FabSwingers.com forum: ENM not Cuckoldry

By *otwife Owners Club OP Couple
16 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Ethical Non Monogamy

.. not Cuckoldry

My wife asks me to PROCURE men for her, which means I place the ad, I vet the applicants and then I present her with the shortlist.

Sometimes she tells me to set up a meeting on neutral territory, either with me present or not. If I am present, I am expected to leave the two of them shortly after introductions have been made.

On one occasion, I phoned the man and then handed the phone to my wife. As she was talking with him, I spread her legs and started licking her clitoris, which she did NOT expect! I told her to tell him what I was doing. An extremely interesting phone call led to me witnessing her giving him the full works very enthusiastically indeed in our marital bed a few days later!

I always help her choose what to wear for her dates. If her attire is exceptionally sexy, I deliver her to her destination and pick her subsequently, when instructed.

So all of the above is COLLABORATIVE, which means it's Ethical Non Monogamy.

Cuckoldry on the other hand is when early on in our marriage my sexy petite wife allowed my motorcycle buddy to get his hands inside her panties at a party we both attended. But she never mentioned this, until about 2 years later when he cunningly arranged it so that he could see her on her own, get her slightly tipsy, then her jeans and panties were down around her ankles as he unloaded his balls inside her.

That was Cuckoldry! It both annoyed me and turned me on like hell too .. to such an extent that I actively encouraged them both to go on a date again about 18 months later.

LITTLE TIP .. soon after my wife had confessed that she'd cuckolded me, I was bringing her to orgasm .. and just as she was about to POP, I asked if she'd like Mick to do this with her?

Man, what a reaction that got! It made her orgasm incredibly intense. I therefore knew I had to get them together again!