FabSwingers.com forum: Best way to get started in swinging

By *haredSecrets17 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

Good morning all,

What is the best way for newbies who are trying to remain discreet to get started in swinging. We are concious of hurting eachother unintentionally and want to open up slowly but get very very nervous when actually doing anything! Any advice help or even couples willing to help we are open to

By *heelerMan
35 weeks ago

Northants

"Good morning all,

Start off with a social meet then agree if you go further with someone keep it too soft play only from there you will both know what boundaries are too be set out.

By *oelMan
35 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

Find a newbie event at a local club

By *haredSecrets17 OP Couple
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Find a newbie event at a local club"

Are they any good though? I imagine it just highlights us as newbies and will lead to a bad experience?

By *elshguybiMan
35 weeks ago

Carmarthen

It’s hard being single guy on here. I’ve learnt that you have to keep trying even through the bad experiences. Even if you just talk to one person it’s a win

By *CExeCouple
35 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

Talk to each other about comfort levels and what you want to try. Maybe start with a same room, no swap meet. See how you feel being naked and intimate around others without crossing the swapping line.

By *elshguybiMan
35 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Yeah when able to meet someone

By *orge JWoman
35 weeks ago

Sexytown

Try visiting the social events they are a great way to meet like minded people exchange stories have giggle and a great night out.