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"Can I be honest. There is no way I'd ever suggest to the subs I mentor meeting a guy that says don't want the long chats. To me it would suggest a wannabe. As a dominant will understand that the subs want to make sure that they can begin this. Also I tell them not to jump straight into anything that involves control. I'm not saying your like this but the reason things like this are suggested is because there are a lot of men out there that don't know the difference between dominance and abuse. And there is a big difference. Submission is a gift. Also I would be asking you things like how would I fit in with two other slaves and also be making sure that it was a slave you wanted and not a sub. As there is a difference. I know I get annoyed when someone refers to me as a sub. Cali - owned and collared slave of masterq81." h. | |||
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"Can I be honest. There is no way I'd ever suggest to the subs I mentor meeting a guy that says don't want the long chats. To me it would suggest a wannabe. As a dominant will understand that the subs want to make sure that they can begin this. Also I tell them not to jump straight into anything that involves control. I'm not saying your like this but the reason things like this are suggested is because there are a lot of men out there that don't know the difference between dominance and abuse. And there is a big difference. Submission is a gift. Also I would be asking you things like how would I fit in with two other slaves and also be making sure that it was a slave you wanted and not a sub. As there is a difference. I know I get annoyed when someone refers to me as a sub. Cali - owned and collared slave of masterq81." . Ok it might sound like a question but whats the difference between a sub and a slave? I'm just curious because the whole master/slave is something i really want to get more into | |||
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" Ok it might sound like a question but whats the difference between a sub and a slave? I'm just curious because the whole master/slave is something i really want to get more into" When not on my phone I will try to answer properly. There are many that won't use the title of slave but fit the dynamic of it. It's complicated but for me the difference is that I truly do not have the power. As I could defy my master but he would then end the relationship. So really would have no power. I also am property, precious and treasured but still owned. Master always has the final say. A think most subs hold more control on what happens. Where as for me no matter what it is I'd try my best to do it. I don't see myself as better than a sub though. Just a different choice. I have such freedom though without the responsibility of taking control. But I'm not a doorMat As master would have no fun in that. Of course some submissives will behave in the same way as I do but I think once you add owned to it then it's totally different Cali | |||
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