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By *oung Gunner OP   Man
over a year ago

Cleckheaton

When it comes to pleasing women does it really have to be about been 6” + to hold this amazing conversation, isn’t it about what’s in the heart that matters most , that someone cares and looks after you when your ill or holds your hair back when your throwing up , does it really have to be about competition?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Not long term but, for just a meet up probably

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"When it comes to pleasing women does it really have to be about been 6” + to hold this amazing conversation, isn’t it about what’s in the heart that matters most , that someone cares and looks after you when your ill or holds your hair back when your throwing up , does it really have to be about competition? "

What you are talking about sounds like a relationship, not swinging.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

I think you’ve posted your message on the wrong site.

This is a site for casual hookups and sex. I’m not sure many on here are looking for someone to hold their hair back whilst they throw up!

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By *oung Gunner OP   Man
over a year ago

Cleckheaton


"I think you’ve posted your message on the wrong site.

This is a site for casual hookups and sex. I’m not sure many on here are looking for someone to hold their hair back whilst they throw up!"

What I mean is , do we really need to be 6 foot + and an amazing conversation to meet someone ? is it such a big deal ? why can’t people thing ooh he’s lovely I would love to meet him .

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"I think you’ve posted your message on the wrong site.

This is a site for casual hookups and sex. I’m not sure many on here are looking for someone to hold their hair back whilst they throw up!

What I mean is , do we really need to be 6 foot + and an amazing conversation to meet someone ? is it such a big deal ? why can’t people thing ooh he’s lovely I would love to meet him . "

Sounds like you are looking for a date.

But at a guess people do think that sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it comes to pleasing women does it really have to be about been 6” + to hold this amazing conversation, isn’t it about what’s in the heart that matters most , that someone cares and looks after you when your ill or holds your hair back when your throwing up , does it really have to be about competition? "

Never new it was competition mate that’s just your perspective I think

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Who says you need to be 6ft?.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

The cold hard facts of this site and sites like this are that it isn't for everyone.

Just the way it is we guess and nothing will change.

It isn't a competition, it simply is what it is.

We said this on another site. Just because someone walks into a busy pub it doesn’t mean anyone in there will have sex with them.

That's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god I'm 6ft1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who says you need to be 6ft?."

You definitely don’t

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

The tread is about attraction, and there has to be attraction, you would'nt go with some one you were'nt attracted to.

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By *ustcurious1000Couple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Nope , for me need a spark to sleep with simple more so for a long term thing

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

OP, it's a swinging site. We all start off here looking for casual sex, we don't start off looking for a relationship, which is what you seem to be looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure any of that makes sense OP

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

Was that 6' or 6"?

Never was good with Imperial..

Think most people here are looking for fun and avoid what comes in-between.

They either like ya or they don't and best way to work that out is whether they reply or delete..

Sounds shallow but it's how it goes round here..

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By *oung Gunner OP   Man
over a year ago

Cleckheaton

I want fun thou but I don’t want to come across as a blunt person by saying fancy a f**k , I like to be polite all the time , I would love to meet someone from here, I know I can’t force anyone to meet , I struggle with sexual frustration & feel like I can’t talk to anyone without them thinking i’m a sleaze.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Attraction? Can't really see this coming from a couple, we are attracted to each other, though we sleep with couple's, it's just fun not attraction, we have both slept with people who we aren't remotely attracted to though still have lovely socials and plenty of fun with them and they have probably felt the same about us. It's swinging fun no more than that.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"I want fun thou but I don’t want to come across as a blunt person by saying fancy a f**k , I like to be polite all the time , I would love to meet someone from here, I know I can’t force anyone to meet , I struggle with sexual frustration & feel like I can’t talk to anyone without them thinking i’m a sleaze. "

We fully understand that you want sex.

Let's be honest nearly everyone on here is.

However the one thing we cannot control is if people find us attractive or not.

After all, attraction on a site like this is everything.

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By *oung Gunner OP   Man
over a year ago

Cleckheaton

I totally understand that. I totally love it , I love it more than wanting a relationship. The situation is I have my own flat but because I’m in a supported living environment I’ve been told that we have to be careful about who we have in the building because there is other people in here, as it’s alps in the tenancy agreement, which I admit is a pain in the arse when i’m a 37 yr old guy, yes I have a slight disability so what , we are all humans with needs .

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"I totally understand that. I totally love it , I love it more than wanting a relationship. The situation is I have my own flat but because I’m in a supported living environment I’ve been told that we have to be careful about who we have in the building because there is other people in here, as it’s alps in the tenancy agreement, which I admit is a pain in the arse when i’m a 37 yr old guy, yes I have a slight disability so what , we are all humans with needs . "

Agree with you totally OP, we are all equally human and have our needs.

But we have to find the way to fulfil those needs. Not every way is suitable for everyone.

A site like this doesn't take into account that you might well be a caring, nice guy. Initial attraction is almost everything.

That being said, over time we are almost always found attractive by someone else.

The art is having the patience to wait in our humble opinion.

Or try another way to fulfil your needs.

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