FabSwingers.com forum: We don't really understand some swinging terms

By *inky Bear and Vics OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

Hi all. After a conversation last weekend with some friends we trying to figure out what the difference is between a Hot Wife and a Vixen. Does one only play with hubby present and the other play separately?

What's your definition and are there any others. We are relatively new.

By *rozac_fairyCouple
23 weeks ago

Tamworth

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
23 weeks ago

Tamworth

Traditionally...

A hotwife has a cuckold (the husband) who isn't allowed to be a part of the play, sometimes that can be via just chastity and he'll be able to perform clean up duties etc and sometimes it can include a level of humiliation. So they'll seek Bulls to satisfy her. Some of these dynamics go as far as the married couple not engaging in secual activity at all. It's very much a sliding scale.

A Vixen (again, traditionally) is a woman who plays with other men but her husband/partner doesn't play with other women. So MFM/MMF and what not is on the table but other women wouldn't be.

But on fab, I've noticed people just label themselves whatever they like the sound of.

By *inky Bear and Vics OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

Thank you, that's a clear explanation.