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By *onnyforfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

Do any women or couples on here actually meet single men cos im finding it very difficult 2 find any who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When u look like you do bud what do expect?

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By *onnyforfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

You dont look 2 gud urself think u need some protein

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same send them messages and all I get is thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do ,mainly in clubs its a lot easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard as a lot of guys have given us a bad name but if your genuine just be polite, your self and don't be pushy and expect meets straight anyway and all will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any women or couples on here actually meet single men cos im finding it very difficult 2 find any who do "

The plain truth is that there are shed loads of single men and we have too much choice. Go to a club and make some friends, that's what I did. It's easier to make an impression when you can chat.

Also, lots of men pull really serious faces in their profile pics- a nice smile goes a long way

Happy Hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All we meet is single men

Without a face pic to prove who you are & less of the pathetic lines you'd stand more of a chance

Also reading peoples profiles is a must

like in earlier posts there are a lot more of you single guys then us couples & when you have families like a lot doing our meet times are precious & time wasters should be banded...should get rid of a few of the bad ones for you good ones

Be patient....your time will come x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit i am struggling myself to get a meet i used to meet people of another site a few year ago but it seems difficult on here

I never leave one liners and always read profiles

Maybe i should try la chambre make

Some friends there first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to meet several guys at a time and find it surprisingly difficult to get genuine guys to cum along and join in our fun.

Several social meets arranged and no one showed up.

If you love having your cock sucked and covering me in cum then you should get in touch !!!!

Suexxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey sue just read your profile and you look very sexy indeed just wondered whens then next movie your goin to watch and where as I would definatly watch a movie at the cinema with you x

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

I bet most have or do. If I were a single male I,d be going down socials route and clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I be here 2 weeks and had to meets , so yes they do me single Guys

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

We do also just not often and not at the drop of a hat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's relatively easy.. Last time on here it was on the same day I joined. Many men over 50 will specify ladies between 20-30, be realistic and aim for people who are a similar age/ level of attractiveness. Although many ladies are more in demand so the rules don't apply the opposite way !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm how will i know who is of similar attractivness thats a difficult one to be honest im not really fussy all ladys need loving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few meets with couple and single ladies and again like most people say its about being honest, upfront and respectful. I can also accommodate and travel so maybe in a luckier position than some. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to meet several guys at a time and find it surprisingly difficult to get genuine guys to cum along and join in our fun.

Several social meets arranged and no one showed up.

If you love having your cock sucked and covering me in cum then you should get in touch !!!!

Hi Sue - after reading this - I am just getting in touch with you - lol xx

seriously - would love to meet up with you x

Suexxxxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will be lookin for single men for a meet next week.seeing a couple this week,we like to alternate who we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We will be lookin for single men for a meet next week.seeing a couple this week,we like to alternate who we meet "

Please keep me updated and if you would bear me in mind then most appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats because not alot aof men wanna fo a women with a million eyes lookig on .. this site way to hard to meet a

Single women as most are qith a man or bi sexual ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only meet with single straight men...

but they need to be good looking, charming, and able to accomm. The usual message reads, 'wanna fuck!', 'you look gorgeous can we meet?'. To get a reply at least introduce yourself and include a pic of your face! dont ask for a phone number or what i like sexwise before i even know your name!!! Oh and that was just my opinion not an offer.

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By *iglad9Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I agree

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

nooooooooooooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any women or couples on here actually meet single men cos im finding it very difficult 2 find any who do "

No they don't .they only meet married man..

Next question??

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

Yes we meet single guys ,on our terms .mainly at clubs as wife is a bit fussy,we do sometimes break that rule depending how horny she is,if she takes a liking to a guy ,there are a load of time wasters on here,have spoilt it for decent guys,so lots of us couples are careful now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you get a no thanks. Often it's just a straight deleted.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

We delete ,if we get cock pictures or one liners,you would be shocked how many guy send cock pictures or can we meet to fuck,fed up with messages like that so quicker to delete,we spend time in clubs or at meet getting to know guys or couples to see if chemistry is write ,it so much more fun playing with people you get on with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No mostly don't meet single men no matter how fit you are, that's why we use the right hand lol.

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By *ongochopsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"At least you get a no thanks. Often it's just a straight deleted."

Hi, I just want to add our opinion. We get lots of requests, and if we don't want to meet someone - for whatever reason, usually due to limited free time, then we' ll just delete the messages.

