FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for 1st timers at a club

By *oupleLooking2 OP Couple
5 weeks ago

Manchester

Hi there, we are both really keen on going to a club, I’m (she) a bit apprehensive as don’t know what to expect / to wear or how it all works!

We don’t want full swap and just love watching and being watched and hearing other people….sex noises are a big turn on!

Any advice or club recommendations in the north west are welcomed! 🤗

By *ohn1953Man
5 weeks ago

Abergele

Just go there with a open mind, go at your own pace and just enjoy yourselves, watch others playing and then if you fancy others watching you two let them watch and if you don’t want anyone joining you just say so and they will abide by your wishes . You never no until you try it . John

By *arry69SallyCouple
4 weeks ago

Yorkshire & Hampshire

I would make sure you read plenty of reviews about the clubs you’re thinking of going to and types of people and events there etc. Most do couples only nights if that’s your thing or various other events. We chose VA as seemed to have good reviews and saw a video tour etc and had a great time. No pressure to full swap either and have a discord group which is great to get chat going with people prior to event nights.

Most people are super friendly and it’s all no pressure to play or go further than what you’re comfortable with.

Try and keep an open mind, discuss it with your partner where you think your limits may be and what you’re after etc. But above all just relax and enjoy it and you’ll be fine.

By *ancman44Man
4 weeks ago

Manchester

Never been to a club but happy to watch you at it