FabSwingers.com forum: Hard to meet with no verification?

By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Hi!

You've only been on by a few weeks! You are a mere beginner, as it can take months to get anywhere for any result.

Plus, the country is emerging from a pandemic, and some people are still wary about meeting.

This isn't an Instantshag site, if that's what you thought it could be, or what others may have led you to believe!

Tip! Look up the Forum pages Index for similar titled threads about No Meets etc and take note of all the advice given from other experienced folks.

By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

OP: Its basic maths. We're not unusual in that we don't do more than one meet per week, so four, maybe five each month. Half of those are with guys we already know, so we only need two, maybe three guys "new" guys each month.

Assuming we get 10 messages each day with offers (and it generally a lot more than that) then that's 300 per month....and we need only three of them. That's 1% - flip that round and that's 99% of your messages are probably going to the wrong people at the wrong time.

Be selective, message those that you know you're a fit for (by reading profiles) and keep your expectations realistic.

Verifications don't just show you're not a fake, they also show that you'll turn up, hence why cam verifications don't mean much. Get to a social or club, or just a coffee with a local member.

(Bry)

By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Easiest/best ways to get verified are - as we often say - go to a club or attend a social. Either way you'll meet people who will verify you.