FabSwingers.com forum: Silverleigh

By *axfromkent OP Man
9 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

How do people generally find Silverleigh? It’s busier than it’s been for a long time and Wen has certainly invested in it recently. Personally, I really enjoy going there and if there are willing participants, I tend to have some fun in same way shape or form.

But gents, please don’t ruin it for the women. Don’t be sleazy and weird. You ruin not just for yourselves, but for everyone.

Hope to see you there sometime

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By *aveonMan
9 weeks ago

Dartford

Thanks for starting another thread as the last filled up - agree I’ve now gone back to going here after years of having given up due to the behaviour of many gents - spoiling it for others

I do sadly fear I’m seeing elements re appear and it will become 20 men chasing one poor woman round !

I go to use the facilities and if I click with someone then it’s a bonus and have met some wonderful people along the way

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By *aveonMan
9 weeks ago

Dartford

Just also thought is this thread in the right forum ?

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By *axfromkent OP Man
9 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

No worries.

Some people have messaged me asking what has changed there recently. I think, generally the upkeep seems to be a bit more on point. They have invested in the play area, new/bigger beds although the last time I went there were no locks on the rooms which I think they need to do to stop the usual nosey men sticking their heads in despite the door being closed.

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By *axfromkent OP Man
9 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Errrr. Think so. Not sure now lol

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By *23bbcMan
9 weeks ago

Romford

Who is going to silverleigh today I hear there's a St Paddy's party!

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By *ananaNoDramaMan
9 weeks ago

Caerdydd

I like the place, intending to go this Saturday 21st, driving from Wales for some lovely nude relaxation and hopefully fun!

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By *plelikesfun123Couple
9 weeks ago

Basildon

St Patricks Day Party at Silverleigh was great, good food, live music and of course the relaxing spa and pool. Meet some really nice people, who made us feel welcome.

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By *aveonMan
9 weeks ago

Dartford

Glad it went well - hope that Silverleigh gets appropriately busy with the right sort of customers

Wish I’d been able to get there

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By *untimecouple-2Man
9 weeks ago

Twickenham

Going to enjoy the naked spa tonight (Saturday 21st March). I adore great company and I’m very open minded and adventurous. If you’re attending please let me know. It would be great to chill and chat. Xx

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By *aveonMan
8 weeks ago

Dartford

So how was the Saturday ?

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By *aveonMan
8 weeks ago

Dartford

Wow Silverleigh are from 1st April putting their prices up to £35 per visit for men

Might be the last visit I go to this Thursday night !

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By *andomessexguyMan
8 weeks ago

Essex

I've never been and at a lose end tonight..

Is it only for spa or can you play as well?

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By *usciousladyWoman
8 weeks ago

Dartford

I go regularly with a girl friend to relax and enjoy a chat mostly with guys in the jacuzzi. It’s true the facilities are a little dated but Wen does her best and I like it because it’s quirky.

It’s usually fun and there’s often a free massage from a chap that sometimes turns into play.

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By *andomessexguyMan
8 weeks ago

Essex

Shame its open till 11pm and not later.

But may be swayed here over eurekas

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By *aveonMan
8 weeks ago

Dartford

What’s eurekas like these days ?

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By *andomessexguyMan
8 weeks ago

Essex

I hear quiet but will be better in thr summer

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By *aveonMan
8 weeks ago

Dartford

"I go regularly with a girl friend to relax and enjoy a chat mostly with guys in the jacuzzi. It’s true the facilities are a little dated but Wen does her best and I like it because it’s quirky.

It’s usually fun and there’s often a free massage from a chap that sometimes turns into play. "

I think the ladies entrance fee is now £20

I do like the place - as you say it has a quirky charm but I just hope it’s not a about to kill the place dead

I want this place to do well - for so many reasons, enjoy the facilities, chat to some lovely people and if the occasion is right have a play

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By *andomessexguyMan
8 weeks ago

Essex

Well the sun is shining today.. and Im thinking I want to relax for a bit. Trying to pluck up the courage to go.

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By *ougntinaCouple
8 weeks ago

chigwell

Haven't been for a while. Need to go back soon

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By *andomessexguyMan
8 weeks ago

Essex

Im on my way there now...

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By *aveonMan
8 weeks ago

Dartford

Hope you enjoy it

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By *andomessexguyMan
8 weeks ago

Essex

People are really nice. No play.. but Im gonna come back.

