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By *ack again two OP Couple
12 weeks ago

home

It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette

We seem to be the only couple at our local spot

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By *mazon Delivery GuyMan
12 weeks ago

Leigh

"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette

We seem to be the only couple at our local spot

Where's your local spot? It's alive and kicking around Rivington

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By *tackermanMan
12 weeks ago

wigan

Morning your right since covid it's died off the normal spots that used to be busy seem to have finished met lots of cpls over the years and had some really good times seems full of idiots that have no idea now

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By *ack again two OP Couple
12 weeks ago

home

Yeah but full of pests that don’t give you a minute as soon as you park up there at the window then trying the car door spoils it for everyone

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By *hrisy69Man
12 weeks ago

chester/hawarden

"Yeah but full of pests that don’t give you a minute as soon as you park up there at the window then trying the car door spoils it for everyone "

Its Idiots like that have completely ruined it for the genuine people. Plus boy racers.

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By *HEF 77Man
12 weeks ago

Chester

The Chef also interested

I'm Chef nice smell clean guy always smart clothes..

If you want we can exchange a photos?

We can meet for fun before I go to holiday in Dominican Republic for 1 month...

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By *tackermanMan
12 weeks ago

wigan

Amazes me people here as bad

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By *ean441300Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

Happy to hear of a more secluded place and be far more appreciative and respectful…

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By *londebiguyMan
12 weeks ago

Southport

People seem generally to be more entitled and have little thought for anyone else these days.

Maybe it's that everything is just available on the internet and with social media.

They think that they can do as they like.

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By *couseFun2.0Man
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette

We seem to be the only couple at our local spot

I agree there can be alot of pushy guys out there at times, they soon get bored though and go elsewhere

. There is a couple of places i go every week and always bump into couples out. Some play and some don't, just like anywhere can be hit and miss. I've also found going later on in the evening can be better

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By *couseFun2.0Man
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

While out dogging and if you bump into a couple, be respectful

. If they are wanting to be watched or play they will sure let you know

. Being pushy and approaching them will just drive them elsewhere. Also turn your bloody headlights off

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By *ikey warringtonMan
12 weeks ago

Warrington

I would like to know some good spots.

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By *heshcplCouple
12 weeks ago

warr

"Yeah but full of pests that don’t give you a minute as soon as you park up there at the window then trying the car door spoils it for everyone "

Aint that the truth..

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By *aturist daveMan
12 weeks ago

chester

I used to go a lot around the Wirral but it just died a death

Clubs didn’t help

I have some interesting quiet places if anyone is interested

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By *couseFun2.0Man
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

Im out now been here 5mins and there is a couple here already, not even dark yet

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By *aturist daveMan
12 weeks ago

chester

"Im out now been here 5mins and there is a couple here already, not even dark yet

Could you pm me where you go

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By *onyMaloneMan
12 weeks ago

Lytham

"It’s is just us or has dogging disappeared over the years and people who go now have little idea about the etiquette

We seem to be the only couple at our local spot

We go out quite often and unless prearranged it’s pointless. Too many gay men and boy racers

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By *ndyWarringtonMan
11 weeks ago

Warrington

I have been dogging for nearly 30 years... the internet broke dogging as sites are published and are used by mainly gays/trans and pushy people who have no respect.

I remember spending ages parked in joy lane in burtonwood... now it's omega business estate, but it was great fun. No internet so you turn up and wait... a few cop visits but largely we were left to play

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By *tackermanMan
11 weeks ago

wigan

Out tonight patience is key

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By *urious JoMan
11 weeks ago

wirral

I always respect couples when out and about but there are rarely any about anymore think most tend to go to clubs nowadays as there are a lot more of them now, that combined with the disrespectful goons unable to turn lights off etc have ruined most decent spots now

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By *uriouspair21Couple
11 weeks ago

Lancashire

We tried for the first time tonight. We didn’t have any luck meeting anyone. We did wonder between ourselves while we were waiting what the etiquette is if someone does turn up; how do you make it clear that you’re interested in them watching/participating without opening your car window and shouting “oi, mate, want to play with my partners boobs?”

Also, is there a more reliable way of being in the right place at the right time?

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By *arlkinzer11Man
11 weeks ago

morecambe lancaster

Any straight couples up for mmf cuckold roleplay etc or single females that dont just timewaste and actually meet ? I can accomadate or travel I can book a hotel or do a car meet ??? Send me a message really struggling to get a meet all the best

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By *couseFun2.0Man
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

I will be out at a couple of spots tonight

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By *amNiceGuy88Man
11 weeks ago

Blackburn

Blackburn/clitheroe area ?

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By *couseFun2.0Man
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Blackburn/clitheroe area ? "

Try Rivi mate

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By *parkourinterestCouple
10 weeks ago

Lancashire

We really fancy trying it but our attempts have come up fruitless, then again we have only been able to get info on out of date websites. So any real info please message us. Especially around Bolton/wigan areas

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By *onglegcoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

manchester

"We really fancy trying it but our attempts have come up fruitless, then again we have only been able to get info on out of date websites. So any real info please message us. Especially around Bolton/wigan areas"

Let us know the spots as well

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By *abialover_69Man
10 weeks ago

kingswood

I wouldnt mind stumbling across you haha

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By *hilleddevilMan
10 weeks ago

north Manchester

"We tried for the first time tonight. We didn’t have any luck meeting anyone. We did wonder between ourselves while we were waiting what the etiquette is if someone does turn up; how do you make it clear that you’re interested in them watching/participating without opening your car window and shouting “oi, mate, want to play with my partners boobs?”

