FabSwingers.com forum: Just fun: Sussex /Kent /Surrey

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey, so I’m starting to think that this place is just about clubs! What ever happened to good spontaneous meets for fun, physical or social just good fun ????

By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

What happened? No shows mostly, people arranging to meet then ghosting or turning up looking like they got a lot older and changed body shape in the space of the last night or so.

When you think that some people go to the trouble of arranging babysitter, or paying for a hotel, and then getting stood up, clubs seem a much better option. As even if the meet doesn't turn up for the club/you can't find each other there or there is no chemistry, there are still other people that could be interested. Or at least there are club facilities you don't get at home.

I used to arrange to meet people at mine but then decided it's too much hard work, making sure they are very clear on when I am available etc. Nowadays, it's clubs only with new people, and 1:1 meets with regulars.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, yeah good valid points to be fair, just frustrated after another let down this morning lol, over it now x

By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Hi, yeah good valid points to be fair, just frustrated after another let down this morning lol, over it now x"

Ok. Hope you'll get your meet soon.