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By *eorgetaylor200Man
8 weeks ago

Southend

Tempted to try tomorrow, does it get busy on Sundays?

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By *andomessexguyMan
8 weeks ago

Essex

It was.. but then died out. I was the youngest there. But if you want to chill and use the facilities then go. It is needing some care but I enjoyed it. Summer will be nice.

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By *lley-CatMan
8 weeks ago

Folkestone

I am going on Monday afternoon for the first time in a few years.

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By *aveonMan
7 weeks ago

Dartford

What was it like ?

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By *eorgetaylor200Man
7 weeks ago

Southend

Very good. Alittle dated, but great facilities, and wonderful people to meet. Had a great time and will go again.

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By *23bbcMan
6 weeks ago

Romford

Hiya are any naughty couples planning to go today or tomorrow xx

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By *andomessexguyMan
6 weeks ago

Essex

Perfect day dor it today... very jealous those that can enjoy the day

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By *aveonMan
6 weeks ago

Dartford

Might head back tomorrow evening

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By *e myselfandi300Man
6 weeks ago

Newark

Me and my fwb are thinking of visiting one weekend , hopefully book a room for overnight.

Firstly is it worth booking a room? Do many people stay ?.

What is the couple ratio.. and apart from 1st of the month club night , is there anything on over a normal weekend.?

Sorry for all the questions.

Cheers x

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By *aveonMan
6 weeks ago

Dartford

Can’t really answer any of that and you simply never know who will be there sadly

Last Thursday night there were four people in total !

One regular couple, another guy and me !

The couple there just chill and not for play

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By *andomessexguyMan
6 weeks ago

Essex

I went a few Saturday back..

Staying there.. dont think it be for me. There was 2 older couples the rest was men.. I was the youngest by some way.

Everyone is friendly.. im looking forward to going back.

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
5 weeks ago

brentwood

Just checked the website & its £49 for a couple now

at that price no couples are going to attend, such a shame its a lovely place

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By *axfromkent OP Man
5 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

This is such a shame that the costs have gone up so much. Will simply drive people elsewhere. The activity before April was pretty good and I thought going in the right direction.

I think if Silverleigh had good activity on insta, Facebook, X etc and people started thinking about Silverleigh again, they would get more men, couples, women though the door. Surely 2 people at £15 each is better than no people at £49. Simple marketing really

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By *aveonMan
5 weeks ago

Dartford

Have to say I’ve been a couple of times with the new prices and like a decent naked indoor swim - but the place has been pretty much dead !

However I’ve only seen it on a Thursday night on both occasions

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By *axfromkent OP Man
5 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Lower the prices. Get people through the door. And social media.

Sadly I think it will close if they carry on hiking the prices

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By *regen1000Man
5 weeks ago

Erith

I got there just after 3 this afternoon. As I was walking up 2 cars were leaving and the carpark was so empty. No women. No couples. 5 guys plus me. Fortunately I had arranged to meet someone there. First woman through the door in almost 3 hours. Her and her mate were both questioning whether they can afford to keep going.

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By *plelikesfun123Couple
5 weeks ago

Basildon

We stopped by last Thursday for a few hours around 3:30 while we were passing through. We were surprised at the £49 cost, which will likely make us think twice about visiting for a few hours in the future.

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
5 weeks ago

brentwood

Hopefully they will re-think the couples / single women price soon

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By *aveonMan
5 weeks ago

Dartford

I had planned to go last night (Thursday) but got a bit held up so would have meant getting there about 7.30 pm - decided that due to price now (was not ideal before!) I’d pass given how much time I had available

If they were £25 per male and maybe another £10 / £15 for females I think they would be in a sweet spot and attract many more people, maybe have reduced evening entry prices from a certain time, close earlier to reduce overheads ?

I really like the place now - different vibe from a few years ago, want the place to succeed without attracting the hordes of men chasing women on the free entry nights !

The unique thing they have is the indoor pool that I love to use - just all needs generally improving and at the higher prices we all expect a little more

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By *axfromkent OP Man
5 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

100% agree

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By *lley-CatMan
5 weeks ago

Folkestone

Agree with the comments above.

Income is probably down and costs are going. Couples and single ladies are what attract single guys to clubs so a lower price for them seems sensible.

In any event it's better having some people paying a lower price, especially there if that attracts others, than nobody paying a higher price.

