FabSwingers.com forum: Single men's shyness with photos

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having been on this site on off for over 3 years why is it still really annoying to find a single guys profile with barely any content and no pics or the half assed lazy 'got pics if you wanna see you gotta ask'

The ratio of single men to women/couples on here is staggering.

Men there is a lot of competition and a lot who are willing to take the time to flesh out a profile and put pics up or at least send them with a first message you are trying to stand out from the rest make the effort.

Sorry to seem bitchy but would it hurt to flesh out a profile especially if all your message is 'hi guy how r u 2? Fancy fun'

Rant over

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a lot of them work so don't want to be seen on here in case it causes problems or they lose their job even.

I have on my profile asked for guys to send me face pics with their message and most if them do this no problem.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The flip side is too many pics - all the same.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I missing something here?? You have been here a week and have not got a verification.

It's a two way street for me regardless of the numbers game. Everybody should make an effort not just the guys.

By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Having been on this site on off for over 3 years why is it still really annoying to find a single guys profile with barely any content and no pics or the half assed lazy 'got pics if you wanna see you gotta ask'

The ratio of single men to women/couples on here is staggering.

Sorry to seem bitchy but would it hurt to flesh out a profile especially if all your message is 'hi guy how r u 2? Fancy fun'. Probably a waste of time advertising on here with no face photo. Very easy to blur you face a little with digital imaging software if you are afraid of being identified. Without a face photo, I don't see how you can get past the first hurdle in the selection process.

Rant over "