FabSwingers.com forum: Why do I get virtually no repsonses from ladies on here ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hallo there !

I'm guessing this is a typical question on here which gets posted quite regularly, but, I'll put it forward again anyway, just for the fuck of it...

I've had no joy on here yet. My profile, although it might not be the best, isn't all that bad I think, and I have numerous face pics that I send with private messages. Lots of girls apparently find me very attractive in the 'real world', and my verbal skills aren't all that bad either... Yet I've had no luck whatsoever on here so far.

Any clues as to what I'm fuckin up with would be most appreciated. Preferably from the ladies as you're more likely to be talking from an experienced/ informed perspective on the matter.

Answers in the form of an offer for a meet up would be greatly appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is a bit..... Bland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A you have only been here 8 weeks it cab take up to 6 months!

B not many "professional" ladies on here as that what your seeking.

C drab photo

D no one will believe your dominant at your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there is a disproportionate ratio of men to women on fab. Us single guys way outnumber the ladies - so of course, they can afford to be fussy.

You need to be patient. Took me about six months or so to get my first meet.

I still sometimes get a little disheartened, especially if I've spent ages crafting a message to someone only to see it get deleted - or worse still, not even read. But let's face it, moaning about it in a status probably won't do you many favours either.

I try to be positive in my status updates. I've also evolved my profile over time to try to reflect something of my personality while also attempting to answer whatever questions anyone might have.

You need to take a marketing approach to your profile. 'Sell' yourself - so to speak.

Above all, stay positive. You'll be amazed at the difference a positive mental attitude can make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use my philosophy! Find out what a lady desires and give it to her, end of! It varies from person to person and honestly moods and cycles are relevant too. Be the good old knight in shining armour by ASKING what she wants.

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By *esand1Couple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

You're under the popular miss-conception that a lot of people have, sign up to a swinging site and automatically get loads of sex but that isn't how it works. Try attending a few socials so people can see the real you rather than a snapshot from your profile text, there's a lot going on in Yorkshire.

Take care and we hope you have some success soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A you have only been here 8 weeks it cab take up to 6 months!

B not many "professional" ladies on here as that what your seeking.

C drab photo

D no one will believe your dominant at your age"

Why would no one believe he's dominant at 33? Like you have to be older to be dominant pmsl...take it from a single fem..just add a bit more content to your profile as in likes / dislikes...what you are looking for from this site. .maybe add a few more pics...dont have to be face pics but too many cock shots are a put off...maybe specify if you go for a particular type...get into the chat rooms and show off your personality...go to a social or club in your area and most of all be realistic about it all...the single guys who do well on here put an effort it...make yourself stand out ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hallo there !

I'm guessing this is a typical question on here which gets posted quite regularly, but, I'll put it forward again anyway, just for the fuck of it...

Any clues as to what I'm fuckin up with would be most appreciated. Preferably from the ladies as you're more likely to be talking from an experienced/ informed perspective on the matter.

Answers in the form of an offer for a meet up would be greatly appreciated.

hi, have a face pic available.

try chat and socials, get to know people. Like the comments before think about the ratio of women to men and remember to stand out if you want to be noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post some Interesting forum posts, that will get you attention as well as the advice above. Helps show your personality so keep then a lighthearted and truthful as possible.

Have some fun in the forums, show some personality and a sense of humour.

Then add some better pics and make sure the messages you send are more than, "hi your sexy, fancy a meet/fuck/coffee babe"

1st message makes a big difference too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A you have only been here 8 weeks it cab take up to 6 months!

B not many "professional" ladies on here as that what your seeking.

C drab photo

D no one will believe your dominant at your age"

"When I grow up I wanna be a dom"

WTF

ive never heard such rubbish in my life.

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By *smithyukMan
over a year ago

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yes mate like some have said you only been here 8 weeks! it can take longer than that. and also like others have said women can get 100's and 100's of messages, especially if they put a meet up or available today! you send your message and its almost immediately 10-20 messages down there list! even the not so attractive ones can afford to be very fussy!

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By *smithyukMan
over a year ago

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oh and also your probably thinking your at the point where all the hours you put in arent getting the reward!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Big thanks for all the replies and tips on here, apart from the nonsensical ones, I shall take it on board. Cheers Y'all.

All d best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be best for you to go to a club first, have some fun and then get a verification.

As mentioned already, men severely outnumber the women on here, so can easily dismiss a guy with no verifications who has only been on the site a short while.

I have found.....the best definitely comes to those who wait.

All in good time mate.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Send me your standard message and I'll reply very honestly..and provide guidance on what I would respond positively to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of cock pics really helps!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto, the more cock pics the better. Hold a sky remote in the pic for scale...

Proper fanny magnet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're male, it happens.

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