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By *estcountrybenMan
4 weeks ago

Glastonbury

Good to hear positive news about Silverleigh, will get back there when I can.

As a single gent (and quite advanced in years too) I will keep trying not to be sleazy and weird! - I know I'm neither but of course other people won't know that.

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By *aveonMan
4 weeks ago

Dartford

Might head over tonight

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By *weetgio831Man
4 weeks ago

Romford

35 quids for mans now,a bit too much but i still see plenty of mans and mostly are just wankers 🤣 ,its a naturist club not a wanking place...i like the place because its friendly and has all the things in one space,a sshameeee that the steam room is not working properly and the sauna its not up to the standards..even the swimming pool this week was a bit too dirty

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By *aveonMan
3 weeks ago

Dartford

Steam room can be hit and miss but if you have the knack can get it steaming up well

Must admit the pool was fine when I was there - sauna was playing up a bit but still hot

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By *llpostinoMan
3 weeks ago

London

Tbf the pool hasn't been the same since Eraina left, most ppl don't even know who that is now.😢

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By *aveonMan
3 weeks ago

Dartford

Who is that !

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By *llpostinoMan
3 weeks ago

London

She used to work at silverleigh in the office, and cleaned when she was needed to. She left about 7 years ago. The pool hasn't been the same since.😢

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

We've been a few times but not recently tbh.

Pricing is a bit off putting as a couple now tbh.

Doesn't really make sense to me, especially thinking about the visitors it could attract from Eurekas which is nearby but also struggling.

Maybe £15 women £35 couples £30 single men. So singles still pay a premium. But it may attract more.

One person through the door or 50 the running costs are the same. You still have to heat the pool and turn the lights on.

We had heard it was being refurbished????

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By *hortyLongMan
2 weeks ago

chatham hotel

Anyone going today

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By *ocmulletMan
2 weeks ago

Colchester

they are taking the P**s charging that amount if the facilities are not working correctly

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By *aveonMan
2 weeks ago

Dartford

They should discount entry when something is not working correctly but they do warn before entry and give a choice - full price but this is not working

Last Thursday had good attendance - I think however they were mainly paid regular members

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By *outhbucksCouple
2 weeks ago

Great Missenden

Can someone who has been in the last few days let us know what condition everything was in.

We don't want to waste money if the pool is cold, hot tub isn't hotter than 39 degs, the sauna doesn't get the blood flowing, and there is no steam in the steam room.

We are going to Brands Hatch on Saturday and so we might come down early and stay here on the Friday in our camper.

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By *regen1000Man
2 weeks ago

Erith

It has been a couple of weeks since I went but the sauna was very hot. The hot tubs were going well. Steam room was..... right time, right place.

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By *aveonMan
2 weeks ago

Dartford

Was there last Thursday evening - all good, but steam room sometimes needs encouragement to work

Hope to go tonight again

Just phone them and ask if everything is working before you go there from the track

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By *outhbucksCouple
2 weeks ago

Great Missenden

All being good, we will be there early evening

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By *aveonMan
2 weeks ago

Dartford

Wish I could be there again tonight - was there last night (Thursday) and there really were quite a few people - had a fab evening

Message me anyone I chatted to that is also here

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By *outhbucksCouple
2 weeks ago

Great Missenden

Now, late evening if at all!

"All being good, we will be there early evening"

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By *iger_WolfCouple
2 weeks ago

havering

Anyone going tomorrow afternoon?

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By *axfromkent OP Man
2 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

I know you two! Hey

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By *iger_WolfCouple
2 weeks ago

havering

"I know you two! Hey "

Ummm… pretty sure you don’t

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By *axfromkent OP Man
2 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

lol. Brill. Seen you before at Silverleigh and we chatted. That’s all lol

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By *mithytheoneMan
6 days ago

canterbury

Anyone there this afternoon/evening?

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By *unguy0069Man
6 days ago

Coulsdon

"Anyone there this afternoon/evening? "

Think I might head over there this afternoon

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By *ason2803_2Man
6 days ago

Blackwall

Never been is it worth it

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By *aveonMan
6 days ago

Dartford

"Never been is it worth it "

Most info is here in this thread - but message if you want any specifics

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By *udistmale75Man
5 days ago

London

I might go on Saturday afternoon. Is it busy on Saturdays?

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By *omNMan
5 days ago

london

It was this Saturday. Probably because it was a nice weekend out etc

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