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"Anyone from Hertfordshire? If so where abouts? Let's get to know some locals xx" Harpenden here | |||
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"Not far from St Albans for me.." Just up the road from me I'm hatfield x | |||
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"Hatfield here, well... Sible lol" Omg, see what happens when you move home lol. Halstead lmao.. | |||
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"If there’s any local ladies or couples that would like to help out with my love of worn knickers please feel free to wink or message "How much? And will it be cash or vouchers? | |||
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"If there’s any local ladies or couples that would like to help out with my love of worn knickers please feel free to wink or message
How much? And will it be cash or vouchers? "Can be completely on your terms. Feel free to give me a message | |||
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"If there’s any local ladies or couples that would like to help out with my love of worn knickers please feel free to wink or message
How much? And will it be cash or vouchers?
Can be completely on your terms. Feel free to give me a message "It was a joke...  | |||
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"If there’s any local ladies or couples that would like to help out with my love of worn knickers please feel free to wink or message "Happy to do this but be warned I buy expensive lingerie | |||
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"If there’s any local ladies or couples that would like to help out with my love of worn knickers please feel free to wink or message
Happy to do this but be warned I buy expensive lingerie "From what I’ve just seen it looks exquisite! | |||
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"Anyone from Hertfordshire? If so where abouts? Let's get to know some locals xx" In Borehamwood.... | |||
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"We should arrange a Hertfordshire social?" Yes this would be brilliant! X | |||
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"I am in Watford, though play mostly in Birmingham, would be good to see you guys "What makes you play so far away? X | |||
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"I’ll come to a meet-up x " Well that's decided then
Where are we all going? Hatfield seems popular, are there clubs there? | |||
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"I’ll come to a meet-up x " Yeah me too | |||
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"We should arrange a Hertfordshire social? Yes this would be brilliant! X" Count me in | |||
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Reply here or message me directly and I'll report back.
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"I'm up for Feb 22 " Looks like me and you, then, Wolfie | |||
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"Great initiative. I'm in Hertford. Ok...to test the water, how about:- 7.30pm, Thursday 22nd February, in the huge 'Spoons in Hatfield, across from the Galleria? I think it is called Harpsfield Hall. It's fairly close to transport links, there is car parking onsite and there's a Travelodge across the road if folk wish to stay over for whatever reason .
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Nick "No time as half term but happy to meet another time | |||
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"No time as half term but happy to meet another time "Suspect half term will take a few of us out. How about same venue but 8-Feb? | |||
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"Bit of a sausage fest at the moment, no sociable ladies in Herts" More like a series of individual sausage solos in different places and on different days | |||
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"Great that somebody is trying to organise but think a few things that could do to make it work, especially if you want to attract ladies and couples. 1. Relying on this thread on Forum not enough. Create a thread in the meets/socials section, create meet event, stick on profile status, etc. Encourage others to do the same. Remember the vast majority of people on Fab never look at the Forum. 2. Don't disclose the venue publicly. Yes pick the town but and perhaps even let a few people know privately but don't disclose exact details until just before. As it stands anybody here could tell all their mates off site and could end up with anybody coming along and also somebody who wants to cause trouble flagging it with owners. I know nothing wrong with swingers meeting but lots of people want some discretion and privacy (especially ladies and couples). 3. Managed the guest list in some rather than a free for all. For example only allow a certain m/f ratio and only invite single men when got couples or ladies. Doesn't have to be 1 to 1 but not 10 to 1 either. Perhaps restrict to people with veris or Fab verified. Hope that is taken as constructive from somebody who has organised quite a few things and not criticism. It's great that somebody has taken the initiative and trying to make it happen. Wish more people around like this. " Thanks very much for your comments. Not taken as criticism at all (I think they were for me?), everything you've said makes sense. I hadn't thought about outsiders gate crashing......good point, well made. I just wonder whether you could be encouraged to take over the reins? You've done it before and I know you are itching to take control? | |||
