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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any straight or bi guys that love to gift give to a woman? A controversial topic. I take risks but take breaks of here and get tested. I have met many that say they only do safe but give me a load. I have never done a known gift giver ( someone with HIV or another sti) I hear some gays do it but what about straights? Serious question.. I'm based in Reading. Don't know how I feel about a proper meet with a gift giver.. But how many people know their current. Sti status?

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale

Well I can safely say im no "gift giver". Depending on circumstance I will prob do bareback but I know its a risk and I deffo get tested after any fun with anybody whther they off site or not...although I didnt like it last time...half my forearm was bruised for 2 weeks since they went iin the wrong part of my arm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always keep up to date. Even when playing safe you never know. I'd go bare with people I know and trust

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale

problem is sometimes you discover those your know and trust rent really trustworthy at all hense my last visit haha

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Why would you knowingly fuck someone who has an sti? How stupid is this?

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"problem is sometimes you discover those your know and trust rent really trustworthy at all hense my last visit haha"

Assume everyone on this forum barebacks or has done at some point in their life and you won't be far wrong

Pics or even meets with condoms are a zero guarantee of safety as you've no idea of their past life or relationships

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always keep up to date. Even when playing safe you never know. I'd go bare with people I know and trust"

I know some couples advertise always playing safe then they don't on a meet.. So don't believe all that you are told.. I do take risks that's in my profile name.. But often surprised when men ask me for test results but don't produce any themselves .. And have many verifications and pics where they went bareback! Or despite title ask bareback pussy sex as that's no risk!?? OK anal can be more riskey if rough but any bareback sex is risky

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale


"Why would you knowingly fuck someone who has an sti? How stupid is this? "
its not about knowing somebody has an std. I trusted my ex and had bb with her only to find out she was a lying cheating bitch. Instantly got tested and luckily stil all clear

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By *iavelmanMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"But how many people know their current. Sti status? "

I'm just back from getting my results from the clinic so I know I'm clean.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Why would you knowingly fuck someone who has an sti? How stupid is this? its not about knowing somebody has an std. I trusted my ex and had bb with her only to find out she was a lying cheating bitch. Instantly got tested and luckily stil all clear"

Gifting is about knowing you have an sti and having bb sex with another person who knows about the sti. Different situation.

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By *kbull4uMan
over a year ago

Christchurch Dorset

I do prefer bareback but use condoms as requested for both vaginal and anal penetration. I'm a blood donor too so I get screened regularly.

Ade xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I must be reading this thread wrong. Am I right in thinking that a gift giver is a carrier of an sti and the other person agrees to sleep with them fully aware of the situation bareback WTF? Call me old fashioned but I prefer a nice meal and a bunch of flowers rather than a dose. I clearly must be reading this wrong?

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale


"Why would you knowingly fuck someone who has an sti? How stupid is this? its not about knowing somebody has an std. I trusted my ex and had bb with her only to find out she was a lying cheating bitch. Instantly got tested and luckily stil all clear

Gifting is about knowing you have an sti and having bb sex with another person who knows about the sti. Different situation. "
ooh ok didn't know that lol

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Why would you knowingly fuck someone who has an sti? How stupid is this? "

answer - fooking stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!


"Why would you knowingly fuck someone who has an sti? How stupid is this?

answer - fooking stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! "
agreed total madness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would somebody knowingly sleep bareback with someone who has a sti? They need help!! And not just from the gum clinic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an absolutely disgusting idea! Why on earth would anyone knowingly pass on or receive an std?? Dear god!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this really a serious thread? it seems like a crazy thought

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"I do prefer bareback but use condoms as requested for both vaginal and anal penetration. I'm a blood donor too so I get screened regularly.

Ade xx"

Just because you donate blood does not mean anything re sti's. They also would be very concerned if they where aware you swung bb!

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"What an absolutely disgusting idea! Why on earth would anyone knowingly pass on or receive an std?? Dear god! "

Because there is some sick bastards out there.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

One thing everyone can do to help protect themselves is get the Hep B jab if not already had it. If its been more than 10years get your immunity checked. People can have it for years and not be aware they are spreading it.

