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"Yep that’s a big no from me this fetish is steeped in racism, " Good thing the porn you watch isn’t steeped in misogyny. | |||
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"Yep that’s a big no from me this fetish is steeped in racism, Good thing the porn you watch isn’t steeped in misogyny. " Always some good 'ol white dude, tell 'them' black folks not to be offended. How do you know what porn he watches? I feel the same as he does, but I don't watch porn that involves men at all. I don't care what people's preferences / fetishes are - do what you do - live how you live. Just have the backbone to be honest about the nature of them. | |||
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"Mrs took a fancy for it but the guy that showed up wasn’t what was advertised so she’s been put off a little. Needs a better experience to get her back! " Get her going again put it on | |||
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"I like all colours, it's about variety. The contrast is beautiful in pictures" ... after all, variety is the spice of life | |||
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"Yep that’s a big no from me this fetish is steeped in racism, Good thing the porn you watch isn’t steeped in misogyny. Always some good 'ol white dude, tell 'them' black folks not to be offended. How do you know what porn he watches? I feel the same as he does, but I don't watch porn that involves men at all. I don't care what people's preferences / fetishes are - do what you do - live how you live. Just have the backbone to be honest about the nature of them. " | |||
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"My wife had her first blacked experience and did not disaapoint at all. In fact we invited over for a second and loved it. Now I look out for them" "Blacked experience"..the whole lexicon to describe interracial sex is embedded in archaic thinking, manipulated by the white controlled porn industry. What does being 'blacked' mean? What do the people who use such language actually think about black people? | |||
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"We are into bbc. Most of our friends are dark lads. Vixen and Stag scenario preferably. " | |||
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"My wife had her first blacked experience and did not disaapoint at all. In fact we invited over for a second and loved it. Now I look out for them "Blacked experience"..the whole lexicon to describe interracial sex is embedded in archaic thinking, manipulated by the white controlled porn industry. What does being 'blacked' mean? What do the people who use such language actually think about black people? " I'm not even black and I think its actually a really derogatory term "blacked" I get the masculinity of black males and the attraction but to call people "BBC" is fucking rude. Just look at the bios of people "only looking for bbc's" forget the rest of what comes with that person. | |||
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"Any chance you could tell that to the myriads of black guys on here who proudly display their cocks and call themselves bbc bull, donkey, horse, gorilla and ape - yes, really. " Yes, we know that..some black men buy into the stereotype to get their cocks wet without any consideration of the wider implications. | |||
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"My wife had her first blacked experience and did not disaapoint at all. In fact we invited over for a second and loved it. Now I look out for them "Blacked experience"..the whole lexicon to describe interracial sex is embedded in archaic thinking, manipulated by the white controlled porn industry. What does being 'blacked' mean? What do the people who use such language actually think about black people? I'm not even black and I think its actually a really derogatory term "blacked" I get the masculinity of black males and the attraction but to call people "BBC" is fucking rude. Just look at the bios of people "only looking for bbc's" forget the rest of what comes with that person." | |||
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"Any chance you could tell that to the myriads of black guys on here who proudly display their cocks and call themselves bbc bull, donkey, horse, gorilla and ape - yes, really. Yes, we know that..some black men buy into the stereotype to get their cocks wet without any consideration of the wider implications. " | |||
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"As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. " .............................. Maybe people are expressing an opinion based on their own life experiences which has shaped their personal views. They're perfectly entitled to express them, just as you are. | |||
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"As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. .............................. Maybe people are expressing an opinion based on their own life experiences which has shaped their personal views. They're perfectly entitled to express them, just as you are." Don’t disagree, but we seem to be in a ‘PC world’ where it’s almost ‘look at me, I’m so good’ because they get offended on others behalf’s ! In the meantime on here you’ve clubs advertising ‘Dark Desires’, ‘Coffee and Cream’ and ‘Queen Of Spades’ events, to name a few. | |||
