FabSwingers.com forum: No sex Relationship

By *olfy2022 OP Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Should I look elsewhere it’s been three years now and counting.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably look elsewhere. This site is for people who do want sex.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In same situ - and not embarrassed to say I’ve paid for it. Have absolutely no guilt whatsoever as marriage is dead.

Best sex ever, I’ve done everything possible, things the wife would never do.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In same situ - and not embarrassed to say I’ve paid for it. Have absolutely no guilt whatsoever as marriage is dead.

Best sex ever, I’ve done everything possible, things the wife would never do.

And you got her pregnant. Congrats!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *llblueMan
over a year ago

Irvine

After three years, she's not going to change. Sorry to hear of your situation. Only you can change it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I look elsewhere it’s been three years now and counting."

Sex is a vital part of any relationship in my eyes.

Unless there's an underlying condition etc where she can't I'd explain that to her.

If she's just not attracted to you like that anymore you decide the next step!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I look elsewhere it’s been three years now and counting.

Sex is a vital part of any relationship in my eyes.

Unless there's an underlying condition etc where she can't I'd explain that to her.

If she's just not attracted to you like that anymore you decide the next step! "

Explain what to her?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I look elsewhere it’s been three years now and counting.

Sex is a vital part of any relationship in my eyes.

Unless there's an underlying condition etc where she can't I'd explain that to her.

If she's just not attracted to you like that anymore you decide the next step!

Explain what to her?

That sex is a vital piece of a relationship and that he's obviously not happy not getting any

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackolantern2022Man
over a year ago

sudbury

That sex is a vital piece of a relationship and that he's obviously not happy not getting any

Doesn't work, if has been 3 years it is not likely happen.

I have been I same situation for 12 years have had the sex is essential part of relationship.

Argument back was I don't need sex to show you I love you.

It is now not even worth mentioning it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I had a similar problem. It won’t go away. I left her.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Have you talked this through in a open and adult way with her? Do you have that level of openness to talk freely and from the heart in your relationship. Are you able to be yourself in general in your relationship? Apart from the sex is your relationship good and do you want to be in it?

Sometimes one half of the relationship isn't into sex. However that doesn't necessarily mean they are opposed to their other half fulfilling their fantasies. We all are individuals too in a relationship and sometimes desire different things. Their are plenty of people on fab who play with their partners blessings. Who wouldn't want the one they love not to be able to be themselves and enjoy what there is out there to offer?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Communication is key trying sitting down with her and expressing your true feelings and perhaps you could f8nd a way to fix your relationship or you may find that you are both looking for a way out

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many women suffer with menopause which can effect their sex drive…

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived for 6 years without sex. My then husband wasn’t open to talking about why he didn’t want it. I tried and tried. I suggested everything I possibly could. In the end I decided I couldn’t stay in a relationship where I wasn’t respected and there was no communication. I left and got divorced before I did anything else though.

Best thing I’ve ever done. I’ve experimented and done all sorts of things since. At the end of the day, life is too short to be miserable.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *witch 2022Man
over a year ago

everywhere

"Many women suffer with menopause which can effect their sex drive… "

Best left alone, diplomatically run ??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many women suffer with menopause which can effect their sex drive… "

Depends how old is other half in this situation. Sometimes women’s like to have some kind of lust without involving sex in it.kisses,hugs, holding hands, if you take this away from healthy relationship where is no sex life, there’s nothing left to fight for.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ich Guy HP10Man
over a year ago

HIGH WYCOMBE

Good comment, which hits home to many couples including myself.

For me to stop sitting on the fence and make a decision and just go with it, enjoy life.

Thankyou

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ich Guy HP10Man
over a year ago

HIGH WYCOMBE

Good comment, which hits home to many couples including myself.

For me to stop sitting on the fence and make a decision and just go with it, enjoy life.

Thankyou

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread