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"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette We seem to be the only couple at our local spot Where's your local spot? It's alive and kicking around Rivington | |||
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"Yeah but full of pests that don’t give you a minute as soon as you park up there at the window then trying the car door spoils it for everyone " Its Idiots like that have completely ruined it for the genuine people. Plus boy racers. | |||
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"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette We seem to be the only couple at our local spot I agree there can be alot of pushy guys out there at times, they soon get bored though and go elsewhere | |||
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"Yeah but full of pests that don’t give you a minute as soon as you park up there at the window then trying the car door spoils it for everyone " Aint that the truth.. | |||
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"Im out now been here 5mins and there is a couple here already, not even dark yet Could you pm me where you go | |||
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"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette We seem to be the only couple at our local spot We go out quite often and unless prearranged it’s pointless. Too many gay men and boy racers | |||
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"Blackburn/clitheroe area ? " Try Rivi mate | |||
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"We really fancy trying it but our attempts have come up fruitless, then again we have only been able to get info on out of date websites. So any real info please message us. Especially around Bolton/wigan areas" Let us know the spots as well | |||
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"We tried for the first time tonight. We didn’t have any luck meeting anyone. We did wonder between ourselves while we were waiting what the etiquette is if someone does turn up; how do you make it clear that you’re interested in them watching/participating without opening your car window and shouting “oi, mate, want to play with my partners boobs?” Also, is there a more reliable way of being in the right place at the right time?" If you let me know when\where you're playing out I'll join you | |||
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"We really fancy trying it but our attempts have come up fruitless, then again we have only been able to get info on out of date websites. So any real info please message us. Especially around Bolton/wigan areas" I have sent you a message with some info near you | |||
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"I run a dogging private chat group, it is for NW only but all welcome, it allows cpls or singles to chat and potentially arrange when they are looking for dogging and want to try and remove a bit of the “no show and long waiting!” Element while still having a air of “stranger” fun! DM if you’re interested! And I can add you to the group!! Just to highlight this is a NW group so Chester to manchester and cheshire to blackpool areas.. anyone from much further a field won’t be added sorry! | |||
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"We really fancy trying it but our attempts have come up fruitless, then again we have only been able to get info on out of date websites. So any real info please message us. Especially around Bolton/wigan areas" . Hi I’d deffo meet ?? | |||
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"We really fancy trying it but our attempts have come up fruitless, then again we have only been able to get info on out of date websites. So any real info please message us. Especially around Bolton/wigan areas" _parkourinterest | |||
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"We really fancy trying it but our attempts have come up fruitless, then again we have only been able to get info on out of date websites. So any real info please message us. Especially around Bolton/wigan areas" _parkourinterest | |||
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"I've seen a few messages recently (including on this post) asking about dogging etiquette and signs...... Some "don'ts" for me.... Hope that's helpful, and here's to many more years of fun." Thanks for the post. Very helpful | |||
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"Idiots live streaming has caused most places to vanish. Sale water park use to be pretty active and never had a bad time there until recently, and twice some non head has got there phone and and live streamed, filming all the regs etc. I’ve given up on public dogging, but my mate has some land down near haslingdon, he’s fenced it off and invites me down now and again for some private dogging, although it’s not the same I use to love the mystery of it all, the “do they don’t they” want me to play, however drive down to my mates land, and 9/10 times it’s a lady who just wants cock and because it’s fenced off, it’s just outdoor sex but private, so takes all the fun out of it (not complaining like, but does take the risk out of it which was part of the thrill)" Not a bad replacement though x | |||