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"As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. .............................. Maybe people are expressing an opinion based on their own life experiences which has shaped their personal views. They're perfectly entitled to express them, just as you are. Don’t disagree, but we seem to be in a ‘PC world’ where it’s almost ‘look at me, I’m so good’ because they get offended on others behalf’s ! In the meantime on here you’ve clubs advertising ‘Dark Desires’, ‘Coffee and Cream’ and ‘Queen Of Spades’ events, to name a few. " ............................ It's little to do with living in a 'PC world', that kind of reference trivialises a legitimate discussion that others are engaged in a meaningful way. It's an irony you appear offended by views different to your own yet deride others for taking offence on behalf of others (again trivialising views contrary to yours). Some may be virtue signalling, but it's irrelevant, being 'offended on behalf of others' is a good thing in my opinion, positive social change rarely comes about through the protests of the subject group alone, yet through history we've seen the consequences of the unaffected turning a blind eye. Me and my (black) husband have been involved in this lifestyle for many years and seen the changes, he no longer participates himself due to the increasing objectification and fetishisation of black men which he's experienced and doesnt regard positively (some black men do and thats a matter for them). There's much written on this subject (Dr Roberta Babb is worth Googling if you're interested). If people want to play with others of another race that's fine, but occasionally there will be questionable motives for wanting to do so. | |||
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"As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. " Spot on. I’m sure some Fabbers trawl the forums looking to be “offended” which then gives them an opportunity preach to others. I am sure there are far more “ Black” gents happy to use the BBC term to get their end away than those who don’t. As you say it’s a sex site, and these terms are part and parcel of the scene. | |||
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"As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. Spot on. I’m sure some Fabbers trawl the forums looking to be “offended” which then gives them an opportunity preach to others. I am sure there are far more “ Black” gents happy to use the BBC term to get their end away than those who don’t. As you say it’s a sex site, and these terms are part and parcel of the scene. " More good 'ol white folks, tell us black folks when we can and cannot be offended by terminology many of us deem offensive. Just because something appears to you to be part and parcel of a given scene, doesn't mean it should just be accepted. And just because some 'black gents' as you put it ignore the terminology doesn't mean that it is not offensive. Honestly, if you're racist (which you probably are by the sounds of it) just be honest and up front about it. Stop hiding behind your straw men. | |||
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"As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. Spot on. I’m sure some Fabbers trawl the forums looking to be “offended” which then gives them an opportunity preach to others. I am sure there are far more “ Black” gents happy to use the BBC term to get their end away than those who don’t. As you say it’s a sex site, and these terms are part and parcel of the scene. More good 'ol white folks, tell us black folks when we can and cannot be offended by terminology many of us deem offensive. Just because something appears to you to be part and parcel of a given scene, doesn't mean it should just be accepted. And just because some 'black gents' as you put it ignore the terminology doesn't mean that it is not offensive. Honestly, if you're racist (which you probably are by the sounds of it) just be honest and up front about it. Stop hiding behind your straw men. " | |||
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"Go tell it to them black folks then. Posters on here, including myself, have pointed to the majority of black guys who thrive on parading their dicks as something that defines them. Maybe the offended black people on here should start some counselling for all those black men who are happy to label themselves as hung donkeys. Their words, not ours. Leave them to their fun. They're adults and are quite in control of what they're doing. As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. Spot on. I’m sure some Fabbers trawl the forums looking to be “offended” which then gives them an opportunity preach to others. I am sure there are far more “ Black” gents happy to use the BBC term to get their end away than those who don’t. As you say it’s a sex site, and these terms are part and parcel of the scene. More good 'ol white folks, tell us black folks when we can and cannot be offended by terminology many of us deem offensive. Just because something appears to you to be part and parcel of a given scene, doesn't mean it should just be accepted. And just because some 'black gents' as you put it ignore the terminology doesn't mean that it is not offensive. Honestly, if you're racist (which you probably are by the sounds of it) just be honest and up front about it. Stop hiding behind your straw men. " OK, Karen. | |||
