FabSwingers.com forum: Advice opening up

By *haredSecrets17 OP Couple
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

Heyyy we are trying to find our first unicon for our first meet. For context we have been together for 6 years and have never been with anyone else.

We are finding it a nightmare finding someone who is into the FWB vibe and we find the conversations tend to fizzle out. How do we go from learning about people to actually meeting up to jumping into bed without moving too fast and doing things we may regret but also making sure everyone is comfortable and its a positive expierence.

Equally whats the best way to find unicorns?

Any advice would be welcomed thank you in advance

By *aomilatteCouple
25 weeks ago

Midlands

The best way to meet single women is at a club or a social. If they're going to get involved with a couple most like to meet and chat with them both to get a feel of the chemistry. They wouldn't want to be involved in any drama. In our experience the club nights that allow single guys have more single women, many are open to joining a couple. Though don't expect to see a lot of single women on a club night.

By *allySlinkyWoman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

I think you should look at finding a single woman rather than a FWB. That relationship develops later.

Also be aware that some women don't like the term "unicorn".

By *haredSecrets17 OP Couple
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I think you should look at finding a single woman rather than a FWB. That relationship develops later.

Also be aware that some women don't like the term "unicorn". "

How come we shouldnt go for a fwb? Out of curiosity x

By *xposedInTheMaleMan
25 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

"How come we shouldnt go for a fwb? Out of curiosity x"

Because it's really, really difficult to find an FWB for anyone.

Add your lack of experience on top of that, and you haven't much chance.