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale


"One thing everyone can do to help protect themselves is get the Hep B jab if not already had it. If its been more than 10years get your immunity checked. People can have it for years and not be aware they are spreading it. "
females only according to my local clinic

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it April fools day? Seriously fuck someone you know is diseased?? Think I have finally found a hard limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to read this thread twice, I actually can't wrap my head around the concept.

So basically you knowingly have sex with someone who has an sti, so you contract the sti and then you knowingly pass it along to others?

What the actual fuck?????

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

There was me thinking gift giving meant perfume or frilly undies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was me thinking gift giving meant perfume or frilly undies "

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"One thing everyone can do to help protect themselves is get the Hep B jab if not already had it. If its been more than 10years get your immunity checked. People can have it for years and not be aware they are spreading it. females only according to my local clinic"

What utter shit......Wonder if they also follow the line that only gay peeps spread HIV???

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

I would put a complaint in re that misinformation. That's truly appalling.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

If people do want to be Hep B vaccinated, I suggest if money is tight go to the GUM clinic rather than the G.P. who may charge you around £60 at least.

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale

It is the gum clinic that says it. I went in last year asking about all vaccinations as I was ted to be safe and they said they only give hep b to females but very rare do they give to anybody out of school age. Apparently it's takes better when younger or some shit yet I always figured it was a load of bollox but what do I know? They do actually say more gay/bi guys have stds as well and more likely to have his and things yet ended up having an argument on a forum a while back since I was going off what clinic told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you knowingly fuck someone who has an sti? How stupid is this? "
very fucking stupid why would any one want aids/hiv its a death sentence fucking idiots life is for living, giving and sharing but not fucking diseases

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"It is the gum clinic that says it. I went in last year asking about all vaccinations as I was ted to be safe and they said they only give hep b to females but very rare do they give to anybody out of school age. Apparently it's takes better when younger or some shit yet I always figured it was a load of bollox but what do I know? They do actually say more gay/bi guys have stds as well and more likely to have his and things yet ended up having an argument on a forum a while back since I was going off what clinic told me"

Hep B is NOT gender specific..... FFS , make a formal complaint.......

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"It is the gum clinic that says it. I went in last year asking about all vaccinations as I was ted to be safe and they said they only give hep b to females but very rare do they give to anybody out of school age. Apparently it's takes better when younger or some shit yet I always figured it was a load of bollox but what do I know? They do actually say more gay/bi guys have stds as well and more likely to have his and things yet ended up having an argument on a forum a while back since I was going off what clinic told me

Hep B is NOT gender specific..... FFS , make a formal complaint....... "
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I would go so far as to complain formally to the NHS Trust that controls the GUM clinic and to your M.P. , you have been given extremely dangerous & incorrect information.

Hep B is increasing sharply.....including BOTH genders.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how many people know their current. Sti status?

I'm just back from getting my results from the clinic so I know I'm clean. "

Given that you get results by text...up to 10 days later....then you were clear a couple of weeks ago. If you have had sex since??? Rather like a car MOT. Valid on the day only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the gum clinic that says it. I went in last year asking about all vaccinations as I was ted to be safe and they said they only give hep b to females but very rare do they give to anybody out of school age. Apparently it's takes better when younger or some shit yet I always figured it was a load of bollox but what do I know? They do actually say more gay/bi guys have stds as well and more likely to have his and things yet ended up having an argument on a forum a while back since I was going off what clinic told me

Hep B is NOT gender specific..... FFS , make a formal complaint....... ]

I would go so far as to complain formally to the NHS Trust that controls the GUM clinic and to your M.P. , you have been given extremely dangerous & incorrect information.