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"We’d love to give it a try but not sure we’re to go too. " See my post above for some do's and don'ts. I won't share any locations on the forum but I have a few favourite haunts I can share privately. Just drop me a dm. If I can give some advice, it would be to be clear about what you want or would like before you venture out. There is a world of difference between different types of meet and what you need out of a location. For example.... Some like to turn up, attract a crowd and put on a show. In this case you would need to know how far you want to go and how to set ground rules, because people will be all too eager. Visiting popular spots after dark is your target here, and depending on how bold you are, there are easy signals you want to be watched or play. Others prefer the thrill of chance. Quieter, less used spots or later at night, lots of waiting. In this case, enjoying outdoor sex together and accept that you may not get watchers, but give some signal if you want interested and wait for others to engage. You may need to talk to people on the night to establish this, although experience folks will know the signs. Personally, this is my preference. Not knowing adds to the experience. Finally, the pre-arranged meet. Here you can control the scenario, message back and forth and pretty much any location will work for you. Happy to chat more if it helps and make some recommendations. | |||
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"Anyone aware of any active sites? We are looking to be watched whilst we watch you.. xx" Can’t message you as blocked single guys | |||
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"Anyone aware of any active sites? We are looking to be watched whilst we watch you.. xx" Message me if you want a quick chat x | |||
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"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette We seem to be the only couple at our local spot | |||
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"Anyone aware of any active sites? We are looking to be watched whilst we watch you.. xx Can’t message you as blocked single guys " Thanks, but we arent looking for single guys | |||
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"Anyone aware of any active sites? We are looking to be watched whilst we watch you.. xx Can’t message you as blocked single guys Thanks, but we arent looking for single guys" Hmm. Probably why you cant find anything out dogging lol | |||
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"Anyone aware of any active sites? We are looking to be watched whilst we watch you.. xx Can’t message you as blocked single guys Thanks, but we arent looking for single guys Hmm. Probably why you cant find anything out dogging lol" Oh well... lol | |||
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"I've seen a few messages recently (including on this post) asking about dogging etiquette and signs. In replying to one couple, I thought my answer might help others. I'm writing from a single straight male perspective, looking for couples, so others may want to add to it. 1) Timing - Usually after dark works best. Well known spots can be busy with people who just cruise about endlessly so I tend to head for spots that are quieter or have potential. Even well known spots quieten down after 10:30 (I assume as married fellas run out of excuses to be out) 2) Good single males will be patient. They will usually signal interest by a quick flash of the headlights or interior light. In addition, I tend to get out of the car, stand by it so I am fully visible and then a couple can check me out fully. 3) I won't approach unless I get an indication. This is often the male partner getting out and saying hello, but could be a reciprocal flash of a light. 4) If I see a signal, I will cautiously approach. I say cautiously because there are knobheads around who want to cause trouble. From there it's 'play it by ear', but here is my understanding of the 'rules'. Keep the interior light out and I will loiter and watch. It's obviously harder to see but I appreciate that some people don't like to be too lit up and obvious. I will usually take a lead from the couple, so if playing stops or there is a hand gesture I will back off or go further depending on the gesture. Interior lights on means you definitely want to be watched. I will approach closer and if it's quiet / safe I would usually take this as a sign to touch myself whilst watching. Again a polite but firm gesture tells me what to do next. Window down at any point is taken as an invitation to touch or be touched. I'd usually put my hands through the window or the couple indicate if they want to touch me. We go from there. Door open is usually an invitation to go further. Going down on the female becomes an option here as does penetration. Generally, I find talking helpful, once initial nervousness is gone. Just say what you want to happen - for both parties. I'm cautious of movement in and out of the spot. Cars may come and go and I tend to return to my car or walk around. No one needs to stumble across something unexpected. As I say, I'm obviously writing this from a single male heterosexual perspective assuming I am looking for couples. Couples or gay / bi people may have a different perspective or approach. If I'm a car park late at night I'm probably there in hope. It's definitely a game of patience. Patience in waiting for a couple who want to play; and patience in watching the merry-go-round. Some "don'ts" for me include 1) Parking too close the the car you are interested in. Give it time. 2) Full beam headlights, even if its dark. Give it time. 3) Approaching without signal. Give it time. 4) Did I mention - just give it time! I've seen all sorts over the years, so feel free to ask any other questions. I'm not discussing locations on the forum. Hope that's helpful, and here's to many more years of fun." This is exactly how it used to be 10 years ago people understood what was happening then. As a keen dogger it’s happened to have a lot of idiots who haven’t a clue and don’t give people a chance to even have a little kiss before there at the win do the key to dogging was being patient. Spent many of hours sat in places to get fun now people are to eager. Which is scarring people away. | |||