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"Great that somebody is trying to organise but think a few things that could do to make it work, especially if you want to attract ladies and couples. 1. Relying on this thread on Forum not enough. Create a thread in the meets/socials section, create meet event, stick on profile status, etc. Encourage others to do the same. Remember the vast majority of people on Fab never look at the Forum. 2. Don't disclose the venue publicly. Yes pick the town but and perhaps even let a few people know privately but don't disclose exact details until just before. As it stands anybody here could tell all their mates off site and could end up with anybody coming along and also somebody who wants to cause trouble flagging it with owners. I know nothing wrong with swingers meeting but lots of people want some discretion and privacy (especially ladies and couples). 3. Managed the guest list in some rather than a free for all. For example only allow a certain m/f ratio and only invite single men when got couples or ladies. Doesn't have to be 1 to 1 but not 10 to 1 either. Perhaps restrict to people with veris or Fab verified. Hope that is taken as constructive from somebody who has organised quite a few things and not criticism. It's great that somebody has taken the initiative and trying to make it happen. Wish more people around like this. Thanks very much for your comments. Not taken as criticism at all (I think they were for me?), everything you've said makes sense. I hadn't thought about outsiders gate crashing......good point, well made. I just wonder whether you could be encouraged to take over the reins? You've done it before and I know you are itching to take control? "Lol no I’m not . I just don’t have the time at the moment and would struggle to commit 100% to a date in the next month or two. I was going to keep quiet and perhaps attend but then saw the emerging sausage fest Happy to help from the sidelines and could well attend with my lady friend in the end. I think I tried to message you but men were blocked. Drop me a message if would like to discuss anything. | |||
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"Great that somebody is trying to organise but think a few things that could do to make it work, especially if you want to attract ladies and couples. 1. Relying on this thread on Forum not enough. Create a thread in the meets/socials section, create meet event, stick on profile status, etc. Encourage others to do the same. Remember the vast majority of people on Fab never look at the Forum. 2. Don't disclose the venue publicly. Yes pick the town but and perhaps even let a few people know privately but don't disclose exact details until just before. As it stands anybody here could tell all their mates off site and could end up with anybody coming along and also somebody who wants to cause trouble flagging it with owners. I know nothing wrong with swingers meeting but lots of people want some discretion and privacy (especially ladies and couples). 3. Managed the guest list in some rather than a free for all. For example only allow a certain m/f ratio and only invite single men when got couples or ladies. Doesn't have to be 1 to 1 but not 10 to 1 either. Perhaps restrict to people with veris or Fab verified. Hope that is taken as constructive from somebody who has organised quite a few things and not criticism. It's great that somebody has taken the initiative and trying to make it happen. Wish more people around like this. Thanks very much for your comments. Not taken as criticism at all (I think they were for me?), everything you've said makes sense. I hadn't thought about outsiders gate crashing......good point, well made. I just wonder whether you could be encouraged to take over the reins? You've done it before and I know you are itching to take control?
Lol no I’m not . I just don’t have the time at the moment and would struggle to commit 100% to a date in the next month or two. I was going to keep quiet and perhaps attend but then saw the emerging sausage fest Happy to help from the sidelines and could well attend with my lady friend in the end. I think I tried to message you but men were blocked. Drop me a message if would like to discuss anything. "Thanks. I've messaged. | |||
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"There used to be a regular social in the sun in Hoddesdon but that’s going back a few years. Would be nice to have one local again " Well Nick tried… | |||
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"We are regularly in Hoddlesdon will be there this weekend." Welcome back to the Shire! | |||
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"My friends hertshunnies are organising a social for Hertfordshire people" Mmm looks interesting | |||
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"Anyone from Hertfordshire? If so where abouts? Let's get to know some locals xx" I'm in Welwyn Garden City. | |||
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can host a few people where I’m at… if interested in meeting feel free to message me | |||
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