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"Go tell it to them black folks then. Posters on here, including myself, have pointed to the majority of black guys who thrive on parading their dicks as something that defines them. Maybe the offended black people on here should start some counselling for all those black men who are happy to label themselves as hung donkeys. Their words, not ours. Leave them to their fun. They're adults and are quite in control of what they're doing. As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. Spot on. I’m sure some Fabbers trawl the forums looking to be “offended” which then gives them an opportunity preach to others. I am sure there are far more “ Black” gents happy to use the BBC term to get their end away than those who don’t. As you say it’s a sex site, and these terms are part and parcel of the scene. More good 'ol white folks, tell us black folks when we can and cannot be offended by terminology many of us deem offensive. Just because something appears to you to be part and parcel of a given scene, doesn't mean it should just be accepted. And just because some 'black gents' as you put it ignore the terminology doesn't mean that it is not offensive. Honestly, if you're racist (which you probably are by the sounds of it) just be honest and up front about it. Stop hiding behind your straw men. OK, Karen." Can we name every white woman who thinks any black man should find them attractive simply because they are white a ‘Karen’ also? | |||
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"Go tell it to them black folks then. Posters on here, including myself, have pointed to the majority of black guys who thrive on parading their dicks as something that defines them. Maybe the offended black people on here should start some counselling for all those black men who are happy to label themselves as hung donkeys. Their words, not ours. Leave them to their fun. They're adults and are quite in control of what they're doing. As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. Spot on. I’m sure some Fabbers trawl the forums looking to be “offended” which then gives them an opportunity preach to others. I am sure there are far more “ Black” gents happy to use the BBC term to get their end away than those who don’t. As you say it’s a sex site, and these terms are part and parcel of the scene. More good 'ol white folks, tell us black folks when we can and cannot be offended by terminology many of us deem offensive. Just because something appears to you to be part and parcel of a given scene, doesn't mean it should just be accepted. And just because some 'black gents' as you put it ignore the terminology doesn't mean that it is not offensive. Honestly, if you're racist (which you probably are by the sounds of it) just be honest and up front about it. Stop hiding behind your straw men. OK, Karen. Can we name every white woman who thinks any black man should find them attractive simply because they are white a ‘Karen’ also?" Not sure what your point is. But of course - do what you want, it’s a free country. | |||
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"Not keen on the concept tbh. If I get turned on by someone then it's just that, don't matter if he's bumbee tartan. I'd balk at idea of someone wanting me just cause I was white. " It's an automatically blocked for me on those messages... who messages I've ever been w a little dick I've never been with a council tent etc I get that in my inbox daily..I've never been w a black chic..welcome to Scotland your chances shall remain rare good luck..blocked.. | |||
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"My wife had her first blacked experience and did not disaapoint at all. In fact we invited over for a second and loved it. Now I look out for them "Blacked experience"..the whole lexicon to describe interracial sex is embedded in archaic thinking, manipulated by the white controlled porn industry. What does being 'blacked' mean? What do the people who use such language actually think about black people? " You really don’t want to know one of my exes was very racist and she probably treated black people better than my “BBC loving” ex and a few ex-fbs and apparently when I broke things of with them its because I was racist and thought they were “ruined”. To them “blacked experience” meant throwing slurs around left right and centre and then there was that time they went way too far and apparently I was the bad guy for telling them they brought what happened upon themselves. But thats just my experience.Listen to others before coming to your own judgement | |||
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"Just to throw my to cents in. I get off on my girlfriend fancying guys who arent like me. So I'm thin, small dicked, terrible dancer, white, not flirty, not dom. So any guy who my girlfriend fancies who ticks a few 'opposite boxes' makes it better for me. So I do think a few couples go for a racist view of black guys. But for me it's all centered around just her fencing someone different. She tends to fancy white, black, latino. So black is the most opposite " See, this sort of thing makes much more sense to me. But you’re talking about the whole person which is the distinction often. | |||
