck all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tough one. I can't quite relate as I think a lot of single guys on here are after a shag really quickly and expect certain results.

Of course there are women on here who mistake the attention for it being as genuine as reality, whereas they get far less attention away from fab etc. But then there are so many guys on here it of course will only fuel that situation.

I'd just work on what you can change - get yourself to socials, clubs, on the forums, maximise your profile and take it less seriously than most other single guys and you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience those that rant about how rude single women are tend to be the ones that send abusive messages when I say no..."

Agree fully

Your dammed if you say no thankyou your dammed if you ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking about this.

Imagine you were in a club as the only single woman and there were a hundred men in the club. Everywhere you walk the guys shout "wanna fuk?" "nice boobs!" and "I want to ride you outdoors".

Would you really expect her to reply to every one individually?

Really?

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By *issBanterWoman
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I wish I had time to read an reply to every message, be handy if fab had an automatic, polite no thanks message button to press to send to messages when you read them. Makes me laugh though I winked the OP 4 weeks ago, got no response, wonder who's up his own arse now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I had time to read an reply to every message, be handy if fab had an automatic, polite no thanks message button to press to send to messages when you read them. Makes me laugh though I winked the OP 4 weeks ago, got no response, wonder who's up his own arse now

God, the general apathy, rudeness and ignorance of some men on here is unreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all messages, even if its no thanks. If someone takes the time to message its manners to reply xx

Not if you get abuse for saying no thanks or the message is two words 'fuck now'. They deserve fuck all!"

Said I replied - didn't say it was always decent replies lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i look at this sight as purely a laugh i haven't met anyone my self. Not that assed

if you go to a night club you can't expect all women to like you same as here i take it with a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By generalising here you will have succeeded in annoying the single women who are the opposite of your OP and the offenders if they are as rude as you imply won't give a toss.

I aim to reply to all well written msgs (as thankfully the majority are) and read the profile of the sender, even if that person is not my type, out of courtesy.

Totally agree, I so often get a message saying "Hey" or "fancy meeting"

One word opening messages do not dignify a response, so it's the delete button for them; and fancy meeting messages just annoy me as it means they blatantly haven't read my profile, the very first line states I'm not currently meeting so again it's the delete button or if I'm in a grumpy mood a sarcastic "learn to read" message

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By *igboobies42Woman
over a year ago

Essex

I try to reply to all messages but some guys see this as an opportunity to messaging me back. Sometimes a message can't be replied to like one asking if I had pet insurance as my pussy was about to get battered. What possible reply is there to that?

Each to their own on here it's supposed to be fun and social so if you don't get a message back move on. Would you really want to meet someone you felt was rude?

Happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always thought the idea of a thanks but no thanks button would eliminate this train of thought.

However one thing I do find rude in some profiles is when people refer to Curvy people as far i.e. Please don't message us if your fatties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try to reply to all messages but some guys see this as an opportunity to messaging me back. Sometimes a message can't be replied to like one asking if I had pet insurance as my pussy was about to get battered. What possible reply is there to that?

Each to their own on here it's supposed to be fun and social so if you don't get a message back move on. Would you really want to meet someone you felt was rude?

Happy swinging x "

You can reply to that, tell them to grow up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just a case of being polite, i have come across very rude single females who think i should meet cos im a black guy and they are into this bbc crap lol even in cam in the chat rooms its a get your pole out..

... maybe thats where he is coming from? When i say no it has been time to reach for the block button no drama, then move on...

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I always try to reply to people unless they are rude/aggressive/nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman I do get a lot of messages sent to me. I try to answer all of them, but when i was away from home for a 3 day stretch and when i log on upon returning home and find cuz i didnt answer loads of messages from the first day, they have repeatedly rudely messaged me for the rest of the time, so i blocked and deleted them, surely we are not all constantly online here, we do have lives outside of fab. MY moan is about men who constantly message, and u arrange to meet then they dont turn up, and upon returning home u find they messaged u about 5 mins before meet to cancel, or just dont contact u at all, that is rude in my book.

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