We haven't got time to reply to 40 messages a day, just to say "no, sorry", I'm guessing all the other Females/couples feel similar. So don't think we're rude when we delete, sometimes there are just too many messages, and we have real world stuff to do also!

ps, if we plainly just don't want to meet someone, we just block them also. This again isn't us being rude, It just helps prevent all involved from wasting their time!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Lots of single women and couples meet single men. I think often they're just a bit cautious because they've encountered so many who are either just time wasters or who bottle it when it comes to actually meeting.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We only meet single guys as mrs spicy loves to get lots of different cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've only be meeting single guys on here also, just about to take the next step and meet single fems and couples soon, if we can ever find any that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i only meet with single straight men...

but they need to be good looking, charming, and able to accomm. The usual message reads, 'wanna fuck!', 'you look gorgeous can we meet?'. To get a reply at least introduce yourself and include a pic of your face! dont ask for a phone number or what i like sexwise before i even know your name!!! Oh and that was just my opinion not an offer. "

Can I echo that - so tired of short messages that seem to assume that I'm a free prostitute who'll jump at any offer of sex.... I won't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here,, finding it really difficult to meet a couple on here,,, singles ok but couples please help me out lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent had any luck either i be nice i get no replies im filth i get no replies just gay guys admiring my cock and im straight :/ someone should make a basic guide for this

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By *onny09Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Same here I have played with a few women and couples on cam and also don't send one line messages but all I seem to get is gay guys asking me if I want my cock sucked and replys from women saying your not my type or just deleted!

I am not ugly with a good sized cock and have been told on many occasions that look like i am in my late twenties and get more women in a night club situation !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i only meet with single straight men...

but they need to be good looking, charming, and able to accomm. The usual message reads, 'wanna fuck!', 'you look gorgeous can we meet?'. To get a reply at least introduce yourself and include a pic of your face! dont ask for a phone number or what i like sexwise before i even know your name!!! Oh and that was just my opinion not an offer.

Can I echo that - so tired of short messages that seem to assume that I'm a free prostitute who'll jump at any offer of sex.... I won't!"

Third woman agreeing on here,

I pick & choose my male buddies, my profile states I'm not looking for single men yet everyday I get harassed by single guys outside of my criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on guy, get your act together. Don't expect a queue to form for you, you have to do the ground work. Get out to the clubs, most have nights when limited numbers of single guys are more than welcome. Also keep and eye out for the socials that get organised around the country all the time and also the parties, they are always on the meets and socials forum. Can recommend Parties organised by chunkymufin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we meet with sine males and I've also meet single males alone if its the right person and the right time busy mum of four and work so can't just drop everything

I always reply to every message I get too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP just because you have joined a swingers site it doesn't guarantee you sex on tap 24/7.

Getting so tired an bored with these can't get a meet threads.

If you are looking for a guaranteed shag we suggest an escort site or similar!

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By *nightndayCouple
over a year ago

Orral ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met single guys but finding it harder now to meet genuine. as few have said few spoil it for others. All so number of guys that put name's down for socials and not turn up its so simple to mail the organisers to say you can not make it. That way you not be classed as a time waster as a lot of work go into arranging socials and are a great way to show your genuine, and meet new people

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Yes we meet single guys. But unfortunately the majority (not all) can't even be bothered to read the profile first. X

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"We like to meet several guys at a time and find it surprisingly difficult to get genuine guys to cum along and join in our fun.

Several social meets arranged and no one showed up.

If you love having your cock sucked and covering me in cum then you should get in touch !!!!

Suexxxxxx"

Finding the new guys who will turn up is always a problem, had one who bottled yt just yesterday who didn't turn up for a very well verified lady yesterday afternoon. Your cinema idea is certainly an interesting idea. I notice you're thinking of getting your own glory hole made, maybe you should contact the guy on the swingers chat forum who was offering his services as a naked joiner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah we meet quite a few linda had 2 round last week they put a fence up for her another one once fixed our pc there was the one that cleaned our car the list is endless we say if it wasent for the single guys we would be lost xxxxx any rich ones want to take us on holiday plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we do as hubby loves to watch me with another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet single guys but their introductory email has to stand out from the rest as we get so many, anyone who can make an effort then we'll at least put the effort in to reply and check out their profile. Those that don't get deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I've met 3 ladies and 2 couples and had great fun!! I guess they get loads of messages and can afford to be choosy, good luck and most importantly have fun!! Ben

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all due to the sheer numbers of males compared to females/couples coupled with the increased number of swing clubs and socials - so many couples don't need to rely on on-line hookups.

