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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

every girl i message on here either just ignores my message or deletes them is it my looks that make them ignore me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one of these posts??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why comment if you arent going to be helpful

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"every girl i message on here either just ignores my message or deletes them is it my looks that make them ignore me"
You are lucky to be so young .!!.As you cannot accommodate or travel, you are further restricted in whom you can meet. I think you will only meet those under 28. It takes a lot of effort and time to arrange meets. Are you prepared to meet ladies or couples over 28 who specifically want a young man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"every girl i message on here either just ignores my message or deletes them is it my looks that make them ignore me You are lucky to be so young .!!.As you cannot accommodate or travel, you are further restricted in whom you can meet. I think you will only meet those under 28. It takes a lot of effort and time to arrange meets. Are you prepared to meet ladies or couples over 28 who specifically want a young man. "

thanks at least some people are helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why say something if we are not going to be helpful?

Because to be frank, these post are getting quite boring.

Your profile is poor, you have no photos apart from your small profile pic.

It is obvious you have put very little effort in.

There are hundreds of single guys on here, why would anyone pick you?

Are you ugly??

No-one can tell because your photo is too small to see!

At least put some effort in instead of moaning no-one wants to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you message loads of women and couples and none of them even reply!!! Yes your fugly!!

However... Dont give up trying to get attention as they all love a winey type too!!!

Sorry but this type of post is just attetion seeking desperation!!

To try and be positive for you!!! Try harder, be patient and dont post stupid stuff on forums!!

And if you care if people think your ugly then your probably on the wrong site anyway! If you need more confidence this isnt the place to get it!!

IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesn't stand out and you have no public pictures. Not much effort gets the results you deserve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far from the best looking guy on here.

I'm damn near double your age.

I'm not particularly tall.

I have close to 200 verifications......why?

Because I made an effort when setting up my profile and when sending my early messages.

Yes...it does get easier once established, but for God's sake stop whining and put some effort in. No one loves a whinger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give over you probably have just as much luck as winning the lottery guys probably outnumber the girls to something like 200 to 1 without taking into consideration the fake profiles and time wasters include that and you're probably looking at odds 500 to 1. All it comes down to is luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm far from the best looking guy on here.

I'm damn near double your age.

I'm not particularly tall.

I have close to 200 verifications......why?

Because I made an effort when setting up my profile and when sending my early messages.

Yes...it does get easier once established, but for God's sake stop whining and put some effort in. No one loves a whinger! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give over you probably have just as much luck as winning the lottery guys probably outnumber the girls to something like 200 to 1 without taking into consideration the fake profiles and time wasters include that and you're probably looking at odds 500 to 1. All it comes down to is luck "

I dissagree!! Luck is a factor but being a knob or a moaner all goes against a guy! I have barely 4-5 lines on my profile and only show a selection of verifications!!! Its about personality (if you have one) and then making an effort!! This is swinging not a cheap brothel for loosers!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

while i agree being a moaner does go against you but i totally disagree that luck doesn't come to play here. Luck absolutely comes into play it doesn't matter if you have a few lines for your profile or 25 lines fact is the guys outnumber the girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm far from the best looking guy on here.

I'm damn near double your age.

I'm not particularly tall.

I have close to 200 verifications......why?

Because I made an effort when setting up my profile and when sending my early messages.

Yes...it does get easier once established, but for God's sake stop whining and put some effort in. No one loves a whinger! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"while i agree being a moaner does go against you but i totally disagree that luck doesn't come to play here. Luck absolutely comes into play it doesn't matter if you have a few lines for your profile or 25 lines fact is the guys outnumber the girls."

It really has sod all to do with luck. It has much to do with effort and in putting your personality across.....I refer to my previous post which seems to have agreement from the few ladies who have posted here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"while i agree being a moaner does go against you but i totally disagree that luck doesn't come to play here. Luck absolutely comes into play it doesn't matter if you have a few lines for your profile or 25 lines fact is the guys outnumber the girls.

It really has sod all to do with luck. It has much to do with effort and in putting your personality across.....I refer to my previous post which seems to have agreement from the few ladies who have posted here!"

Id say the fact that myself and nobby do pretty well and have very different profiles, goes to show its "who" you are and how you present yourself in your messages that counts! If it is solely luck..... Nobby can i have your lottery numbers ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort get real dude. Effort might play a small part but most is luck and all you got to do is look in the forms the evidence speaks for itself. If effort was all you needed there wouldn't be so many of these type of forms on here would there. Now your boring me and i am going to buy a lottery ticket as i have just as much luck as winner on that as getting a girl on here (Pure Luck)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why comment if you arent going to be helpful"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even ugly people get meets, totally agree it's all about the effort put in and very tiny amount of luck.

A good clear profile with a bit about yourself, what your looking for and what you could do for a prospective meet goes a long way.

Your profile pics are good, maybe add a torso pic as your young and fit so it could help if you show it.

Don't get disheartened the odds are stacked against you but you can help yourself with the advise you have been given. Don't listen to the nay Sayers.

Remember improvise, adapt, overcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Effort get real dude. Effort might play a small part but most is luck and all you got to do is look in the forms the evidence speaks for itself. If effort was all you needed there wouldn't be so many of these type of forms on here would there. Now your boring me and i am going to buy a lottery ticket as i have just as much luck as winner on that as getting a girl on here (Pure Luck) "

I notice you have no verifications, been on here 5 months and your young!!

The experience of those more succesfull than you is boring and you sulk!! You NEED luck! Cause your a f'kwhit! But hey ive only been swinging since you were 2 yrs old, so i guess you know all about it hey and i am a chancer with no social skills!! Tsk!

Children! Why dont they ever take advice and think they know it all!!??

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