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"Im out now been here 5mins and there is a couple here already, not even dark yet Can you pm where abouts please | |||
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" This is exactly how it used to be 10 years ago people understood what was happening then. As a keen dogger it’s happened to have a lot of idiots who haven’t a clue and don’t give people a chance to even have a little kiss before there at the win do the key to dogging was being patient. Spent many of hours sat in places to get fun now people are to eager. Which is scarring people away. " Yep. Patience, patience, patience | |||
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"Same here, there's never anything when I go" Well it definitely still happens. Maybe pre-arrange something? I've previously had a rough location given but no detail. It's a half way house. Not a meet, but enough certainty to know that you're not going to sit in a car park for hours for nothing. I'm out and about your neck of the woods often, so happy to connect. | |||
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"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette We seem to be the only couple at our local spot I was wondering if anyone knew of sites around Bamber Bridge that are still active? | |||
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"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette We seem to be the only couple at our local spot Not bamber bridge but further afield nearer Bolton/,Blackburn, yes | |||
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"We go in the NW. those that are saying g its still going, it is with guys. We found a couple once! " Love to know where you go😁 | |||
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"Would you guys like to join it? " No thanks | |||
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"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette We seem to be the only couple at our local spot Dogging since 1991 after stumbling into it by accident. It is absolutely not what it used to be, couples parked awaiting their turn for attention. Press and Internet ruined a quiet dark secret by sites overrun by clueless numpties that park too close, drive around with headlights through windows to see in. It used to be fun and a cert that going out any night would result in heading home with a smile. Smame though.. | |||
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"We both want to give it a go alone Liverpool ideally, if anyone fancies messaging any recommendations " hi you have blocked males so can’t give any advice | |||
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"I've been looking for people to do it with as a first timer and can't find anyone I think it has disappeared. If anyone hear is interested lmk" Not so much disappeared it’s more that known locations are literally top secret - the usual “well known” locations of times gone by ended up being overrun with single males. I always go as a couple and not keen to be watched by half a dozen scruffy men shooting their load all over my car windows. I’d suggest try finding a single woman on here to venture out as a couple!? I found a couple on here a few years ago who we ended up meeting and that led to us having a few of their dogging friends on our WhatsApp list. Stick at it I absolutely love a good dogging meet - dogging is such a weird phrase to use 😂 | |||
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"Yeah but full of pests that don’t give you a minute as soon as you park up there at the window then trying the car door spoils it for everyone " I used to go to a north west area regularly few yr ago with a fb, it was ok and had fun,however some morons drew lot of attention to the place, one day nice weather a bloke was walking down the lane nowt on. Police were called by some locals who had kids with them then place was on police radar and locals went and parked up and took car regs and gave all to police, who in turn parked up in unmarked cars. So that put me off it. | |||
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"Does anyone know of places in Llandudno by any chance places." Try llandullas | |||
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"I have been dogging for nearly 30 years... the internet broke dogging as sites are published and are used by mainly gays/trans and pushy people who have no respect. I remember spending ages parked in joy lane in burtonwood... now it's omega business estate, but it was great fun. No internet so you turn up and wait... a few cop visits but largely we were left to play" I remember it there. Always good fun and really quite secluded for just a road | |||
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"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette We seem to be the only couple at our local spot Castlehill Huddersfield used to be pretty decent | |||
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"I run a dogging private chat group, it is for NW only but all welcome, it allows cpls or singles to chat and potentially arrange when they are looking for dogging and want to try and remove a bit of the “no show and long waiting!” Element while still having a air of “stranger” fun! DM if you’re interested! And I can add you to the group!! This group is no longer running.. sorry! | |||
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