Over the years I have had great meets on a variety of sites, and fabswingers is definately a site where I have had least success, despite it having the highest number of users. I have no idea why....although the number of men on the site may allow women/couples to stipulate things like 'Must be VWE+' and get it....which leaves guys like me, pretty average - a few extra pounds and a cock that is perfectly functional but doesn't rip my underwear everytime I get a hard-on, not getting much success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet single guys mainly in clubs. I have a very high sex drive and love lots of different cocks. - Done a few private gangbang meets that we're excellcant, but it's easier at clubs. We have a regular circle of single fuck buddies as well, tap hat we meet almost weekly, like I said I love being fucked. - So yes single men are in demand

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By *onnyforfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

perhaps wen im going to be in your area i could arrange a meet with you then ?

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By *onnyforfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We do but as we get so many messages from single guys, we can pick and choose who, why, where etc. Hope you find fun. S&Mx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We Wud meet single guys but have been put off by a few all we wer looking was a threesome cum round give the Mrs wat she wants and fuck off simple but no they all seem to wana pop round wen the Mr isn't there lol and wonder y they get blocked x

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By *ickmackieMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes they do. I have had quite a few meets now and all were excellent. The main reason why it may seem they don't is because there are a lot around and therefore couples can pick and choose as they wish.

Also there are a lot of "wannabes" here as well. Men arranging meets and then not turning up. Or mysteriously becoming un available. That gives us single men a really bad name!!!!

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By *isa and HeddoCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yes we meet single guys. But unfortunately the majority (not all) can't even be bothered to read the profile first. X"

Indeed, so true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we definetely do providing they tick our boxes

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Yes we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll reiterate what someone else stated: stand out with a good profile and a face pic with a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To first poster. Lots of cpls and single women meet with single guys. It's what the site is for after all. Many (cpls) also only meet cpls - so everyone gets to play! Two bits of sound advise:

1 - Sort your profile out - make it interesting or funny (Yours is rather non discript and bland)

2 - Read profiles rather than sending out random messages. Be polite and sensible with what you write - ensure you speak to their needs not just yours. Make sure you meet their preferences (age range etc) and don't be surprised or hacked off if you don't get a reply.

Remember there are probably 10/20 or more guys on here for every cpl or fem! It is a 'competition' in that you are competing for attention - You need to stand out in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any women or couples on here actually meet single men cos im finding it very difficult 2 find any who do "

We meet single guys. However we have found through experience guys over thirty get very pushy and as soon as you reply to a message they expect a meet straight away. All those we have seen under 25 have been a lot more respectful to my wife, and not one of them have tries to go behind my back and arrange a meet with her on her own. So a lot of guys on here have spoilt it for all the others.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

many on here love too talk about the sex they are not really getting, or intend getting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt many ever read the profile but only look at the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be your self you've got to remember there's lots of time wasters on here couples too, males theres hundreds of us i advise attend the socials in your area and go to a club clubs tend to be more clicky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 22. Male. Living in Brighton. I am pretty much into men but will play with females in a MMF situation. I have done this twice but it was a few years ago, so I really want to get back into it again. I'm Rather shy and quiet but rather horny too. It does seem very difficult to find mf couples, with a bi male, actually willing to meet single guys. But if you are a MF Couple up for this, in Brighton, please message me. Thaaanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would if the right one comes along but we get some very strange and rude messages.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Met lots on here, met a very nice one just the other day. Meeting her again tomorrow night too this time with some friends for GB fun

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By *aron32Man
over a year ago

brighton

We do and will meet single guys but a message with out face pic and simply saying wanna fuck or meet gets u know where and our preference is we meet bi guys and couples with bi males and coyples with bi females its just wat we want to do at this moment as we are new to this we have met a guy who was our first ever meet and we couldnt have asked for better but just to add we have a 15 yr old daughter so time is limited kids are demanding try a stropy teenager

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By *errynudeMan
over a year ago

Tilbrook

Having just read what others have said on this subject I to have found that females/cpls are very reluctant to meet with a single male, this is mainly die to the action of some males who look on the female and an object of desire for them to use as they wish.

I am married and no not cheating on the wife but she is no longer interested in sex this is not an advert for me looking for sex and does not have an interest in naturism so I seek a female/Cpl who are looking for meets to spend time clothes free maybe more if mutual only and discrete. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR JUST SEX BUT FRIENDSHIP AND ENJOYMENT TOGEHTER.

If interested please let me know I near to Rushden Northants.

Terry

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

I used to buy not any longer. Just got put off and sick to the back teeth of it. Now we stop with clubs and people we know

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"OP just because you have joined a swingers site it doesn't guarantee you sex on tap 24/7.

Getting so tired an bored with these can't get a meet threads.

If you are looking for a guaranteed shag we suggest an escort site or similar!"

I agree. There are so many "can't get a meet" threads on here that each new posting can only be a "notice-me" one.

A 10-second trawl through (very) similar previous threads will reveal plenty of helpful suggestions and feasible remedies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go in the chatrooms , use cam and speak to people

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