FabSwingers.com forum: The Perfect Opening Message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I've been wondering for a while now what the formula for the perfect opening message to a fellow Fabber would be. I know it depends on taste and preference and is all subjective, but what would be YOUR perfect opening message to receive? Let's think tank the holy grail of Ice Breakers folks lol

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Anything that shows they have actually taken the time to read my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, that always helps! And besides, if you don't read someone's profile how will you know they've got purple hair

I'm a sucker for purple hair x

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Not going to be purple for much longer as I'm going back to brunette Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just never copy and paste such a turn off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you tell if a message has been copied and pasted though?

I always start my messages with the usual hi, how are you? Have you had a good day/weekend.

Then the text I will add from what there profile says. Although I never get many replies back lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club, I've lost track of how many messages I've sent without a reply. Like yours they are always civil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange initt all these non replyers on fab....HOW RUDE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with saying thanks but no thanks is there??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with saying thanks but no thanks is there??

I agree but I think the girls on here are spoiled for choice and also overwhelmed by messages a lot.. Not a good ratio of guys to girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you tell if a message has been copied and pasted though?

I always start my messages with the usual hi, how are you? Have you had a good day/weekend.

Then the text I will add from what there profile says. Although I never get many replies back lol."

when it has a line in it along the lines of '...and may i say erica looks particularly sexy...' when you dont know any erica's, then yes, its possible to recognise a copy and paste lol.

plus they tend to be bland and generalised, nothing specific about you or your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose the ladies could always do cut and paste!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is, don't we all have an "opening gambit' that isn't too in your face?? I know I do; albeit tailored to the specific profile I'm contacting. How many times do you read on a womans profile 'fancy a fuck' will be instantly deleted. Aparently there are loads of guys/boys who use that!!

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