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"Skimming through this thread and surprised that the QoS label hasn’t popped up. I think that is pretty offensive and surprised that the photos were women have this tattooed permanently or even temporarily don’t get removed. Would a KoS label, tattoo or kink if that’s how to describe it be considered offensive?" It wouldn't work because while alot of black men enjoy the attention from fetishisers, black women don't Hence why there's no weird terms that relate to black women and no events such as black women fan club | |||
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"Skimming through this thread and surprised that the QoS label hasn’t popped up. I think that is pretty offensive and surprised that the photos were women have this tattooed permanently or even temporarily don’t get removed. Would a KoS label, tattoo or kink if that’s how to describe it be considered offensive? It wouldn't work because while alot of black men enjoy the attention from fetishisers, black women don't Hence why there's no weird terms that relate to black women and no events such as black women fan club" So you’re saying because there is demand for women then QoS is acceptable and therefore not racist or offensive? Interesting | |||
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"Skimming through this thread and surprised that the QoS label hasn’t popped up. I think that is pretty offensive and surprised that the photos were women have this tattooed permanently or even temporarily don’t get removed. Would a KoS label, tattoo or kink if that’s how to describe it be considered offensive? It wouldn't work because while alot of black men enjoy the attention from fetishisers, black women don't Hence why there's no weird terms that relate to black women and no events such as black women fan club So you’re saying because there is demand for women then QoS is acceptable and therefore not racist or offensive? Interesting " I pretty sure that's not at all what I said I'll say it again since you didn't understand the first time Alot of black men enjoy the attention they get from FETISHISERS where as woman don't | |||
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"Ohh God yes one of my fantasy to be used by BBC " Mine too…. I’m kind of hooked on interracial poem nowadays | |||
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"Ohh God yes one of my fantasy to be used by BBC Mine too…. I’m kind of hooked on interracial poem nowadays" You look hot | |||
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"Ohh God yes one of my fantasy to be used by BBC Mine too…. I’m kind of hooked on interracial poem nowadays" I love poetry myself | |||
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"My wife can pick and choose whoever she likes, regardless of colour, but variety is the spice of life." Absolutely agree, in this day and age, variety is thee spice of life. We’ve made it a challenge to meet lads from each different continent, who either live in the Uk, or when we go away on holiday. | |||
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"My wife can pick and choose whoever she likes, regardless of colour, but variety is the spice of life." Yep the exact same for us ,colour race religion creed dosent matter to us if she fancys a guy thats all that matters to us | |||
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"Ohh God yes one of my fantasy to be used by BBC Mine too…. I’m kind of hooked on interracial poem nowadays I love poetry myself " Lol | |||
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"Go tell it to them black folks then. Posters on here, including myself, have pointed to the majority of black guys who thrive on parading their dicks as something that defines them. Maybe the offended black people on here should start some counselling for all those black men who are happy to label themselves as hung donkeys. Their words, not ours. Leave them to their fun. They're adults and are quite in control of what they're doing. As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. Spot on. I’m sure some Fabbers trawl the forums looking to be “offended” which then gives them an opportunity preach to others. I am sure there are far more “ Black” gents happy to use the BBC term to get their end away than those who don’t. As you say it’s a sex site, and these terms are part and parcel of the scene. More good 'ol white folks, tell us black folks when we can and cannot be offended by terminology many of us deem offensive. Just because something appears to you to be part and parcel of a given scene, doesn't mean it should just be accepted. And just because some 'black gents' as you put it ignore the terminology doesn't mean that it is not offensive. Honestly, if you're racist (which you probably are by the sounds of it) just be honest and up front about it. Stop hiding behind your straw men. " You are soad | |||
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"Go tell it to them black folks then. Posters on here, including myself, have pointed to the majority of black guys who thrive on parading their dicks as something that defines them. Maybe the offended black people on here should start some counselling for all those black men who are happy to label themselves as hung donkeys. Their words, not ours. Leave them to their fun. They're adults and are quite in control of what they're doing. As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. Spot on. I’m sure some Fabbers trawl the forums looking to be “offended” which then gives them an opportunity preach to others. I am sure there are far more “ Black” gents happy to use the BBC term to get their end away than those who don’t. As you say it’s a sex site, and these terms are part and parcel of the scene. More good 'ol white folks, tell us black folks when we can and cannot be offended by terminology many of us deem offensive. Just because something appears to you to be part and parcel of a given scene, doesn't mean it should just be accepted. And just because some 'black gents' as you put it ignore the terminology doesn't mean that it is not offensive. Honestly, if you're racist (which you probably are by the sounds of it) just be honest and up front about it. Stop hiding behind your straw men. You are soad" And that means? | |||
