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"First of all may I say from my point of view, as it was our first social it was ok, we felt out of place all night as no one really spoke to us, and felt like we were on show, for all to look at, it took until about 10.30 before anyone really spoke, we met some lovely people, and hoping if we get to the next one might feel a bit more relaxed. But thanks to the organisers x x " Yes it can be daunting first social and even more so with the big numbers that attended and hopefully the next one you will be more relaxed and make new friends x | |||
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"First of all may I say from my point of view, as it was our first social it was ok, we felt out of place all night as no one really spoke to us, and felt like we were on show, for all to look at, it took until about 10.30 before anyone really spoke, we met some lovely people, and hoping if we get to the next one might feel a bit more relaxed. But thanks to the organisers x x " See I kinda understand... But I would also say why wait on everyone else to come over to you... Just go over and chat to them.. Chat at the bar, chat at the loos, chat outside, just chat...... It can be daunting, just having the guts to say hello to a person goes a long way.... | |||
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"This was our 1st social. Have missed out on all the previous socials. We were very impressed with the turn out. We did get to talk some nice couples but probably chatted breifly to people with out realising who they are on here...lol.. so if we spoke to any of you please let us know. We too felt a little on the out side so to speak I guess that is because most have attended before. But we will defo be looking toward to the next one. Just a thought perhaps seeing as it seems to be so popular we should have a weekly social "bar"/"time" where people know some of us may be out? If there where 140 out on Saturday then we think there could be 20 or 30 each week end.. what's other people thoughts? Switch seemed good or purhaps gossip when it reopens? Oh and lastly big thanks to the organisers. T&I x" I think your right about the number of people out every week but have to be honest when we go out and put on our profile that we will be in Newcastle we have not had one response. (I know, no one likes us lol) so not to sure of this wound work. Guess the only way is to try it. X | |||
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"This was our 1st social. Have missed out on all the previous socials. We were very impressed with the turn out. We did get to talk some nice couples but probably chatted breifly to people with out realising who they are on here...lol.. so if we spoke to any of you please let us know. We too felt a little on the out side so to speak I guess that is because most have attended before. But we will defo be looking toward to the next one. Just a thought perhaps seeing as it seems to be so popular we should have a weekly social "bar"/"time" where people know some of us may be out? If there where 140 out on Saturday then we think there could be 20 or 30 each week end.. what's other people thoughts? Switch seemed good or purhaps gossip when it reopens? Oh and lastly big thanks to the organisers. T&I x I think your right about the number of people out every week but have to be honest when we go out and put on our profile that we will be in Newcastle we have not had one response. (I know, no one likes us lol) so not to sure of this wound work. Guess the only way is to try it. X" very often we also say we will be in pink on such and such a day and have met up with people we know but very rare to meet up with others we don't know but are out and about. As for a weekly thing think would just be to much work family ect. But as John (sir) says give it a try...we like Sunday afternoons round pink in warmer weather. | |||
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"I am surprised at the number of people who are commenting that they felt on the edges of the social. Would it be helpful if we organised an area for new attenders in the first venue and introduced you to others? These events are there to help you all meet new people and we do not want anyone feeling left out. " We found our first one daunting but contacting a few.people om the list prior and arranging to meet them in another bar prior to walking into the unknown.made us so relaxed. As for waiting for people to speak to you, surely a social is a two way thing, approach people dont wait to be approached. Worst you'll get is a no thank you x Thanks to all of you for your time n organisation of the events, we love them | |||
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