FabSwingers.com forum: Do looks matter?

By *iresFlame OP Man
over a year ago

Chorley

In swinging do looks really matter, or should people be looking at what someone else can do for them sexually? As a single guy I find it difficult to get meets on here and find it easier to get the odd meet from a dating site. I've found lately that people like ourselves who are more open about our sexual needs are getting more picky. I've also met some good looking women who where plainly dead fish's in bed.

By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

Of course

this isn't match.com so yes I'm shallow and while personality is important looks for me on here are 90% though by looks I dint mean a cock pic! I'm more interested in who the cock is attached to........if there is no sexual attraction what's the point??

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat on POF I get 3-4 a week but on here i'm lucky to get one a month and not to my "preference"

As a single guy it's always difficult - Get a minx off POF and advertise yourself as a couple!

By *iresFlame OP Man
over a year ago

Chorley

You're right it's not Match.com but people are more fussy on here about who they want to spend an few hours with shagging than someone they want to spend their life with. I found POF pants you get better luck on a pay site.

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Of course looks matter! I wouldn't wanna get up close and personal with someone I didn't find attractive. And you only 'know' what a person can do for you sexually by what they claim in their profile. Still need to actually find out for yourself. Judt because someone is good looking it doesn't mean they are brilliant in bed. Lol.

IRL the situation is different, I've dated a few guys that I wouldn't look at twice on here but that's because I've met them thru friends etc and gotten to know them so looks weren't as important (although they weren't hideous lol)