Hep B is increasing sharply.....including BOTH genders..... "

Got my hep b vaccine at 17 before starting college and my younger sisters got theirs around the same time (one 15 and one 13). Would I need to do it again at 27 or is it longer or less time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the gum clinic that says it. I went in last year asking about all vaccinations as I was ted to be safe and they said they only give hep b to females but very rare do they give to anybody out of school age. Apparently it's takes better when younger or some shit yet I always figured it was a load of bollox but what do I know? They do actually say more gay/bi guys have stds as well and more likely to have his and things yet ended up having an argument on a forum a while back since I was going off what clinic told me

Hep B is NOT gender specific..... FFS , make a formal complaint....... ]

I would go so far as to complain formally to the NHS Trust that controls the GUM clinic and to your M.P. , you have been given extremely dangerous & incorrect information.

Hep B is increasing sharply.....including BOTH genders.....

Got my hep b vaccine at 17 before starting college and my younger sisters got theirs around the same time (one 15 and one 13). Would I need to do it again at 27 or is it longer or less time?"

Mine lasted nearly 12 years but was checked each year from 10 to 12 so I would get checked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people do want to be Hep B vaccinated, I suggest if money is tight go to the GUM clinic rather than the G.P. who may charge you around £60 at least. "
it's a free, 3 jab course if you attend the sexual health clinic held at chameleons Darleston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the gum clinic that says it. I went in last year asking about all vaccinations as I was ted to be safe and they said they only give hep b to females but very rare do they give to anybody out of school age. Apparently it's takes better when younger or some shit yet I always figured it was a load of bollox but what do I know? They do actually say more gay/bi guys have stds as well and more likely to have his and things yet ended up having an argument on a forum a while back since I was going off what clinic told me

Hep B is NOT gender specific..... FFS , make a formal complaint....... ]

I would go so far as to complain formally to the NHS Trust that controls the GUM clinic and to your M.P. , you have been given extremely dangerous & incorrect information.

Hep B is increasing sharply.....including BOTH genders.....

Got my hep b vaccine at 17 before starting college and my younger sisters got theirs around the same time (one 15 and one 13). Would I need to do it again at 27 or is it longer or less time?

Mine lasted nearly 12 years but was checked each year from 10 to 12 so I would get checked. "

Thanks for that

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale

Might ask again next time i go there Nd see what they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by some of the ads we read by Guys and women begging for BB anal/V in gangbangs dogging and "take on all cummers" Theres a big possibility they are NO risks in it for them (the advertiser) as they must have already taken the risk and lost...

Just look after your own health and let others look after theirs

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Yep but hep B is actually highly infectious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's that then, gift tokens at the clinic

Her

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By *nleashedin89Man
over a year ago

south shields

I think it's absolutely disgusting if you don't get your self checked out after any unsafe sex,

Why would you want to give anything to anyone...... Would you not feel totally disgusting knowing you had an sti? I know I would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what kind of idiot would knowingly do this??

ar eyou all fkn loopers ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I must be reading this thread wrong. Am I right in thinking that a gift giver is a carrier of an sti and the other person agrees to sleep with them fully aware of the situation bareback WTF? Call me old fashioned but I prefer a nice meal and a bunch of flowers rather than a dose. I clearly must be reading this wrong?"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I have followed the green arrow trail of the op and OMG is all i have to say

well that and I dont believe for a second that this is a genuine profile belonging to a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the gum clinic that says it. I went in last year asking about all vaccinations as I was ted to be safe and they said they only give hep b to females but very rare do they give to anybody out of school age. Apparently it's takes better when younger or some shit yet I always figured it was a load of bollox but what do I know? They do actually say more gay/bi guys have stds as well and more likely to have his and things yet ended up having an argument on a forum a while back since I was going off what clinic told me"

Are you confusing it with the HPV which is only given to females at around 13? It protects them against the main viruses that cause genital warts linked to cervical cancers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Christmas is on the horizon but an sti or hep b are certainly not going to be on my 'gift' list! Can see santa reading you wish list.

Ferrari.

Holiday to Bahamas.

Lottery tickets with winning numbers.

Sti.

Aids.

Hep B.

And on Christmas day all excited and all you get is a note which reads.