Also, is there a more reliable way of being in the right place at the right time?"

If you let me know when\where you're playing out I'll join you

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By *couseFun2.0Man
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

I have sent you a message with some info near you

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By *orthy122Man
10 weeks ago

wigan

Hi I live nearby, I’d really enjoy meeting you both for some horny fun, please get in touch asap thanks

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By *itgingermanMan
10 weeks ago

Rotherham

Never been to one

Still not sure what they about even at 50 lol 😂

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By *iMarried2016Man
10 weeks ago

Near you

I run a dogging private chat group, it is for NW only but all welcome, it allows cpls or singles to chat and potentially arrange when they are looking for dogging and want to try and remove a bit of the “no show and long waiting!” Element while still having a air of “stranger” fun!

DM if you’re interested! And I can add you to the group!!

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By *iMarried2016Man
10 weeks ago

Near you

"I run a dogging private chat group, it is for NW only but all welcome, it allows cpls or singles to chat and potentially arrange when they are looking for dogging and want to try and remove a bit of the “no show and long waiting!” Element while still having a air of “stranger” fun!

DM if you’re interested! And I can add you to the group!!

Just to highlight this is a NW group so Chester to manchester and cheshire to blackpool areas.. anyone from much further a field won’t be added sorry!

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By *in bang boshMan
10 weeks ago

Merseyside

I go a few places in nw dogging with fwb and it's hit and miss alot of dogging places now full of gay or bi men mite get the odd couple there but will say we have fun 3 out of 4 times we go pm me if you want the places we go x

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By *tackermanMan
10 weeks ago

wigan

Any genuine doggers out tonight

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By *orey7inchMan
10 weeks ago

Bradford

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By *ax_VeridiusMan
10 weeks ago

Liverpool

I've seen a few messages recently (including on this post) asking about dogging etiquette and signs.

In replying to one couple, I thought my answer might help others. I'm writing from a single straight male perspective, looking for couples, so others may want to add to it.

1) Timing - Usually after dark works best. Well known spots can be busy with people who just cruise about endlessly so I tend to head for spots that are quieter or have potential. Even well known spots quieten down after 10:30 (I assume as married fellas run out of excuses to be out)

2) Good single males will be patient. They will usually signal interest by a quick flash of the headlights or interior light. In addition, I tend to get out of the car, stand by it so I am fully visible and then a couple can check me out fully.

3) I won't approach unless I get an indication. This is often the male partner getting out and saying hello, but could be a reciprocal flash of a light.

4) If I see a signal, I will cautiously approach. I say cautiously because there are knobheads around who want to cause trouble.

From there it's 'play it by ear', but here is my understanding of the 'rules'.

Keep the interior light out and I will loiter and watch. It's obviously harder to see but I appreciate that some people don't like to be too lit up and obvious. I will usually take a lead from the couple, so if playing stops or there is a hand gesture I will back off or go further depending on the gesture.

Interior lights on means you definitely want to be watched. I will approach closer and if it's quiet / safe I would usually take this as a sign to touch myself whilst watching. Again a polite but firm gesture tells me what to do next.

Window down at any point is taken as an invitation to touch or be touched. I'd usually put my hands through the window or the couple indicate if they want to touch me. We go from there.

Door open is usually an invitation to go further. Going down on the female becomes an option here as does penetration.

Generally, I find talking helpful, once initial nervousness is gone. Just say what you want to happen - for both parties.

I'm cautious of movement in and out of the spot. Cars may come and go and I tend to return to my car or walk around. No one needs to stumble across something unexpected.

As I say, I'm obviously writing this from a single male heterosexual perspective assuming I am looking for couples. Couples or gay / bi people may have a different perspective or approach.

If I'm a car park late at night I'm probably there in hope. It's definitely a game of patience. Patience in waiting for a couple who want to play; and patience in watching the merry-go-round.

Some "don'ts" for me include

1) Parking too close the the car you are interested in. Give it time.

2) Full beam headlights, even if its dark. Give it time.

3) Approaching without signal. Give it time.

4) Did I mention - just give it time!

I've seen all sorts over the years, so feel free to ask any other questions. I'm not discussing locations on the forum.

Hope that's helpful, and here's to many more years of fun.

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By *arlkinzer11Man
5 weeks ago

morecambe lancaster

Hi I’d deffo come and meet you both ??

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By *arlkinzer11Man
5 weeks ago

morecambe lancaster

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By *arlkinzer11Man
5 weeks ago

morecambe lancaster

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By *arlkinzer11Man
5 weeks ago

morecambe lancaster

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By *osmicRobMan
5 weeks ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

"I've seen a few messages recently (including on this post) asking about dogging etiquette and signs......

Some "don'ts" for me....

Hope that's helpful, and here's to many more years of fun."

Thanks for the post. Very helpful

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By *onder386Man
5 days ago

Liverpool

Id love to know where your regular spot is if youre ever up for a guy to join! 😈

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By *abialover_69Man
2 days ago

kingswood

Love to get involved please contact if interested

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