FabSwingers.com forum: Swingers clubs

By *istance_newbies OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Gorleston

Hello

me and my partner are hoping to visit a swingers club soon.

I’ve been feeling nervous and I just wondered about the etiquette. Is it okay to have some drinks? And do people just chat like a normal event. Is there a certain way to invite someone in and is it okay if we just stick to each other for our first visit while we are working out our boundaries etc.

Sorry if these are dumb questions I just like to be prepared for things like this!

Any experiences shared would be helpful! H (the female part haha) x

By *aomilatteCouple
23 weeks ago

Midlands

It's absolutely fine if you stick to each other, many couples only play with each other on their first visit (including us). Have a drink but not too much (like many do in swinging clubs). It's a surreal experience but you can just observe and people watch. Say hello as you're passing people and you may get into a conversation, it's nice to chat to people even if you don't play. Look for prolonged eye contact, it may mean they fancy you. Give the right signals back, say hello and you may be in for some fun. It's normal to be nervous, but just do it and good luck.