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"Go tell it to them black folks then. Posters on here, including myself, have pointed to the majority of black guys who thrive on parading their dicks as something that defines them. Maybe the offended black people on here should start some counselling for all those black men who are happy to label themselves as hung donkeys. Their words, not ours. Leave them to their fun. They're adults and are quite in control of what they're doing. As a cuckold couple we get a lot of messages from guys wanting to play that advertise themselves as BBC. A couple that we’ve met love the interracial element, in fact I’d say they’d got off on it. A lot will ask if my wife has ever been ‘blacked’ before. I’m not saying these terms are right or wrong, but what I will say, this is a sex site and these terms are used very, very frequently by the guys that others are getting offended for on here. Perhaps people need to stop getting offended on others behalf and just let people be offended for the things that affect them. Spot on. I’m sure some Fabbers trawl the forums looking to be “offended” which then gives them an opportunity preach to others. I am sure there are far more “ Black” gents happy to use the BBC term to get their end away than those who don’t. As you say it’s a sex site, and these terms are part and parcel of the scene. More good 'ol white folks, tell us black folks when we can and cannot be offended by terminology many of us deem offensive. Just because something appears to you to be part and parcel of a given scene, doesn't mean it should just be accepted. And just because some 'black gents' as you put it ignore the terminology doesn't mean that it is not offensive. Honestly, if you're racist (which you probably are by the sounds of it) just be honest and up front about it. Stop hiding behind your straw men. You are soad And that means?" Don't know ether | |||
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"Any chance you could tell that to the myriads of black guys on here who proudly display their cocks and call themselves bbc bull, donkey, horse, gorilla and ape - yes, really. " Could not agree with this more!!! | |||
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"Big fan of interracial as a white girl watching bbc in white women anyone else " I prefer it the other way around. | |||
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"Yep that’s a big no from me this fetish is steeped in racism, Good thing the porn you watch isn’t steeped in misogyny. Always some good 'ol white dude, tell 'them' black folks not to be offended. Hardly racist you total melt. If anything its quite the other way. You snowflakes eh How do you know what porn he watches? I feel the same as he does, but I don't watch porn that involves men at all. I don't care what people's preferences / fetishes are - do what you do - live how you live. Just have the backbone to be honest about the nature of them. " | |||
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"Maybe a dictionary definition of racism will help… RACISM - the belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another. By saying it’s ‘just a preference’ or ‘variety is the spice of life’ or ‘people are free to choose’ doesn’t change this definition. And yes, this is probably uncomfortable for some here. And yes, people of all ethnic groups can be racist, including those promoting themselves. But let’s not be in doubt about what this is… " It's not racist. You, someone whonis clearly Caucasian is more offended by someone of black herritage. Get a grip. | |||
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"Maybe a dictionary definition of racism will help… RACISM - the belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another. By saying it’s ‘just a preference’ or ‘variety is the spice of life’ or ‘people are free to choose’ doesn’t change this definition. And yes, this is probably uncomfortable for some here. And yes, people of all ethnic groups can be racist, including those promoting themselves. But let’s not be in doubt about what this is… It's not racist. You, someone whonis clearly Caucasian is more offended by someone of black herritage. Get a grip. " ------------------------ Yet you're Caucasian and commenting. | |||
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"Any chance you could tell that to the myriads of black guys on here who proudly display their cocks and call themselves bbc bull, donkey, horse, gorilla and ape - yes, really. Yes, we know that..some black men buy into the stereotype to get their cocks wet without any consideration of the wider implications. " Indeed - and who can blame them for feasting on all that delicious and willing white and pink pussy!! | |||
