FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for messaging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I'm AJ.

I'm pretty new to this site and the scene in general. I've messaged quite a few people so far but more often than not I don't get a reply. I was wondering if there's any tips or pointers successful men and women on here would have for me. I'm fine with chatting in person and on webcam but it seems i miss the mark when texting

By *CExeCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln/Exeter

Be polite, understand that couples and women on here get dozens of messages everyday. Read their profiles, be polite and don't be offended if you don't get a reply. Don't send unsolicited dick pics, or a one line message.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people will have a look at your profile before deciding if they’re going to reply. Things that would go against you for me:

- No publicly visible pictures. This would be an immediate no for a lot of people (don’t have to be face pictures but show a little personality. Not a dick pic)

- Generally not a lot about what you’re actually like or what you desire. There’s a lot of essentially saying that you’re down for whatever, which isn’t as much of a pull as people think it is. I avoid profiles like that because it puts all the work on me

- Women and couples are absolutely bombarded here. I’m mid at best and will still get two more messages while I’m reading one (and forget taking the time to reply) when my inbox is open. It’s exhausting sometimes tbh

By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

think your profile is great gives a sense of your personality..

You can still post pictures face cropped body pictures clothed in logged with your best assets forward but good luck your profile beats 75% on here with photos you'd be too marks.