FabSwingers.com forum: First Messages

By *ikesmithh OP Man
20 weeks ago

Maidstone

I’m generally curious on what you single woman look for when a guy texts you first, as I know you all get 100s of messages from us guys. What helps them get a reply from you? What instant red flags cause you to just ignore the message except the obvious being just a random dick pic or a quick message saying ‘wanna fuck?’🤣 I find I message a few of you and they just don’t get opened or they get ignored lol just trying to see where we’re going wrong here😂

By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I am finding the exact same thing - although I'm not new to the life or the site, losing access details and importantly my verification status, means I'm just "another photo collector"

Im a nice clean guy!