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"You can't beat the fun police ruining a good thread why do so many white people want to stop white women getting "blacked" and dress it up as protecting the poor defenceless blackman lol" –------------- It's the language used to describe the preference, not the preference. Being "blacked" is highly offensive and betrays how people really perceive people of colour. The views of everyone are important, not just black men, after all you're free to comment too. | |||
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"It's not racist. You, someone whonis clearly Caucasian is more offended by someone of black herritage. Get a grip. " My mother was white, my father black. And with respect, I doubt you’ve ever been the target of racial stereotyping or abuse. But sure… just perpetuate this crap in service of your fantasy life. | |||
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"Any chance you could tell that to the myriads of black guys on here who proudly display their cocks and call themselves bbc bull, donkey, horse, gorilla and ape - yes, really. Yes, we know that..some black men buy into the stereotype to get their cocks wet without any consideration of the wider implications. " Oh bore off Idiotic snowflake | |||
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"Any chance you could tell that to the myriads of black guys on here who proudly display their cocks and call themselves bbc bull, donkey, horse, gorilla and ape - yes, really. Yes, we know that..some black men buy into the stereotype to get their cocks wet without any consideration of the wider implications. Oh bore off Idiotic snowflake" It’s probably inevitable that you’d want to live vicariously through some racial power dynamic that will always exclude you… *yawn* | |||
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"You can't beat the fun police ruining a good thread why do so many white people want to stop white women getting "blacked" and dress it up as protecting the poor defenceless blackman lol" Totally agree! It's usually white men in the couple that feel the need to comment. I totally understand their feelings of inadequacy. | |||
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"You can't beat the fun police ruining a good thread why do so many white people want to stop white women getting "blacked" and dress it up as protecting the poor defenceless blackman lol Totally agree! It's usually white men in the couple that feel the need to comment. I totally understand their feelings of inadequacy." ---------------------------------- Inadequacy is a trait often found in racists. | |||
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"You can't beat the fun police ruining a good thread why do so many white people want to stop white women getting "blacked" and dress it up as protecting the poor defenceless blackman lol Totally agree! It's usually white men in the couple that feel the need to comment. I totally understand their feelings of inadequacy." You might feel differently if your teenage son had been the target of racial abuse… as a mother, my heart breaks when I see the kind of racist clichés he has to live with. And yes, even the ‘poor black man’ can have feelings of inadequacy… but again, I have lived through enough discrimination to know how it goes. | |||
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"Me and my ex went to Jamaica a good few years back as she wanted to try a bbc she had so many that holiday 1-1 and one time a group session with 3 guys she got hooked on bbc a year or so later we split she now lives with a black guy we’re still friends but she just loves bbc now so be careful what you wish for when fantasy becomes reality " -------------------------------------------- Maybe she loves the black man the cock is attached to? | |||
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"Me and my ex went to Jamaica a good few years back as she wanted to try a bbc she had so many that holiday 1-1 and one time a group session with 3 guys she got hooked on bbc a year or so later we split she now lives with a black guy we’re still friends but she just loves bbc now so be careful what you wish for when fantasy becomes reality " I'm sorry but I had to laugh reading this. So you think she left you bc she likes some other penis now? Maybe the person treats her better or she decided to end the relationship for legitimate reasons. No one just Wales up and suddenly goes "I like black cock now and will runaway with one". For example I like Asian girls and always have...no one has convinced me to runaway with one yet. I know loads of couples who prefer to play with black men and guess what....they're still together and probably planning their next meet as I type this. Black men are not just about one thing you know... | |||
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"My black gf told me I was much more endowed than any of her black boyfriends, so it's obviously a false stereotype to assume that ALL black men have bigger erections. Indeed, the biggest erection I've ever seen belonged to the owner of the 2nd largest electrical goods distributor in Leeds. His erection was easily 12" and very thick as well." -------------------------- Crikey the owner of the largest electrical goods distributor (in Leeds) must be very proud of himself | |||
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