FabSwingers.com forum: Uncomfy but pertinent question about Asian guys around Birmingham

By *tallion4earth OP Man
32 weeks ago

Birmingham

I moved to Birmingham few months back from London. I joined the Fab also that time but I have been into this lifestyle since last 15 years in and out.

When I joined the fab, I realise a lot of ladies and couples mention that they are not into Asian guys. Everybody got their preferences, so this is totally understandable. I met and talked to ladies and couples then I realise that lot of people did not have good experiences meeting Asian guys. It made me curious that what kind of experiences. If you can share your stories then It would help everybody. Folks would have some good information whoever reads it. Probably it will also bring change in guys as well.

As per my understanding guys should always be respectful, discrete, nonplus, non-selfish, non-liar, friendly and easy going. These are just a basic personality traits. Needless to add, clean, taking care of their body, smell nice. I mean these things are not needed to be asked in first place. Obviously physically fit and well-endowed and being performer helps but not everybody is blessed with that like me lol.

Any ways, would you like to share your experience here and It will be useful for guys, ladies and couples alike.

By *eroLondonMan
32 weeks ago

Mayfair

I've heard of people having negative experiences with black, caucasian and Asian men, but I rarely come across profiles stating "that they are not into Caucasian" men. Instead Asian men are often mentioned unfavourably in profiles.

I have no idea why. People exhibit idiosyncrasies when it comes to preferences, and Asian men are perceived to be less desired comparatively speaking.

By *tallion4earth OP Man
32 weeks ago

Birmingham

I did not have issues when I was in london but that time I was not on Fab. I had my ways of meeting couples and ladies and we were pretty regular so life was pretty fun as it was. I did have fwb partner and we used to go to adult club occasaionally.

I think it is birmingham thing. Plus I also had one bizzare experience here with a so called couple. A couple invited me in city centre to meet and as per him they are staying for evening and just passing through to I did not ask too many questions. Profile was older then year so I did not think much. I went to meet and I realised he paid for the date , I did not like the scenario either so I left in 5 minutes. That gave me learning that always meet people who are verified here by others.

By *eroLondonMan
32 weeks ago

Mayfair

Personally, my experiences of meeting women 100s miles away are significantly better than those based on London. In London I've found them to be culturally shallow. From a Fab perspective of course; I don't use any other app or online site.