FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it ok to ask for a verification after a meet at yours if you have given one?

We had a great meet with a couple, conversation was good and fun was good.

This was the couples first meet and my man said he hated verifications but would do one for them to get them started.

He meant writing them, not receiving them

I guess people just take what they want from meets as the couple we met don't message us now where as before the meet it was several times every day.

Perhaps we thought the meet was good but they thought it was crap!

He says Im over thinking this and to let it go...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it ok to ask for a verification after a meet at yours if you have given one?

We had a great meet with a couple, conversation was good and fun was good.

This was the couples first meet and my man said he hated verifications but would do one for them to get them started.

He meant writing them, not receiving them

I guess people just take what they want from meets as the couple we met don't message us now where as before the meet it was several times every day.

Perhaps we thought the meet was good but they thought it was crap!

He says Im over thinking this and to let it go..."

I would'nt worry about verifications too much, as long as you have a good time that's alll that matters. Verifications are just a subjective view- I have had great meets and indifferent verifications, and vice versa with a great verification to "ok " meets....it's just opinions!