"Hello Santa here. As you can see you got nothing this year as you have been a very naughty boy/ girl. You have been very stupid and have been doing bareback! The only ones who do that are the reindeers for next years herd! Now get to the clinic and hopefully if you are alive and clean next year you will stop having naughty unprotected sex and you may get a present. HO HO HO"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have followed the green arrow trail of the op and OMG is all i have to say

well that and I dont believe for a second that this is a genuine profile belonging to a female "

The OP has also hidden her profile by the looks of it.

If she is real, she deserves all she gets for being so bloody stupid to have bareback sex with so many people.

Just the thought of it makes me want to bath in Dettol...!

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale


"It is the gum clinic that says it. I went in last year asking about all vaccinations as I was ted to be safe and they said they only give hep b to females but very rare do they give to anybody out of school age. Apparently it's takes better when younger or some shit yet I always figured it was a load of bollox but what do I know? They do actually say more gay/bi guys have stds as well and more likely to have his and things yet ended up having an argument on a forum a while back since I was going off what clinic told me

Are you confusing it with the HPV which is only given to females at around 13? It protects them against the main viruses that cause genital warts linked to cervical cancers. "
nope be a use that got discussed as well. As I was looking for any and all vaccinations to be as safe as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is the gum clinic that says it. I went in last year asking about all vaccinations as I was ted to be safe and they said they only give hep b to females but very rare do they give to anybody out of school age. Apparently it's takes better when younger or some shit yet I always figured it was a load of bollox but what do I know? They do actually say more gay/bi guys have stds as well and more likely to have his and things yet ended up having an argument on a forum a while back since I was going off what clinic told me"

That sounds like hpv which all of that is true. Heb b they offer to all. It is not gender specific and needs updating every 5 years so I was told on checking recently x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow!

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale

Maybe the nurse I spoke to was just thick as shit then haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any straight or bi guys that love to gift give to a woman? A controversial topic. I take risks but take breaks of here and get tested. I have met many that say they only do safe but give me a load. I have never done a known gift giver ( someone with HIV or another sti) I hear some gays do it but what about straights? Serious question.. I'm based in Reading. Don't know how I feel about a proper meet with a gift giver.. But how many people know their current. Sti status? "
ok just looked at your profile,not a lot to turn any man on,just as well because anyone,and i mean anyone who meets you after what you have wrote should be arrested.you give swingers a bad name,really,you might as well have looked for all sti and aids carriers,really you should be kicked off the site!!!!!

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By *uttifruityWoman
over a year ago

London


"But how many people know their current. Sti status?

I'm just back from getting my results from the clinic so I know I'm clean. "

hiv takes 6 weeks to show so you need to be celibate for 6 weeks to be up to date.

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale


"But how many people know their current. Sti status?

I'm just back from getting my results from the clinic so I know I'm clean.

hiv takes 6 weeks to show so you need to be celibate for 6 weeks to be up to date. "
at least I know I'm still clean then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could, after a few meets happen and trust is built.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gift givers? seriously? I'm not sure I've took in what I've just read

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot


"Any straight or bi guys that love to gift give to a woman? A controversial topic. I take risks but take breaks of here and get tested. I have met many that say they only do safe but give me a load. I have never done a known gift giver ( someone with HIV or another sti) I hear some gays do it but what about straights? Serious question.. I'm based in Reading. Don't know how I feel about a proper meet with a gift giver.. But how many people know their current. Sti status? "

I think a lot of people work on the assumption that because they have been playing safe for umpteen years and don't exhibit signs of an sti that they are clean. Then there are those who believe that because they haven't played with anyone other than their partner then the odd bareback foray is Ok because their partner is clean - probably ! Bottom line is that if all post pubescent people went for a monthly sti check the queues at the clinic would be huge and there would still be the risk of infection as the test is a snapshot, not a guarantee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just read this, and noticed the orginal poster has gone quiet lol, maybe says it all ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These kind of people terrify us, in answer to the posters point, how many people know their STI status, well at least one couple!!!

We play safe with everyone we meet, we have unprotected anal, oral and vaginal sex together because we are in a loving relationship, you can still obtain an STD from oral or sex toys so we get checked at least once a month! aside from getting Thrush from antibiotics once, we've been lucky so far! wouldn't even wish that gift on someone.

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